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whats your view on women that go dogging?

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dont all women bolt

Think it might be best for my health that I don't comment on that one jamnat - think the hole I am in is deep enough already!!!!
:gagged: :giveup:
When I post that I'm going to be out and about I always make it clear that use of such words as 'Bitch', 'Slut' and 'Whore' will not be tolerated. Any guy foolish enough to then use then will wish he'd never grown a cock :shock:
I must say, though, that I have never met any disrespectful guy. I think they are all too damned grateful that there is actually someone dogging in our neck of the woods to queer the pitch smile
Oh...............and I'm human 52 weeks of the year! Contraceptive jab == no periods! biggrin
Oh...............and I'm human 52 weeks of the year! Contaceptive jab == no periods! biggrin
quick clone her! lol
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When I post that I'm going to be out and about I always make it clear that use of such words as 'Bitch', 'Slut' and 'Whore' will not be tolerated. Any guy foolish enough to then use then will wish he'd never grown a cock :shock:

She really does, it's great, so good in fact that I'm going to quote it because every time I read Lissa's meet posts they make me smile!!! biggrin :thumbup:
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Also, endearments such as 'slut', 'bitch' and 'whore' will have you ejected from the car quicker than you got in.................if you're lucky with your cock still attached :shock: <snip>
Hello debbie hope u r well , well wat do i think of woman who go dogging i just think of them as if thay were my wife and do respect them i know some guys that dont and talk about it with other guys , i dont cos if u do when the woman goes on again all the guys know and mobb u have fun Dave xx
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When I post that I'm going to be out and about I always make it clear that use of such words as 'Bitch', 'Slut' and 'Whore' will not be tolerated. Any guy foolish enough to then use then will wish he'd never grown a cock :shock:

She really does, it's great, so good in fact that I'm going to quote it because every time I read Lissa's meet posts they make me smile!!! biggrin :thumbup:
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Also, endearments such as 'slut', 'bitch' and 'whore' will have you ejected from the car quicker than you got in.................if you're lucky with your cock still attached :shock: <snip>

Thank you, Serendipity smile
What's my view ?
I welcome them..no women, no dogging.
No women = loads of boring guys standing about chatting about past "conquests"
No women = B.O., cheap aftershave and canned-drivers-seat farts.
No women = empty laybys, having to find the nearest takeaway (tried pizza delivery...."the layby up the A43 on the way to Kettering" doesn't seem to be on the 'livery list) and disturbed sleep....bloody lorries again.
All-in-all, the occasional TV doesn't quite seem the same......they all wear too much perfume for a start.. !
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I have been totally demoralized by a man that goes dogging..all his thoughts of us women is that we are slappers and easy lays and up for a shag with any one!.
I am very sure that all men are not like that...................but its these types of man that make a bad name for others!.........
so what i would like to ask.. how do you men see us women when out dogging?

Surely he is doing that. He is wrong to think all people think like he does. Sounds like he has a problem, not you.
old couple
Old cpl thanks. kiss and others! :kiss: ............................ thats how i am trying to think
and some times i think is this all for me.......becaues of these Pratt's that come a long and totally make some of us women feel shit
i have had to try very hard to pick my self up again ........and i think it it wasn't for me mates i would be struggling and go into depression
Is it my fautlt.?................. i Q my self loads of times.......like am i to forward.............. and i dont get my message acrooss!...........do i run to much to the peeps that i like!.......and they think diffrently of me for being like this?
a so much mixed up Debsxxxxxxxxxxxx
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and some times i think is this all for me.......becaues of these Pratt's that come a long and totally make some of us women feel shit

