in our experience,some guys approach my (male) side,others mrs d's......the trouble is with rules,they aren't fixed,the most that can be offered,are general couples can be a bit tempramental,the rules in a particular instance are of the couples making,you wont know what they are until you overstep the mark or get ur end away!!......personally,if we are doing a show,i dont care what side they approach!!..the thinking is,its polite to talk to the guy first,i'd go with that,except when we are up for fun,i dont wanna be talking,for us,that always blows it!!.....i wont tell you what we dont like,i'll tell you what works for us......the guy lets us know he is in on the game,by flicking on the gets out,then,after a pause,walks past,any he plays by our unspoken rules,and we are happy to play,we will signal him in some way during his return journey.....thats just us though.
yeah,its confusing territory guys,i'm glad i'm half of a couple and not a single dogger!!...if a guy wants to talk to you,he will talk to you,don't go tapping on a closed window shouting "are you alright mate"? you dont half feel a wally when he doesn't open it!!!
i dont mind the men/man being on my side of the car- most are straight so would want to see the lady more than the man!!
ok ok fair comments there is no set rules , but if a cpl are not in the throws of passion and are only sat talking or smoking hence the window will be down, is it not common courtesy to speak to the man first as you would in the lets face it you can bet the first words are ."You alright, busy tonight isnt it, what you into".
Is it to much to ask for people to take thier manners out with them as i do.
k
Now I'm really confused. Some folks say if you dont ask you dont get, and recently I was not confident to approach a car or two and missed out big time, but here it says if the window is wound up not to ask.
It seems that in the currently climate (very cold) windows will be wound up to try and keep warm. Oh well I will just have to keep persevering and see how I get on.
Futher confusion abounds.
Harry Jones
29yr old Straight single male
hi m it seems we are much alike in our thinking and i know we are both players so i think we can safely say we have some experience on this subject, i find when a guy is standing on my side of the car right against the window uninvited the message comes across as "come on get on with it".
maybe this observation is wrong but thats how it feels and looks to me.
we are all there for enjoyment, not pressure or to be intimidated.
i can only speak for myself but the guys who talk to my husband first is the guy who has all the fun.
and lets face it a little chat with the the male half relaxes everybody and an understanding is astablished so we all know what we want, and the fun can begin. :happy:
ps M i was going to come across to your car other night but he would'nt let me get out of van :cry:
well k i think we are alike in so many ways
it is a shame we did not get to chat the other night i will pm you my mobile num and you can text me next time you are there and i will come over to your hubbys side of the van and chat first xxxxxx
be great to get to know you better
we will be there friday night xxx
M xx
thought it was just us who prefer guys 2 come 2 guys side first..seems where not on our own..for us personely its a message 2 a guy 2 say before we decide 2 involve u we 1st wanna know ur attitude etc etc..and if we do involve u theres a little bit of a barrier just incase he choose 2 go diving in head 1st...but each 2 there own as we have witnessed countless cpls who really dont give a dam who approaches or even how many etc etc
just creepin off the subject a little how many cpls have given all the signals had a guy approach ,hes polite looks ok has the right attitude etc etc..u choose to let him join in then
here comes the big question he drops his trousers and u can tell hes not washed all day or even maybe a cpl of days...for us its a big NO WAY ..this happens quite often 2 us anyone else?
youngsheffcouple nice to know we agree, bet most go cpls do :thrilled:
we can not concieve how any guy could possible think ..im out tonight lookin 4 a cpl and thinking a women is gonna want 2 touch or play with a dirty smelly dick it defys common sense...
That sounds nasty.
Any action in watford aera?
Hard to tell which side of the car Silky is on once shes got going LOL. Perhaps they should approach from the air !
to continue with the hygiene issue,yes,mrs dirty has encountered "satan's sausage" on a few occasions,the last encounter was particularly depressing,and we lost a large amount of vodka,in our attempt to nuetralise the odour........to change sides for a mo,allow me to recount the dillema faced by "the captain".the captain was a gentle soul,and most pleased when,out of the blue,was invited to chew the cud,so to dropped to his knees,grabbed the recipient's ankles,and took his head perscribed a perfect arc,which landed squarely into the flange,splat!!.all was not well,it soon became clear that "the captain" was in serious trouble,he fell forwards,muttering "kin hell"!,his glasses were askew,and his breathing had become laboured,but he kept consious throughout...later on,relating his tale,he described the experience as being not too dissimilar to sticking his tongue on a lorry battery whilst laying face down in a pallet of fish.......what an animal,but what a dogger,"the captain"one of the lads,god bless him.
d n m, common sence n the single guy dont go together
in our experence they spot a cpl n they start to think with there balls most of the time
tim n sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i am sure you will go far in this world. keep up the good wash sorry i mean work. 
