Clare, I'm female and prefer (usually) to watch action than be the object of it - I'm a voyeur not an exhibitionist. Trouble is, there isn't normally that much to watch wherever you go! I go to clubs and the majority of the time prefer to watch, but it does feel much more naughty watching outdoors than at a club :twisted: . I do prefer man on man if I have a choice so I guess I'm not talking along the same lines as you, but it would be nice if more girlies got involved with dogging. Maybe if we get rid of all the boy racers and nutters then the girls will come out to play more - here's hoping! 8)
I'm at a loss to understand what you mean ?
"dogging" now means practically all out door sex, doing or being done...
Since there is a woman involved somewhere, usually surrounded by men, I suppose you mean "are there any woman watchers, watching women"
Well, I've only ever seen one woman dogging a couple...and she legged it as soon as she realised she was being watched.
Please elucidate ?
I took Clare's commnet to mean are there any girls who go dogging(proper dogging, i.e. watching couples). Am I right, Clare?
we class our selfs as a dogging cpl ,,,, some nights we go to show off/play with select guys,some nights look for other cpls,some nights tess keeps her nickers on and we look for shows,on odd occasions we have sat in the car watching the gay/bi lads partying !!!!!!!!! so plz dont try and pigion hole everybody,,,,,,,,,,, in the past tess as played the single bi fem dogger some cpls keep looking for and cant find (due to safety resions)
With all the crap-acts going about, from two-up law to press wasters, how can anyone carry-on partying with a car present with two non-active occupants. If they're not DOING anything and not SHOWING anything, they're a high-risk factor from the start.
I agree with the "unwelcome" attention, but if there's a show there's no way that a single woman can reasonably expect everyone to vacate the area. And some guys only take no for an answer when it's punched into them.
i'm the female half of us and if you want i'll assist in fulfilling your needs
jo x
Well, that's ok.
Not that different tho', there are two girls that play with each other local to me...they just don't like people getting too close.
Sex is sex...whatever.
I'm totally new to this scene but it seems that dogging it getting to be an unpleasant passtime, with nasty behaviour from some, and possible prosecution from the boys in blue. Is it time, I wonder, to make a variation on the theme and have invitation only sex parties, instead? Perhaps local sex groups who invite a couple to a venue, indoor or outdoor, to perform for a number of pre-invited wachers. the couple could stipulate how many, whether they allow participation, etc.
What do you think?
Orinoco
Just my opinion - but I dont think most of the couples who go dogging would entertain that Idea. Mostly couples do it for their own enjoyment. Your idea smacks of them performing for the entertainment of the audience. Perhaps I'm totally off the mark.
The thing is with dogging, the couple should have the control, and the ability to call a halt at whatever point they wish.
I suspect that it that happened at one of your parties, a nast scene could ensue.
I may be wrong but I think you are barking up the wrong tree here.
Alex x
Orinoco, Alex is right, encouranging people to have sex parties because they're safer than dogging wouldn't work and you are missing the point of why people go dogging or enjoy having sex outdoors. People know there are risks associated with doing it but they still do it because they get a kick out of it that cannot be had elsewhere. What that "kick" is varies - some like the "naughtiness" of being sexual outdoors, some like the voyeuristic aspect, some like the danger of being caught, etc etc - I really don't think for doggers and other people who like sex outdoors, restricting their activities to indoors works at all. Even in clubs where there is a lot of anonymous sex it isn't the same kind of buzz as outdooor sex - it's a buzz but a different sort of buss. The term "dogging" traditionally refers to the "watcher" not the watched, so people who go to put on shows are not really doggers anyway! Yes, some do go to dogging locations to put on shows, but I think a lot of exhibitionists do stick to clubs anyway. Therefore, I think your party idea already works for some and they know where to go already.
Thanks, Alex & Blue for your comments. My thoughts were, really, that if dogging is getting difficult, this may be a way out. My thinking was that the activity would take place in the usual way, car park, car, etc, the difference would be that this would be by invite only and not in one of the usual dogging places. That way, people like Clare could go along safe int he knowledge that she would be among people she could trust. the couple would still have control. In fact, even it was done indoors, my idea was exactly that - couple retain control, merely because the group are invited and the rules are laid out in advance, with the obvious stipulation that these could change as the session progresses.
However, as I said, I'm new, so it was just a thought. Hope you don't mind the suggestion. I'll just keep looking and learning!
Regards to all
If you think about it, the indoors idea couldn't work anyway.
The idea of being a "voyeur" or "dogger", is to watch surrepticiously those having sex. Which is where the thrill comes in.
You have come in at a time when "dogging" is people going out and having sex outdoors with others joining in.
So, you think that putting the event indoors will make it safer. It's still illegal though, orgies indoors that is.
I don't go to arranged events very often, since I tend to wonder who arranged them..and why..(paranoia)
Dogging isn't dangerous. It's the wasters who have an idea in their heads that in every car park is a shag waiting for them to have that are dangerous. The reality is that there are so many useless turds driving about that nobody gets much of a chance anymore. Except late at night. And many meets are by word-of-mouth now anyway.
I have little faith in emails, since the isps' have to keep every one for years to come. And the news that the police are using mobile phone companies to find out who was in an area a few nights ago, from their records, rings alarm bells anyway....many people don't know that every time their phone moves into another coverage area it tells the system where it is...and the system is constantly exchanging data with your phone anyway. No, gimme parks and laybys...let the bastards work for a living, like we have to.
So, what you wanted to know was: do two women go dogging together.
The doggers are the watchers.
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