What happened to the respect in dogging?

15 Aug 2006

Going to sound old now... I'm not, promise!!
Went out for the first time for a long time on friday night, nr exeter and watched a lot of people driving around and aound, lights blazing into peoples windows, parking right next to couples etc... sat there and watched all this for a while, then started talking to a couple and another dogger about it. after all the silly people had gone home the couple invited me and my friend to join them...we had a very enjoyable time (if you are reading this thankyou again!) but it proves that if you show common sense and show respect you are treated with the same, and everybody is happy...is there any wonder that many meets now are pre-arranged, taking a lot of fun out of it?
I know I've prob. opened a can of worms, but think it has to be said
Postie

15 Aug 2006

The bloke in this thread was saying the same wink

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/85575.html
Mods edit - its called a sticky submit button :wink: all sorted now!

15 Aug 2006

I think one thing that's making it difficult for serious doggers are the muppets who post exact locations in here. Word then gets around to the killjoys and boy racers who think it's great fun to sabotage other people's enjoyment.

15 Aug 2006

must admit, the internet, and the tabloids have not helped much at all... what are we to do?

15 Aug 2006

It's because too many blokes think it's their RIGHT to be given a show, and that they can do as they like, and hassle who they like while dogging, after all - dogging is for THEIR enjoyment rolleyes

........................ not the couples

15 Aug 2006

Quote by Jon
It's because too many blokes think it's their RIGHT to be given a show, and that they can do as they like, and hassle who they like while dogging, after all - dogging is for THEIR enjoyment ........................ not the couples

Well said. wink

15 Aug 2006

I agree totally... always respect the couple and put the woman 1st

16 Aug 2006

Dogging is something we have wanted to try for a while and was on the top of our list for when i finally passed my test and got a car but after hearing some of the tails of what can happen it puts us of sad

But as in everything, i suppose theres always some bad points too.
Tony wink

16 Aug 2006

Quote by Jon
It's because too many blokes think it's their RIGHT to be given a show, and that they can do as they like, and hassle who they like while dogging, after all - dogging is for THEIR enjoyment ........................ not the couples

:thumbup: well said that man

16 Aug 2006

Quote by Jon
It's because too many blokes think it's their RIGHT to be given a show, and that they can do as they like, and hassle who they like while dogging, after all - dogging is for THEIR enjoyment ........................ not the couples

spot on !!!!!!!!!!

16 Aug 2006

I agree, ive been to a dogging site a few times and havent seen anything yet, but before I even thought about taking my 1st trip, I read and re-read the "etiquette" to be ready.
Just need the blooming doggers to turn up now lol
But as I always say, each cloud has a silver lining, ive managed to read The Da Vinci Code, and Demons and Angels (with my light on of course ;)) lol
One day my time will come hehe

18 Aug 2006

Quote by NYCSavage
I agree, ive been to a dogging site a few times and havent seen anything yet, but before I even thought about taking my 1st trip, I read and re-read the "etiquette" to be ready.
Just need the blooming doggers to turn up now lol
But as I always say, each cloud has a silver lining, ive managed to read The Da Vinci Code, and Demons and Angels (with my light on of course ;)) lol
One day my time will come hehe

This man deserves a medal
sitting on a dark car park reading about mad murdering monks
NO WAY bolt

18 Aug 2006

Agree with you postie. Took my lady out the other night for the first time just to get used to being out. went to a local site I use regularly and introduced her to some regulars. She wasn't up for a play but felt far more relaxed when we left. Good job she didn't see the idiot following us out with his lights out. If you're reading this mate I spotted you as soon as we hit the main road and if I ever see you again you have more chance of getting pregnant than getting a show off of us. The lads in the car park have also noted your details and will pass them round to the regular couples. The only advice that any newbie needs is to read the etiquette before ever leaving the house.

19 Aug 2006

I think they did just the right things....talk then wait...give the real doggs a chance and let the others get home to mummy before the witching hour.
I ain't got a problem with that, anyone ?

19 Aug 2006

Spot on J . Same as it ever was.
The trouble with dogging in 1981 is......... too many doggers/ not enough doggers /not enough couples/same couples all the time/ rudeness / liars/ police harrassment / doggers who dont show enough respect / doggers who sit in their car and dont approach / doggers who approach too quickly and scare you / overcrowding / newbies /old timers/ DELETE AS APPLICABLE
The trouble with dogging in 2006 is......... too many doggers/ not enough doggers /not enough couples/same couples all the time/ rudeness / liars/ police harrassment / doggers who dont show enough respect / doggers who sit in their car and dont approach / doggers who approach too quickly and scare you / overcrowding / newbies /old timers/ DELETE AS APPLICABLE

20 Aug 2006

Quote by NYCSavage
Just need the blooming doggers to turn up now lol

And there was me thinking that the doggers are the watchers....been wrong for over 30 years.... sad

20 Aug 2006

Quote by jomu

Just need the blooming doggers to turn up now lol

And there was me thinking that the doggers are the watchers....been wrong for over 30 years.... sad

Lol, I told u I was new to this, if the doggers are the watchers/w*nkers (delete as appropriate ;) ) then who are the "entertainers"? lol

20 Aug 2006

Quote by NYCSavage
Lol, I told u I was new to this, if the doggers are the watchers/w*nkers (delete as appropriate ;) ) then who are the "entertainers"? lol

Ahh.
They would be "those who shall be praised" "players" "show-ers"
etc.

20 Aug 2006

I dont normal post in forums as you can see from my (post count) but reading this I feel I have to.
I had gone out with a female friend to a park for a walk and a chat, like you should be able to at any time. It was lunch time and we still ended up being followed and watched by a few single blokes and a couple. I was showing no intrest in dogging just out for a walk with a friend mad

. I have been on the sceine for a while but to the best of my knowlage my female friend has not! It has to have been the worst lunch time walk i can imagine every one keeps on about boy-racers, but some of the people out there are a pain in the arse!! Get the hint, not every one that goes to the park or the woods are open for any form of dogging
Sorry had to get this off my mind. Please have fun be safe and respect others!!!

21 Aug 2006

Quote by jim_2342003
Get the hint, not every one that goes to the park or the woods are open for any form of dogging
Sorry had to get this off my mind. Please have fun be safe and respect others!!!

And what was the response of the people concerned when you told them that Jim?

21 Aug 2006

Quote by Serendipity
Get the hint, not every one that goes to the park or the woods are open for any form of dogging

And likewise the nudist beaches -
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/85601.html
On a similar note, I recently stopped in a car park in all innocence out with my youngest son. We were surrounded within seconds :shock: evil

Do this new breed of dogger *really* think anything would be going in in broad daylight and with people of all ages walking about shopping/taking in the view/going for a walk in the fresh air ffs?
They swiftly moved off when 6' 3" of young lad got out of the car, but they just moved away to the next arriving car confused

I can imagine the changes to the scene Jomu must have witnessed over 30 years :shock: We've certainly seen some in less than four :?
TJ

21 Aug 2006

On a similar note, I recently stopped in a car park in all innocence out with my youngest son. We were surrounded within seconds

OMG
Am I reading REDHOT'S reply as above properly...............
A sentence from Redhot with the word
" INNOCENCE"
:angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel:
This has to be, in ALL, the years I have known her the first time ever she has attributed herself to the word innocence
Words hacve almost failed me!!!!!
Only joking TJ hun
Hugs and all things nice
Funin
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