Hi to you both - great comments and good to know that I'm not barking up the wrong tree (no pun intended!)
A week on - two trips - my patience is getting better!
Hope you're enjoying the warm evennings...
T
Timo
Like me it sounds like you are looking for a genuine, exciting and shared erotic experience, as (I hope) are the couples who show. But out there in the wild it can feel very much like you are on your own.
I suspect I may well have loitered in the same places as you, or not far off. Patience is so important. I have always 'walked' away if I wasn't comfortable, and I am almost sure that I've missed out once or twice because of this. But I've also once been chased out of a car park and followed for miles by a couple who really were NOT wanting to be watched (even though they were obviously and quite openly having sex in a place well frequented by the dogging community). The best night ever was when I pulled in and saw a car with movement in it, oviously a couple who were just enjoying themselves regardless. I approached carefully on the basis that they must have seen my lights and would react if I wasn't welcome. They were happy to be watched. It was all about timing - complete luck.
I have since been in a relationship with a girl who was tempted to show off. This gave me some more perspective on the feelings and fears for those being watched for the first time. It could be quite nerve-wracking. (We never got further than an open hotel room window.)
I think you just have to trust to luck and take care of yourself. Don't try to force it. Approach carefully and try to work out what's really going on. Even if a couple are interested, they might just not feel right at that particular time. You may have many many hours waiting. Just stay safe and try not to make assumptions. It is very easy to see what you want to see and not what is really there! Good luck.
Re.
what a fantastic topic as a newbie myself the info is very welcome because no decent person wants to offend
im a single fem who goes dogging,
sometimes i go alone cuse i just like to watch, sometimes i go as a couple cuse we just like to watch,
dont presume cuse there is a female in the car they are going to be playing not watching.
when i go to play i tend to put a forum post or ad up, now i know some will say this isnt true dogging, but with the ratio of people in cormwall into this, the amount of locations, hours in a evening i find it the best bet to get some action.
if im playing we will always park so we can see whos entering the car park (police watch etc) and always facing out so we can drive off safely and timely should we need to.
i always take condoms, wet wipes and kitchen roll, and always take my mess home with me.
if when playing we want watchers only then we tend to keep doors shut and windows mostely up. if i want hands in etc i will wind window down.
if more we sometimes get out and move to back seats or over bonnet... howver this still isnt always invite to the watchers to join in.
NEVER get into a person car with out the nod, its quite simple say do you mind if i get in, they will either say yes or no or not reply, dont get in if they dont reply.
remember your own safety, should you decide to get into a car/van etc.
i may want watchers to join in when setting out dogging, but that watcher may just not do it for me.
then i wont.
so as has already been said its not so cut and dry,
but i like your post and style, good luck, have fun and keep safe
xxx fem xx
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If not, back off.
I've forgotten how it all works now 
It'll come to me :lol:
:lol: I get carried away and have to wind my neck in sometimes, but then I do the same during sex, which is why i'm currently looking into the evolutionary theory of "survival of the fastest" :lol: I.E, ejaculating quickly would have been advantageous to my ancestors, given that his woman would have less time to escape..Hence my descendancy from a long line of pre-mature ejaculators :lol: 