This evening between 1800 and 2000 hours, I visited four sites from the Cambridgeshire list (couldn't find the fifth one and didn't realise how close I was to the sixth), making two separate visits to two of the sites and saw nothing :confused: What am I doing wrong? Was I too early or too late or is this a bad time of year whilst car parks get shut early, or are Thursdays a bad night? Please assist me with my viewing times or preferably let me know when something is going on. I want to watch only and am a single male aged 29. I can make it to parts of Suffolk, Norfolk and Essex.
Thanks
I've been out every night, for at least 3 hours a night, this week.
I've seen nowt. Done nowt.
That's how it is too many times.
The last good night was last Saturday night when the car park had 3 couples in and some action (prats notwithstanding)
I usually inhabit 1 of 3 car parks and rarely drive through without stopping, and even more rarely drive up-and-down loads of times.
Normal couples have long since given up on car parks and usually try large leisure centre car parks for a leg over...they're better lit and single guys looking stand out...lots.
I know most of the places you'll have tried, and all of them are used....you just picked a wrong time or didn't stay long enough.
Most "action" starts past
Try a daytime visit/s, look for loads of tissues in one place (although if people follow advice there shouldn't be any....they don't though)...get to know "your" place. Get to know the other "regulars" (yes, there are some...)
Treat dogging as you would waiting for a bus....you wait hours for one and then three come all at once.
I know guys who wait all day...and still don't see anything.
Maybe you'll end up as one of them ?
Or maybe you'll be like other guys who get action every night.
It's up to you, learn the game and play it right...it takes time.
Oh, and radio2 is best to listen to at nights...it send me to sleep every time !
ive found that the above is always true its just a case of sit and wait.
some nights youll sit and twiddle your thumbs all night or see nothing but single blokes.
(must admit there have been nights i wished i liked blokes)
try taking a book if you are in the car park on your own for a bit just flick on the light and read. when someone comes in they can see who you are then you can flick the light of.
Jomu I cant listen to radio 2 at night it would send me into a coma and id get woken up by the park patrol at 6am.
sometimes its not always about the kill just enjoy the hunt,
Oh, well I get woken-up by the police...usually at about
Just time to get to another location, then turn to radio 1 and get some decent music.
take a family bag of sweets
As per instructions, I picked one location only (I found it this time thanks to remembering my street atlas) arrived at 2115, switched off lights and waited and waited. Some people pulled in and straight out again, others waited longer, I gave up at 0030 hours this am, when too cold to stay any longer.
Notes for next time. Wear thick winter socks, long johns and bring a flask of tea. As it took an hour to get back and that was with empty roads, I am not sure if I can be bothered to go all that way again.
Any encouragement/advice folks?
I was also nervy about turning my interior light on and was absolutely petrified when I left my car to investigate some lights being flashed about (Just some youths with loud music, shining the torch about to show off their car)
but did you take a bag of STARBURST.
Thanks for that willing but nervous. I am only about 130miles from Stafford but the roads are quite good save for the appalling M6 section through Birmingham where last time I was sat in the outside lane with the handbrake on, although when I travelled to Manchester for the evening, I was at least certain that the concert I was attending was going to happen as opposed to a dogging meet which may not.
What number is your advert so I can have a look. Hope it works out for you and let me know if you are up to being watched in the future.
Once I get my photo scanned in, there are a few local adverts to reply to so hopefully I will get somewhere.
Rather amusingly, when I nipped down to my local supermarket this evening for some milk there was a young couple at it with her blaring the horn everytime she hit the steering wheel, but I didn't fancy being caught in the well-lit car park. Their mate parked up in his car next to them seemed to be enjoing it! This being a fifteen minute venture as opposed to yesterdays fruitless five and a halfhour jaunt!
Next one was deserted and I nearly got my car stuck in the mud :doh: Onto the next which was locked up so just had to drive back to the previous one where I parked up, turned off my lights and patiently waited for about fifteen minutes. (Not too good at this waiting game).
