this forum seems to be inactive lately, im not sure what to make of it.. i thought DOGGING was meant for the enjoyment of a group.. i think we can ALL thank the people that cannot be DISCREET, i knew it was gonna happen it was just a matter of time, i do know of a cpl of places left within the beds area.. but i WONT be passing them onto others for the sheer fact that i want to be able to enjoy them, its hard enough be a "single" male in the dogging era without people who have no care for other people requests.. i dont mean to sound too hasty but i would like to put my point across.. hope i havent offeneded anyone with this post but if i did it was not intended, although i do still wish to put my point across.. thanks for reading this, and hope it may help this forum b4 its TOO LATE!!....... :shock:
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Whats Happened!!??
Exactly.
What "point" ARE you trying to get across ?
"dogging" has been going-on for millenia....they just didn't have car parks way back when !
You can see "doggers" in chinese erotic art...from when china was civilised and the rest of us were bashing each others heads in with mammoth bones !
I think "it" will survive the inet era....
What "point" ARE you trying to get across ?
"dogging" has been going-on for millenia....they just didn't have car parks way back when !
You can see "doggers" in chinese erotic art...from when china was civilised and the rest of us were bashing each others heads in with mammoth bones !
I think "it" will survive the inet era....
Oh well, he thinks it's a secret !
Obviously hasn't read the "doggers guide" ...........
Or the bit on the side of this screen "DOGGING LOCATIONS"
As for secret locations in beds.....forget it.....Rowney warren used to be everyones "secret" location...except I've dogged it for 20 years now...and it's crawling with wasters from the "secret" spy base a half mile away....
I think the nudes of the world may have a few problems figuring things out, but everyone else and their dog knows what and where.....
Obviously hasn't read the "doggers guide" ...........
Or the bit on the side of this screen "DOGGING LOCATIONS"
As for secret locations in beds.....forget it.....Rowney warren used to be everyones "secret" location...except I've dogged it for 20 years now...and it's crawling with wasters from the "secret" spy base a half mile away....
I think the nudes of the world may have a few problems figuring things out, but everyone else and their dog knows what and where.....
sorry people for not replying sooner but ive been busy of late, the point in which i was trying to make is that when i 1st stumbled upon this forum i was looking at back-dated post(s) inwhich people have posted about meet ups etc ect... and after the event they would repost, and on average 90% of the reposts was a brief description of how fun it was but would end in someone getting to close to the action a sort of spoil it, now my personal oppinion if i was a 1st time couple and this happened to me, i would feel quite violated by it, as do others (which i have read in posts b4) which leads me to my second point, of "what happened to this forum" i noticed that there was hardly any post and if it was, it was a single guy new to this looking for etc etc which is all well but not quite what i intended on viewing. no- offence to these people. but thats mostly all i read... hope you can make hear and tail of this. thanks all and hope things improve
I think that Roodboy is saying that having read back issue posts that discuss the problems with over zealous guys ruining couples play by chasing them about in cars or almost parking on top of them etc etc he has decided not to share some of his favourite haunts, which is quite understandable. In my opinion he's also saying that there arn't as many post these days that follow up successful dogging experiences, but only posts from newbies asking for info about the rules or asking where to go which is disappointing.
Hope i've got it right, i'm sure that Roodboy will inform me if not.
Please people, try and be a little patient with others posting as they may not be quite as computer literate as you or as eloquent, but that doesn't mean their comments are worth any less.
Take Care all
enchantress
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Hope i've got it right, i'm sure that Roodboy will inform me if not.
Please people, try and be a little patient with others posting as they may not be quite as computer literate as you or as eloquent, but that doesn't mean their comments are worth any less.
Take Care all
enchantress
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I've re-read the whole lot....I maybe getting the point.
He thinks that others fun is being ruined by to many peeps being over-enthusiastic.
In that, he may have a point.
I, however, take an opposing view.
It's not over-enthusiasm, it's sheer bloody-mindedness. They MEAN to break the situation up. It's the old "if I can't get it, neither will you" attitude.
