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After reading so many good threads about swinging, I wondered what dogging means to people personally.
So I thought I`d start a thread biggrin
Venusxxx
Sexlightened
Dogging to some people is far more erotic and exciting than pre-arranged meets or swinging parties.... i guess the 'unknown' factor may have something to do with it.
I know for us, 'dogging' meant easing us into the scene, although our very first experience swinging was a full on party...lol, we've only been dogging a couple of times and i guess it can be exciting but pre-arranged or parties is best for us.
We ourselves would love more pre-arranged meets away from the 'usual' dogging , but that's only because the majority of the places now are full of idiots. Also, far too many single blokes about these days.......
Paul and Susie
Forum Virgin
Me and my gal thought along the same lines, thought it would be an exciting, not threatening way in to the scene. It does seem from reading all this that dogging is suffering at the hands of people that are making it threatening.
Would people say that perhaps a personal meet, or party might be a easier first experience?
r-x
Personally for us yes, but then we don`t find dogging that attractive. Certainly I have fantasies about the unknown entity either watching or joining in when I`m in the middle of something, but the reality of such a situation is too risky for me to get hot. Not only would I be worried about the problems raised, but being faced by a total stranger is something which in reality I think would freeze me, I`d feel threatened perhaps?
Anyway, thats just me, and not a criticism on those who do enjoy it, but as I can`t relate so well to this activity, I thought it`d be a good idea to get educated smile
Venusxxx
Dogging was never couples meeting couples, dogging was single guys following couples to watch them have sex.
Doggers are people who watch.
The SINGLE GUYS are the doggers, the couples are the ones they watch.
It's been that way for over 30 years.
Forget the "dogging dervived from walking the dog"
Dogging derived from the dictionary definition and means the same.
See, I`m educated already! biggrin
Thankyou..so the couples who go to `perform`, simply fall under the catagory of `exhibitionists` then? Not that I`m a great fan of labeling, but as mentioned elsewhere, it`s normally a good idea to familiarise yourself with the terminology.
Venusxxx
Sex God
I think dogging is super-dddddddddddddddddd-duper cool 8-) 8-) 8-)
It's so much more of a buzz than indoor sex, basically cos it isn't indoors! Satin likes the exhibitionism, so he gets that, while I get to do some group sex outside, what could be better! 8-) 8-) 8-) .... and on a good night, I get to watch some quality man on man and the odd bit of hetero action too..... oh, the joy of it all lol :lol: :lol:
Dogging is sooooooooooooo naughty, a big group is best though, although a couple of quality guys rivals that. So much more of a buzz than arranging fun at home :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: , and even better than groups at clubs - though clubs has a different sort of buzz for me....................
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You really can't beat a good bit of dogging. I had a great time dogging yesterday btw 8-) 8-) 8-)
Gosh I never expected to see you on this thread! lol
It`s great to see such enthuiasm, and I`m so glad you love it so much. So how do you feel about the downsides that others have mentioned?
I swear to god that when I was younger all that could be found in carparks were cars full of stoners after the pubs had shut! :lol:
Things could have been so much more entertaining!
BTW, The mirror picture on your site is my favourite biggrin
Venusxxx
Sexlightened
VenusnMars,
I laughed when i saw your latest post. When i was younger chucking out time could've been so much more fun had i been 'educated' about dogging. I don't mind the watchers, be they single guys, couples etc... but i do object to the rise of the boy racers, idiots etc... who think that when a couple turn up at a location, it is almost 'assumed' that the girl is up for a gang bang.....
I mean no disrespect to the genuine single guys who know what to expect, and are very respectful of limits etc.. but if we pull up and are swarmed all over, we just start up the car and leave.
To us, pre-arranged away from the 'usual' locations is a far more erotic experience, and yes, outdoors is SOOooo much more fun than indoors, but indoors, in a club or party, now, that's for us.. yessireeee
Paul and Susie
Sex God
Yeah, Venus, there are some idiots who like to ruin things, but there's no way boy racers or other saddos are going to spoil my fun!
Although there are an awful lot of single guys, most of them are respectful and have at least some common sense - that doesn't include those who ride around with head lights on full beam - that's just silly, or those that follow for miles - they don't scare me, they just make me think "oh how sad"..... one day I'm gonna teach one of those guys a lesson, but not sure how to do it yet and stay out of jail rolleyes wink .
There are some attracted to the scene after the press coverage recently, and they do cause problems, but they are the minority. They normally get told to piss off by the genuine doggers anyway cool . I actually feel safer in a large group of single guys. If boy racers turn up, there's no bloody way they are going to approach a group at all - they're much to wet behind the ears and cowardly for that :roll: . I think the most trouble happens when there's only one or two people around - eay to pick a victim then sad .
The pros definately outweigh the cons - and I find some of the things that people tend not to like quite funny - followers for one lol .... all in all, it's a cheap night out and great fun - hey hey..... :lol: :lol: :lol: