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1 there gf is out that night
2 the wife is out that night
3 there out with the boys
4 mmm no idea lol
but why so many say there turn up but DONT ?
they give all the single guys bad names wether there married got a gf or not
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Why so many singles say there turn up for meets ?
im always reading that!.. which is frustrating when im down south and cant seem to find much going on... and to tell you someting for nothing!.. if i say im going to be there ,.. im going to be there!.. 
we are all not that bad if i say i will be there i will no ifs or buts, its very frustating though when people dont turn up couples do it too and very often leave us sat in laybys or carparks waiting????????
Russ
Russ
Sex God
Quote by Manolishi
Very true comment.
It's not just the singles who dont turn up! - Or maybe thats just a southern thing! lol
Very true. We know of at least three local members of this site, who claim to be a couple and they are only a guy on his own
We even arranged to meet with one of them when he replied to our ad telling us he was a single guy.
When said meeting took place he told us to our face that he also advertises as a couple to widen his chances of a meeting with couples as single guys mostly get turned away. Then of course he uses the old excuse "wife can't come because she's not well" or similar
These sad individuals are beyond help in our opinion. The only kicks they must get are those of knowing they have inconvenienced someone by making false arrangements
It's not just a southern thing either and happens all over the country.
However this couple do turn up
Tracy-Jayne
Sexpert
As a single male in the south - id just love to have the chance to arrange a meeting in the first place!
I think most of the 'married' singles are not really up for it, it just turns em on to think about meeting strangers. In other words, they get off on the fantasy, not the real thing. Lets face it, how many of us have a fantasy, but how many would really want to live up to it?
I reckon most guys would say they would 'shag' a stranger if they had the chance, but most wouldnt and those that would contain only a small percentage of guys who would respect boundaries.
I am a single guy, from just along the coast from Brighton, and I find that making arrangements often leads to long cold nights waiting. Most of my fun comes from the chance meet. Not to say that meets dont work, sure they do, but not that often.
As for Brighton, if only I had a pound for every time a guy asked me to met !!!! just incase anyone didnt know, its NOT a requirement to be bi of gay to live in Brighton.
oh, and why is it asumed that a guy out doggin will be up for anything, even gay? without being a tease etc....come on guys, we can say no aswell !!
I reckon most guys would say they would 'shag' a stranger if they had the chance, but most wouldnt and those that would contain only a small percentage of guys who would respect boundaries.
I am a single guy, from just along the coast from Brighton, and I find that making arrangements often leads to long cold nights waiting. Most of my fun comes from the chance meet. Not to say that meets dont work, sure they do, but not that often.
As for Brighton, if only I had a pound for every time a guy asked me to met !!!! just incase anyone didnt know, its NOT a requirement to be bi of gay to live in Brighton.
oh, and why is it asumed that a guy out doggin will be up for anything, even gay? without being a tease etc....come on guys, we can say no aswell !!
Sex God
Quote by briansite
well the ones dont turn up get nothing lol
but the ones who do i send them home with a big
Like your style jo & dont wory If I say I will be there I will 100% turn up just try & stop me . Looking forward to seeing you soon :P
Right Jo, there is our que, he says he wil turn up, all we need now is the when and were!!!
Cor, men on bikes, it really does it for me!
Sex God
Quote by Manolishi
I have a bike! - Although it would take me a while to peddle up there from Bournemouth!
Please don't start without me!! lol
I was getting all exited when you said you had a bike! Oh well, I supose a peddle bike is better than none at all, so get peddeling and see you when you reach the north west (probably be that knackered you wont be fit for anything)
Jo, my dear, looks like we still searching for the elusive MOTORbiking Dogger!
Di
xxx
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
well the ones dont turn up get nothing lol
but the ones who do i send them home with a big
Like your style jo & dont wory If I say I will be there I will 100% turn up just try & stop me . Looking forward to seeing you soon :P
Right Jo, there is our que, he says he wil turn up, all we need now is the when and were!!!
Cor, men on bikes, it really does it for me!
Ok just let me know where and when ??? :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I have a bike! - Although it would take me a while to peddle up there from Bournemouth!
Please don't start without me!! lol
I was getting all exited when you said you had a bike! Oh well, I supose a peddle bike is better than none at all, so get peddeling and see you when you reach the north west (probably be that knackered you wont be fit for anything)
Jo, my dear, looks like we still searching for the elusive MOTORbiking Dogger!
Di
xxx
Youve just given me a new name them I like it The Elusive MOTORbiking Dogger
:lol: I think most of the 'married' singles are not really up for it, it just turns em on to think about meeting strangers. In other words, they get off on the fantasy, not the real thing. Lets face it, how many of us have a fantasy, but how many would really want to live up to it?
I reckon most guys would say they would 'shag' a stranger if they had the chance, but most wouldnt and those that would contain only a small percentage of guys who would respect boundaries.
I am a single guy, from just along the coast from Brighton, and I find that making arrangements often leads to long cold nights waiting. Most of my fun comes from the chance meet. Not to say that meets dont work, sure they do, but not that often.
.....one reason we gave up on arranged meets,is the amount of times we were stood-up by balance,it just wasn't worth the time,or effort...yes,couples will arrange meets,then not show,its not only a male thing....much of it comes down to the fantasy element,its just so easy to get carried away on the thrill,in the comfort of home or guys will have no intention of showing,they just want email exchange,getting into graphic details of what the meet will involve,weve had plenty of those too!...like brightongoblin says,many people that use these pages are just virtual doggers,if we were to set somthing up in future,i'd be asking for recommendations,maybe we can set up an ebay style points system by each members profile,ha ha.
I reckon most guys would say they would 'shag' a stranger if they had the chance, but most wouldnt and those that would contain only a small percentage of guys who would respect boundaries.
I am a single guy, from just along the coast from Brighton, and I find that making arrangements often leads to long cold nights waiting. Most of my fun comes from the chance meet. Not to say that meets dont work, sure they do, but not that often.
.....one reason we gave up on arranged meets,is the amount of times we were stood-up by balance,it just wasn't worth the time,or effort...yes,couples will arrange meets,then not show,its not only a male thing....much of it comes down to the fantasy element,its just so easy to get carried away on the thrill,in the comfort of home or guys will have no intention of showing,they just want email exchange,getting into graphic details of what the meet will involve,weve had plenty of those too!...like brightongoblin says,many people that use these pages are just virtual doggers,if we were to set somthing up in future,i'd be asking for recommendations,maybe we can set up an ebay style points system by each members profile,ha ha.
Sex God
Quote by brightongoblin
I think most of the 'married' singles are not really up for it, it just turns em on to think about meeting strangers. In other words, they get off on the fantasy, not the real thing.
Couldn't agree more. We get emails from several hundred guys each week, no kidding - and the vast majority of these ask to meet with us, but after a couple of emails, it usually turns out that all they really want is someone to send them *dirty* emails/txt messages etc
They don't want to risk their wife/partner/work collegue finding out what they get up to so therefore can't bring themselves to act out their fantasies at all - just write about them for later private use
Tracy-Jayne
Sex God
well think they have lost there bottle jo ,prob they think they cant last that long
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Ah ! that answers a lot.... why my tax bill went up and why i had to leave !! thanks gurl, i thought it was something i done, now i know it was something i didnt do !!