In fact, that atitude and a general disinterest in keeping to any sort of rule of behaviour, has led to many good sites being nothing more than race tracks for people with more petrol money than brains.
Mind you, the trend to happily blab to the press and other media for a ten minute spot on a late night weirdos' show has also sodded things up !
I was chatting on the phone on saturday night to a couple who went to RHS wisley gardens...which was packed to the seams...with doggers...a smattering of TVs' and a few couples. Good to see some things never change !!!
And if roodboy doggs the brogborough site, I probably know his car number...he's probably the same bloke who also doggs the A6 site....in which case he needs to lighten up...
The "rules of engagement" are not written in blood (more like shit) but the general rule is to wait until invited...be seen...and don't walk about with your dick hanging out (!)...take some beer with you...and then if there ain't a couple about you can chat with the other doggs about the old days...when men were men...and don't forget the rubbers...you never know !!
He thinks that others fun is being ruined by to many peeps being over-enthusiastic.
In that, he may have a point.
I, however, take an opposing view.
It's not over-enthusiasm, it's sheer bloody-mindedness. They MEAN to break the situation up. It's the old "if I can't get it, neither will you" attitude.
In fact, that atitude and a general disinterest in keeping to any sort of rule of behaviour, has led to many good sites being nothing more than race tracks for people with more petrol money than brains.
Mind you, the trend to happily blab to the press and other media for a ten minute spot on a late night weirdos' show has also sodded things up !
I was chatting on the phone on saturday night to a couple who went to RHS wisley gardens...which was packed to the seams...with doggers...a smattering of TVs' and a few couples. Good to see some things never change !!!
And if roodboy doggs the brogborough site, I probably know his car number...he's probably the same bloke who also doggs the A6 site....in which case he needs to lighten up...
The "rules of engagement" are not written in blood (more like shit) but the general rule is to wait until invited...be seen...and don't walk about with your dick hanging out (!)...take some beer with you...and then if there ain't a couple about you can chat with the other doggs about the old days...when men were men...and don't forget the rubbers...you never know !!
Jomu
I agree.
Everybody needs to lighten up.
Dogging should be fun not done out of desperation.
I have had success because I wait and watch from the car until a couple arrive and indicate a signal I usually then leave my interior light on until asked.
If they do not ask then I wait a while and move on and leave.
So many car parks are full of doggers just circling cars on foot trying to act subtle???. But in reality all we see is loads of men approaching darkened cars and this is a desperate move the couple see it and the patient doggers in the cars see it and the couple on many occasions just drive off.
Subtlety and calm patience is key here.
Also fellow doggers you do not have the god given right to success just because you drive into a dogging car park.
If you cannot control your horny feelings go to a massage parlour or buy a porno anxiety and tension shows through by stupid actions.
The experiences I have had with couples has been when I have accepted nothing is going to happen and just left my light on and I have been approached and invited.
Once invited always make sure the husband /BF is happy and ask all the time if it is Ok to do certain things do not assume.
Every time we have all parted fulfilled and happy and everyone has been respected and the whole experience is a laugh and a good time for all.
Doggers, go to the sites expecting nothing and you will remain happy otherwise you will beat yourself up due to long waits and failure which will only add to the frustration.
After all you are trying to have sex with complete strangers who maybe are up and looking for it but that does not mean they have to choose you.
Keep it fun and we all succeed, otherwise if this current single guy behaviour continues couples will not go to certain sites any longer.
Example :-
Last night I waited 4 hours at a site in Norfolk (sad I know) but it was because I was waiting to meet a girl I know in the Midlands who eventually turned up and I drove off with her.
I observed 30 single guy cars and not one couple turned up in the whole 4 car was constantly driving up and down with lights on instead of sitting and waiting and was clearly desperate.
The whole scene became laughable.
Think otherwise we will kill off the spontanaity of it all and the fun.
Thanks for reading and apologise for the lecture.
Let me have your thoughts.
Sandie
I agree.
Everybody needs to lighten up.
Dogging should be fun not done out of desperation.
I have had success because I wait and watch from the car until a couple arrive and indicate a signal I usually then leave my interior light on until asked.
