Dogging to some people is far more erotic and exciting than pre-arranged meets or swinging parties.... i guess the 'unknown' factor may have something to do with it.
I know for us, 'dogging' meant easing us into the scene, although our very first experience swinging was a full on party...lol, we've only been dogging a couple of times and i guess it can be exciting but pre-arranged or parties is best for us.
We ourselves would love more pre-arranged meets away from the 'usual' dogging , but that's only because the majority of the places now are full of idiots. Also, far too many single blokes about these days.......
Paul and Susie
Me and my gal thought along the same lines, thought it would be an exciting, not threatening way in to the scene. It does seem from reading all this that dogging is suffering at the hands of people that are making it threatening.
Would people say that perhaps a personal meet, or party might be a easier first experience?
r-x
Dogging was never couples meeting couples, dogging was single guys following couples to watch them have sex.
Doggers are people who watch.
The SINGLE GUYS are the doggers, the couples are the ones they watch.
It's been that way for over 30 years.
Forget the "dogging dervived from walking the dog"
Dogging derived from the dictionary definition and means the same.
VenusnMars,
I laughed when i saw your latest post. When i was younger chucking out time could've been so much more fun had i been 'educated' about dogging. I don't mind the watchers, be they single guys, couples etc... but i do object to the rise of the boy racers, idiots etc... who think that when a couple turn up at a location, it is almost 'assumed' that the girl is up for a gang bang.....
I mean no disrespect to the genuine single guys who know what to expect, and are very respectful of limits etc.. but if we pull up and are swarmed all over, we just start up the car and leave.
To us, pre-arranged away from the 'usual' locations is a far more erotic experience, and yes, outdoors is SOOooo much more fun than indoors, but indoors, in a club or party, now, that's for us.. yessireeee
Paul and Susie