A quote from Eleanor Roosevelt "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent".
Don't let sad gits give you a hang up Debs. Ignore them and their petty minded little thoughts and opinions.
They may think we women are sluts/cheap whatever, but they're the ones out there gagging for a fuck with us rolleyes
Blokes like that would never make me feel cheap. Their opinion of me would never be lower than my opinion of them, and that's all that matters to me wink
Now get back out there and enjoy yourself :twisted:
T-J xxx
oh dear..these sort of threads always set me a giggling..maybe its because the ladies tend to underestimate the complexity and fragility of the male ego..
an example that springs to mind would be the night i went clubbing with my mate "franko"..now, when i say clubbing, i use the term loosely..the venue in question was one of those dream finds, a singles and seperateds club, mentioned in the "sex maniacs diary" and wholly populated by men in their 50's wearing clothes 30 years out of date and stinking of mothballs, ladies of a similar age, just out of a long relationship, and not looking to get bogged down in another any day soon, and a regular compliment of hookers popping in for a drink between walking the streets, hoping to pick up the odd punter into the bargain..
it was the mid 1980's, the hair was big, my stomach wasn't..it was a summer's night, when driving through the streets of norwich looking for entertainment, "franko" "shafter" "meat" and myself chanced upon this haven of depravity..we burst into the club to the sound of "baby jane" which was rather appropiate, my bleached spikey barnet often earned me the nickname "rod"..(i've forgotton what the thread was about, oh yeah, i'll try and get on track)..we were like lambs to the slaughter, it was fucking ridiculous, we were in our early 20's, half the women wanted a man with a tan, a yacht in monte carlo and a luxury villa on the costas, the other half just wanted stamina, and we had it in abundance.
jeez, i remember the night well.."meat" had pulled a couple of northern irish girls and dissapeared early, whilst "shafter" and myself had clicked onto a couple of ladies wearing skin tight leather trousers and leopard skin tops..the taxi ride to their respective homes was an ordeal in itself.."shafter" could never cope with his hooch, and decided half way around a busy roundabout would be an appropiate place to let go..for some bizzare reason, he decided to open the door, which due to centrifugal force, now swung wide open, taking most of him with it..i swear his nose was three inches from the road as he left a trail of vomit stretching back five miles..the girls were hanging onto his trousers whilst the driver was doing his nut..on arrival at mine and lisa's destination i was in for a culture shock..it wasn't quite kensington mews..ahh fuck, what a nightmare..you know how it is, when you are really bladdered, and you know what you wan't to say, but due to your face being embalmed, your mouth doesn't quite co-operate? well, thats kinda how it was.."i need the loo" was all i could mumble.."upstairs on your right, but be carefull" was the reply..my ears were ringing as i lurched down the corridor..first, the door had a hole right through it, then, when i pushed it open, there was a bloke asleep in the bath :shock: the bog was leaning over at 45 degrees..i just leant against the wall wondering how the fuck i'd got into this..
the next morning was hell..two kids kids jumping on the bed calling me dad, 3 older ones telling them to shut up, a fucking great dog snarling at me and a woman that had gained
30 years and 10 stone overnight, snoring next to me..i stunk of fags and the bed was so full of cat fur it was like wearing a mohair jumper..on the bedside table was one of those cheap, white plastic vibrators, one of the kids switched it on and started jabbing the dog with it, which in turn went beserk and bit the kids hand..he started wailing, but shut up when the police knocked on the door..something to do with a stolen telly..
it was my que to get some fresh air..a trip to the mini market was my choice of destination..where, who should i bump into, but "shafter" and tina..who was wearing a dressing gown and slippers, in the shop lol i said hello to her, and she returned the greeting by grabbing me around the throat and snarling "you will be seeing lisa again won't you, i'm fed up with bastards like you messing her about"? when "shafter" and i spotted our opertunity, we legged it..but repeated the experience, with different ladies, of varied class, for the next eighteen months :lol:
now, getting back to the point, and i hope you forgive me for relating that tale, as it was rather incidental..the only guy that had a problem that night was "franko"..i'm sure it was fine in the end, as franko was a latino lover of italian origin..sadly, he died of a drugs and alcohol overdose shortly afterwards, he lived fast and loved the finer things in life a little too passionately..but that night, franko had spotted the woman of his dreams..he was totally smitten..the way she dressed, looked and moved had franko in a frenzy from the word , after an hour, franko made his move, and was rejected redface on his return, i asked "how did it go"? his reply, "no go, fucking slag mate" :lol: :lol: wink
much of the "slapper" n "slag" stuff is macho male banter..many of the men at dogging sites that revel in such terminology enjoy the company of like minded fellows..their own sex lives are usually less than good, so it serves to grate when faced with a couple that have an exciting one, or a woman that openly and vocally enjoys one..a while back, i pondered the usage of the term "slag" in a particular situation..a couple of lads had scored with the lady of a visiting dogging couple..they were congratulating themselves on their victory, and deemed it due, in the main, to their youthfull looks and appearance..however, the comments came about as a result of then suffering the indignity of witnessing their prize catch having loud and lusty sex with a man who could barely stand unaided..this due to the infirmity of age rather than intoxication..suddenly their superior status evaporated before their eyes and ears..they weren't special after all, therefore she was relagated from being "a bit of class" to "a slag"...boy that musta hurt :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I think that women who go dogging are better than women who dont. I love the fact that they can share their bodies with so many men and we men appreciate it greatly. I think that descriptions of anyone as a slapper or anything else of that nature are words used by the small minded and those who are not truly a couple myself and my partner , Elaine, have , had men watch us, touch on occasions and nothing turns me on more than to see another man touch her and look at her body. I respect her greatly that she does this ...She knows that it turns me on and she enjoys it too...Female exhibionists are truly the best kind of women and they are so 'full on' sexy. If I use the word 'slut' to describe Elaine it's truly a term of endearment as far as I am concerned...She is a slut and Iove her for it.
Dont be phased by some of the idiots out there.....our experience of the guys generally is that they are very respectful of our boundaries...and will back off if they overstep what we are comfortable with...So keep the faith girl! You are making a lot of frustrated men very happy!
Regards
Roy
Men who can't get their heads round it are basically just bigotted twats like the rest of vanilla society.
I consider myself a gift to any men who I deem worthy to partake of me........and Debs....You are too...as is anyone who gives themselves freely in a fun capacity.
Anyone who can't see that shouldn't be damnwell looking.
grrrrrrrrrrrr so sayeth the tabbi wabbi LOL
Quote by Debbiewebs
Old cpl thanks. kiss and others! :kiss: ............................ thats how i am trying to think
and some times i think is this all for me.......becaues of these Pratt's that come a long and totally make some of us women feel shit
i have had to try very hard to pick my self up again ........and i think it it wasn't for me mates i would be struggling and go into depression
Is it my fautlt.?................. i Q my self loads of times.......like am i to forward.............. and i dont get my message acrooss!...........do i run to much to the peeps that i like!.......and they think diffrently of me for being like this?
a so much mixed up Debsxxxxxxxxxxxx