If they do not ask then I wait a while and move on and leave.
So many car parks are full of doggers just circling cars on foot trying to act subtle???. But in reality all we see is loads of men approaching darkened cars and this is a desperate move the couple see it and the patient doggers in the cars see it and the couple on many occasions just drive off.
Subtlety and calm patience is key here.
Also fellow doggers you do not have the god given right to success just because you drive into a dogging car park.
If you cannot control your horny feelings go to a massage parlour or buy a porno anxiety and tension shows through by stupid actions.
The experiences I have had with couples has been when I have accepted nothing is going to happen and just left my light on and I have been approached and invited.
Once invited always make sure the husband /BF is happy and ask all the time if it is Ok to do certain things do not assume.
Every time we have all parted fulfilled and happy and everyone has been respected and the whole experience is a laugh and a good time for all.
Doggers, go to the sites expecting nothing and you will remain happy otherwise you will beat yourself up due to long waits and failure which will only add to the frustration.
After all you are trying to have sex with complete strangers who maybe are up and looking for it but that does not mean they have to choose you.
Keep it fun and we all succeed, otherwise if this current single guy behaviour continues couples will not go to certain sites any longer.
Example :-
Last night I waited 4 hours at a site in Norfolk (sad I know) but it was because I was waiting to meet a girl I know in the Midlands who eventually turned up and I drove off with her.
I observed 30 single guy cars and not one couple turned up in the whole 4 car was constantly driving up and down with lights on instead of sitting and waiting and was clearly desperate.
The whole scene became laughable.
Think otherwise we will kill off the spontanaity of it all and the fun.
Thanks for reading and apologise for the lecture.
Let me have your thoughts.
Sandie
i want to find out what the godstone one is downside of the internet is any one can go to google punch in swinging or swingers and this site will be there amongst ,kids and timewasters (and this site has its fair few)will turn up to the area tried emailing people on here only to have the email returned saying no such domain or account,my question people really that sad that they have to post on here with false email adds to get thier sexual kicks,sad bastards. 
by the way does anyone know what the godstone one is like? being a single male id feel awkward turning up on my own. 
by the way does anyone know what the godstone one is like? being a single male id feel awkward turning up on my own. Encharntess, read and understood my point EXACTLY sorry if my post didnt make much sense to some. but i am new to this and still learning the ropes etc etc...
also i would like to say that ive only used brogbourgh once and and not been to a6, so definetly isnt me that u think(goes out to sandie i think) although being new to this i did learn the hard way so not been anwhere else stated in the DOGGING LOCATIONS list, i have a very distinct car and number plate.... my car is amethyst in colour and number plate contains a part of the body in it(not specifying) convertable although people at brogbourough took this the wrong way, single guy in pinkesh(its more purple and brought it coz its a fanny magnet)car well the rest you can figure out yourself... im not gay or bi. also have no problem people who are so please dont repost with any nasty comments anywayenuff of that shit thanks for taking the time to read my posts.. and hope things improve.. also if any couples wanna share thier outdoor experiences with me im 25yrs old,good looking,medium build, also discreet genuine.. if not then have plenty of fun.... :twisted:
p.s can travel herts/beds areas...
also i would like to say that ive only used brogbourgh once and and not been to a6, so definetly isnt me that u think(goes out to sandie i think) although being new to this i did learn the hard way so not been anwhere else stated in the DOGGING LOCATIONS list, i have a very distinct car and number plate.... my car is amethyst in colour and number plate contains a part of the body in it(not specifying) convertable although people at brogbourough took this the wrong way, single guy in pinkesh(its more purple and brought it coz its a fanny magnet)car well the rest you can figure out yourself... im not gay or bi. also have no problem people who are so please dont repost with any nasty comments anywayenuff of that shit thanks for taking the time to read my posts.. and hope things improve.. also if any couples wanna share thier outdoor experiences with me im 25yrs old,good looking,medium build, also discreet genuine.. if not then have plenty of fun.... :twisted:
p.s can travel herts/beds areas...
