Hi there, took my wife for the first time to burton wood area, when we got there it was full of men, as it was or first time we decided to just play with each other, after a few mins someone watching started banging our window, we ignored then finished what we were doing and left, the guy then decided to follow us... he made my wife feel nervous trying to flag us down alot, is this normal ? do women go dogging ?
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Hi there, took my wife for the first time to burton wood area, when we got there it was full of men, as it was or first time we decided to just play with each other, after a few mins someone watching started banging our window, we ignored then finished what we were doing and left, the guy then decided to follow us... he made my wife feel nervous trying to flag us down alot, is this normal ? do women go dogging ?
Well now from what I can read and see, you joined on the 15th and did not ask on here for advice on your local dogging locations befor your first trip out.
Burtonwood has been a no go area for well over 12 months along with a few more around the same area.
It's a pity your wife had to go through the ordeal but at all the well known spots that seems to be the norm these days.
It now takes time and patience and my advice is to read the forums on here and take advice on the local dogging areas away from boy racers and DOM (not all men are DOM by the way)
Best of luck to you both +
Fred (not a dogger but I do read the news lol)
ps :- live just across "the bridge" from you.
Sex God
Quote by widnescouple
is this normal ?
Yes.
Well, sometimes.
If you don't like what someone is doing, drive away. Preferably running the dickhead(s) over in the process
Widnescouple:
try dry-running the place/s first, visit in daytime and then after dark....get the feel of the place and the guy/s there.
If you only want to play with couples, don't bother with dogging sites, you have no chance of being alone.
BlueXXX:
I've noticed the return of your vicious streak lately....running people over is anti-social, and liable to damage the car running gear and bodywork.
try dry-running the place/s first, visit in daytime and then after dark....get the feel of the place and the guy/s there.
If you only want to play with couples, don't bother with dogging sites, you have no chance of being alone.
BlueXXX:
I've noticed the return of your vicious streak lately....running people over is anti-social, and liable to damage the car running gear and bodywork.
Orgasminator
Quote by bluexxx
is this normal ?
Yes.
Well, sometimes.
If you don't like what someone is doing, drive away. Preferably running the dickhead(s) over in the process
:laughabove: Blue we love you, please never never ever change your style of people management it is so refreshing.
We also would like to know why is it wrong the forearm some one in the back of the head if they are irritating.
sorry to here that your 1st time out was spoilt by yet another idiot.
The place you went to is a bad one 90% of time its full of gay blokes other 10% its full of idiots. I was at another place not to far away from there last night and same happened there. I and 2 other long timers were waiting for a couple who we knew liked to play, to signal to us but idiot guy drove straight onto site lit up there car with full beam and then parked so close he could not open his door to get out, needless to say he got told to fxxk off by couple, but Mr idiot guy was not happy with this and drove away only to come back less than 5 mins later and do same again. This time he managed to piss couple right off and they left.... spoilt it for everyone. Why dont they learn the rules a little bit first. Was at that place till 3am but due to idiot guy and his cruising mates went home just tired from lack of sleep.
1st rule of dogging
The lady makes all the rules
if you want to chat mail me back
thanks TFL
The place you went to is a bad one 90% of time its full of gay blokes other 10% its full of idiots. I was at another place not to far away from there last night and same happened there. I and 2 other long timers were waiting for a couple who we knew liked to play, to signal to us but idiot guy drove straight onto site lit up there car with full beam and then parked so close he could not open his door to get out, needless to say he got told to fxxk off by couple, but Mr idiot guy was not happy with this and drove away only to come back less than 5 mins later and do same again. This time he managed to piss couple right off and they left.... spoilt it for everyone. Why dont they learn the rules a little bit first. Was at that place till 3am but due to idiot guy and his cruising mates went home just tired from lack of sleep.
1st rule of dogging
The lady makes all the rules
if you want to chat mail me back
thanks TFL
Quote by widnescouple
Hi there, took my wife for the first time to burton wood area, when we got there it was full of men, as it was or first time we decided to just play with each other, after a few mins someone watching started banging our window, we ignored then finished what we were doing and left, the guy then decided to follow us... he made my wife feel nervous trying to flag us down alot, is this normal ? do women go dogging ?
that sort of thing does happen i'm afraid, especially at the larger sites..the guys in question have no interest in your show, they seek only a bj or shag, fine in itself, but for them, "getting in first" is everything. more often than not, the couple leave..then, in their desperate ignorance, dickwad dogger takes the gesture as a "follow me"..every indication or brake light acting as confirmation..they get away with the behaviour, because, ignoring the fact that the approach occassionally works, most doggers and newbie couples tend not to be confrontational or aggressive..its simply not what they are out for..personally, i'd advocate twatting the idiot in the cunting gob with a lump hammer if you are so inclined, but for most of these guys, most of the time, there is nothing to lose and everything to gain..on the other hand, he might have only wanted you to clear the misted up window
no, we call these guys "flange seeking missiles", and in our limited experience, most larger venues have some..many are social lepers that would struggle to get laid in a brothel with two 50 quid notes sticking out of their arses..but on the whole, the most annoyingly persistent fuckwits we've encountered have tended to be business executives in silver saloons :lol: :lol: that sort of thing does happen i'm afraid, especially at the larger sites..the guys in question have no interest in your show, they seek only a bj or shag, fine in itself, but for them, "getting in first" is everything. more often than not, the couple leave..then, in their desperate ignorance, dickwad dogger takes the gesture as a "follow me"..every indication or brake light acting as confirmation..they get away with the behaviour, because, ignoring the fact that the approach occassionally works, most doggers and newbie couples tend not to be confrontational or aggressive..its simply not what they are out for..personally, i'd advocate twatting the idiot in the cunting gob with a lump hammer if you are so inclined, but for most of these guys, most of the time, there is nothing to lose and everything to gain..on the other hand, he might have only wanted you to clear the misted up window no, we call these guys "flange seeking missiles", and in our limited experience, most larger venues have some..many are social lepers that would struggle to get laid in a brothel with two 50 quid notes sticking out of their arses..but on the whole, the most annoyingly persistent fuckwits we've encountered have tended to be business executives in silver saloons :lol: :lol:
Funny you should mention that, he was in a BMW.... LOL
equaly I have put a advert on the fourm for a meet with couple to chat see what happens, had 5 single guys reply so far ! I can only asume that most males have reading problems due to too much masterbation of the though of a women enjoying herself ?
we all live and learn.....
no, we call these guys "flange seeking missiles", and in our limited experience, most larger venues have some..many are social lepers that would struggle to get laid in a brothel with two 50 quid notes sticking out of their arses..but on the whole, the most annoyingly persistent fuckwits we've encountered have tended to be business executives in silver saloons :lol: :lol:Funny you should mention that, he was in a BMW.... LOL
equaly I have put a advert on the fourm for a meet with couple to chat see what happens, had 5 single guys reply so far ! I can only asume that most males have reading problems due to too much masterbation of the though of a women enjoying herself ?
we all live and learn.....
Yes: Quite.
In fact, many of the replies you'll get from "couples" will be from single guys who arrive on their own with the novel (to them) explanation of "sorry, the fem couldn't make it....womens problems"
Which is why many couples insist on making phone contact first to check there is a female part to the equation.
As you said, not too much thought going on in their heads...probably because the brain space is occupied by bollocks.
In fact, many of the replies you'll get from "couples" will be from single guys who arrive on their own with the novel (to them) explanation of "sorry, the fem couldn't make it....womens problems"
Which is why many couples insist on making phone contact first to check there is a female part to the equation.
As you said, not too much thought going on in their heads...probably because the brain space is occupied by bollocks.
Warming the Bed
It happened to us tonight just got back. Went to this one place, we were sitting there. It was the usual everyone sitting there watching everyone else. No one wanting to get started first. So we toke the bull by the horns so to speak and decided to start. One bloke could see what we were doing so came in for a closer inspection. That was OK but then more turned up, so we stopped not feeling comfortable with this and then in the end decided to leave. This one guy followed us, thought it would only be for a mile or 2 and then he would get the hint. But ohhh no, so we tried to loose him by going round roundabouts 2 or 3 times going at 80 mph and he still followed. 10 miles later and he is still behind us. You think he would get the hint. If he reads this he will know who he is and I have to tell him he is a prick. Eventually found somewhere and got it on in the end.
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Hi there, took my wife for the first time to burton wood area, when we got there it was full of men
Good advice given about but I'm curious about your opening comment..........what were you expecting from a dogging area if not a lot of guys? Not a criticism of you, but it would be interesting to know what your expectation was and why.
hi there all,its the wife of the widnes couple here,i would just like to say thanks for all your help and advice ,i was a little put off by the mad crazy fool that followed us but i am still very interested but a lttle shy, so when i feel brave again and want to go out ,i will ask about for the best places and hopefully it will be better next time thanks again 