It is a fact of life that some folks are attracted to the very people they should avoid. At the moment you are sounding very fragile so take things very slowly and think about what you want in the future. Will your partner make you happy? Or would you rather be miserable as long as you have your partner. We are in our 60's and can tell you that you can be in love all your life with a person who never knows it because you decide to live with the pain and not let them know and have an independant life with somebody else. Just be careful not to shout out the wrong name at a vital moment;-) Pick yourself up gal and live your life.
old couple
hi debs.
It's him that has the problem ...........NOT you...........
so when your out and about, let the other doggers know what he said, I'm sure they will put him straight on a thing or two..........if not a knee to the groin will make you feel a lot better. Although he might like it
No not really!! If you enjoy what you do, then do it, and do not take any notice of what other people think
take care and get yourselves back out there, the past is in the past
Hi debbie fancy a meet tonite if so get back to me Dave
Dont even give this bloke the time of more to the point make sure nobody else does.I feel lucky that my partner is free to express herself.
And its damn good fun too lol
Well now if we know Debs half as well as we think we do then I smell a touch of the Devils advocate here - and we are damn sure she likes to put the threads amongst the pidgeons biggrin however in the interests of her research we feel a short answer may suffice , since the longer more patient of our boards contributors have said alot of the good stuff.
All that we feel needs saying is , if the woman concerned in the show or playing in the carpark is such a lowly and needy creature that she can be scorned or looked down upon then what does that make the bloke who has sat in his cold car all week for hours on end to wank outside her window ?
I dont call the man you refer to a dogger at all Deb , I would call him a simple sexually stunted misogynist.
Peace
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Well now if we know Debs half as well as we think we do then I smell a touch of the Devils advocate here - and we are damn sure she likes to put the threads amongst the pidgeons biggrin however in the interests of her research we feel a short answer may suffice , since the longer more patient of our boards contributors have said alot of the good stuff.
All that we feel needs saying is , if the woman concerned in the show or playing in the carpark is such a lowly and needy creature that she can be scorned or looked down upon then what does that make the bloke who has sat in his cold car all week for hours on end to wank outside her window ?
I dont call the man you refer to a dogger at all Deb , I would call him a simple sexually stunted misogynist.
Peace

ooo be care full Little old Debs might get up your way and eat ya! rotflmao
well have to say i have been over whelmed by the responses i have had and such lovely pms!
It times like this that you realise how good sh is and the gen peeps that contribute to it!
I am off to London to mow to a nudes club to let me hair down and also chill!
I am sooo much feeling better .........
Big hugs to you alll
Quote by tabbi
Men who can't get their heads round it are basically just bigotted twats like the rest of vanilla society.
I consider myself a gift to any men who I deem worthy to partake of me........and Debs....You are too...as is anyone who gives themselves freely in a fun capacity.
Anyone who can't see that shouldn't be damnwell looking.
grrrrrrrrrrrr so sayeth the tabbi wabbi LOL

Is'nt labeling all vanilla's as twats bigotted too ?
Any form of biggottory is wrong n'est pas !
Quote by notoeurope
Men who can't get their heads round it are basically just bigotted twats like the rest of vanilla society.
I consider myself a gift to any men who I deem worthy to partake of me........and Debs....You are too...as is anyone who gives themselves freely in a fun capacity.
Anyone who can't see that shouldn't be damnwell looking.
grrrrrrrrrrrr so sayeth the tabbi wabbi LOL

Is'nt labeling all vanilla's as twats bigotted too ?
Any form of biggottory is wrong n'est pas !
Yes you're quite right, poor choice of words. I should have said like the portion of vanilla society who are biggotted twats, thank you so much for pointing out my error.
All us ladies should do a mass dogging sesh somewhere then see who rules the roost biggrin
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All us ladies should do a mass dogging sesh somewhere then see who rules the roost biggrin

Can it be somewhere halfway hun? Last time I drove to Derbyshire it took me 5 hours. Don't think I'll be much good for anything after that :D
Quote by tabbi
All us ladies should do a mass dogging sesh somewhere then see who rules the roost biggrin

Can it be somewhere halfway hun? Last time I drove to Derbyshire it took me 5 hours. Don't think I'll be much good for anything after that :D
you could sit and watch :D
Quote by notoeurope
I have been totally demoralized by a man that goes dogging..all his thoughts of us women is that we are slappers and easy lays and up for a shag with any one!.
I am very sure that all men are not like that...................but its these types of man that make a bad name for others!.........
so what i would like to ask.. how do you men see us women when out dogging?

One word.... "Admiration"
What he said
Quote by miss
All us ladies should do a mass dogging sesh somewhere then see who rules the roost biggrin
lol go for it babe wink
well i honestly enjoy dogging but sometimes it can get a bit scarey. now we have been to places and its been fine and the men are gents and respect the ladies wishes, and i have also been and you get boy racers who think reving their engines, and driving eratic is everything(wrong) the name they get is dickheads.
I love having sex at night outside and even better if there is more than one man for company. not being a slag or slut or whore just a sexualy frustrated genuine lady. well i can be hehehehehehe.
and most the men who are out can sit in the carparks for hours and still not find anyone out.
i find we have had no problems with the men whilst out, think it must be they see ed and say I aint messing with him lol. being 17 stone and 6ft3. but you never know thats the scary part, might come across someone whos not out there for sex. so hopefully fingers crossed we enjoy lots of fun outdoors. and also meet genuine swingers there too.
Hey debs
I treat all women I meet either dogging or in swingers clubs as I do all women in life, with the utmost respect and consideration, in fact often I wait for the woman to make the first move as I am probably too careful, spending too much time chatting in the fear of upsetting a woman by coming onto her too soon.
Some of the horror stories on here make me despair at the men that are about. The following example shows how I behave. It was about 2am on a winters night, someones dashboard had been recording zero degrees at midnight so I dread to fear how cold it was by then. I had been chatting to a couple, the female half of which I greatly fancied. During this chatting, my hands had become extremely cold (I have really crap circulation) so when another chap made a move and the fun started, I firstly placed my hands onto the front of the windscreen inside the car to allow the car heater to thaw them out as I didn't want to give the fine woman a heart attack through being touched by frozen hands. Whilst warming up my hands other blokes came across and I ended up being pushed to my left (I standing at the passenger seat) so when my hands had warmed up and I tried to caress her breasts I was about four inches too far away.
I still have never had the fortune to enjoy this woman, my politeness again having let me down.
So you keep your chin up, ignore these ignorant peasants, and keep having fun, just remember there are fine men about, who will tell you of their appreciation for you.
Regards
Harry Jones
Ps Uncle Dirty I haven't laughed that much in ages, I needed oxygen and my chest is now aching.
Quote by tabbi
Men who can't get their heads round it are basically just bigotted twats like the rest of vanilla society.
I consider myself a gift to any men who I deem worthy to partake of me........and Debs....You are too...as is anyone who gives themselves freely in a fun capacity.
Anyone who can't see that shouldn't be damnwell looking.
grrrrrrrrrrrr so sayeth the tabbi wabbi LOL

Is'nt labeling all vanilla's as twats bigotted too ?
Any form of biggottory is wrong n'est pas !
Yes you're quite right, poor choice of words. I should have said like the portion of vanilla society who are biggotted twats, thank you so much for pointing out my error.
Your're welcome
Quote by Debbiewebs
I have been totally demoralized by a man that goes dogging..all his thoughts of us women is that we are slappers and easy lays and up for a shag with any one!.
I am very sure that all men are not like that...................but its these types of man that make a bad name for others!.........
so what i would like to ask.. how do you men see us women when out dogging?

Usually from the rear lol