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wife wants to flash - shud i or not ? yes i,m going for it

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hi we are newish on here and never done it b4 but my hubby has high sex drive and me low, so i want (yes me my fantasy) to go out to a pub (with hubby) in a crochet top wearing nothing under it, showing my nipples off. my aim is to have men look at me and hope it gives me a boost, i told my hubby and he says its ok to do it if thats what i want. do you think this is just a horny thing to do or am i being a slut. i would like members opinions on this please.
Do it, but do it with subtlety, dont make it look like you have done it to attract the attention of men, make it look like you feel comfortable doing what you are doing.
I would then hope two things will happen, guys will certainly look but not gawp and you will feel very sexy, be prepared for women to look too, that may put you off but dont let it.
My wife has done this many many times and we both enjoy it very very much, just enjoy it and have fun.
PoshnBecks
thanks for that poshnbecks, i'll keep that in mind
if it feels right try it,my better half likes flashing in pubs,we sometimes even get them coming over and talking,like posh and becks said,be subtle and natrual,but most of all enjoy it,kelly gets soooooooo horney when she knows she is teasing people,and yes she does attract females but that isnt a bad thing wink wink.
cheers daveandkelly, i know i'v only had 2 replies but both are very good and encouraging, it makes me feel better in 2 ways. that i am not a slut for wanting to show my body off to other men and that i'm not the only one that wants to do it
why not try to get another couple who are into flashing too go with you,that way it would take a lot of pressure off you on your first time,and you get the bonus of having company to talk to.
have you thought of flashing from the safety of your own car?i must admit i,ve got a vested interest because i,m a trucker and theres nothing i like better than looking down from my high up vantage point and getting a nice flash from the driver or passenger....i,ve seen some great sights but they are few and far between in the winter months...and you,ll really cheer the truckers up too...lol.
nice idea kinkychris, that'll be better to start and get me into it yes but i'd only be letting one guy see me, the idea of going in a pub is to be seen by a few men. thanks anyway
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have you thought of flashing from the safety of your own car?i must admit i,ve got a vested interest because i,m a trucker and theres nothing i like better than looking down from my high up vantage point and getting a nice flash from the driver or passenger....i,ve seen some great sights but they are few and far between in the winter months...and you,ll really cheer the truckers up too...lol.
i agree with that one mate wink as you say some nice flashes in summer but nowt much in winter :cry: :cry:
now that two of you think its a good idea i will try it out, but only a tit at first. thanks both of you
do you truckers work NEXT WEEK, between xmas and new year
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do you truckers work NEXT WEEK, between xmas and new year
iam working tuesday :cry: but only local
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do you think this is just a horny thing to do or am i being a slut. i would like members opinions on this please.

Well I personally wouldn't find it horny but the only thing that matters is do you? Are you being a slut? again, does it matter? Maybe you'll feel like a slut and maybe you'll like it! lol
Ultimately, it's what you get pleasure from that counts, as long as it doesn't hurt other people in the process.
thanks for all the replies to my post and yes i WILL enjoy it and look forward to doing it, i can't wait. and with that i wish all sh members a VERY happy christmas and new year, cheers
:shock: flashing in a car,shouldnt the truckers be watching the road?,thats how accidents happen by not concentrating,
Dave i would only flash a trucker at traffic lights not when overtaking him, that could cause a accident, i wouldn't even flash him in a traffic jam in case he got out and groped me. so be assured i will not cause any accident mate
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:shock: flashing in a car,shouldnt the truckers be watching the road?,thats how accidents happen by not concentrating,
:kissmyarse: here we go there`s always one smackbottom thanks for the warning mate i`ve always wondered why it is when i just finished looking at a sexy looking lady in a passing car i end up with 44 ton of scrap metal around me :giveup:
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:shock: flashing in a car,shouldnt the truckers be watching the road?,thats how accidents happen by not concentrating,
:kissmyarse: here we go there`s always one smackbottom thanks for the warning mate i`ve always wondered why it is when i just finished looking at a sexy looking lady in a passing car i end up with 44 ton of scrap metal around me :giveup:
Sorry rick and jools, hate to be a stick in the mud, but I fully agree with daveandkelly on this one, you might be able to do two things at once (perhaps Jools is driving, as I am sure women are the only ones who can do more than one thing at a time) wink but there are a lot of guys/girls out there who would just be too distracted.
I would hate to think that by flashing at someone, I was the cause of a serious accident, or even worse caused someones death. Just my opinion but my brother got killed by a bloke who was driving and had been distracted for a moment, not worth it in my opinion.
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:shock: flashing in a car,shouldnt the truckers be watching the road?,thats how accidents happen by not concentrating,
:kissmyarse: here we go there`s always one smackbottom thanks for the warning mate i`ve always wondered why it is when i just finished looking at a sexy looking lady in a passing car i end up with 44 ton of scrap metal around me :giveup:
Sorry rick and jools, hate to be a stick in the mud, but I fully agree with daveandkelly on this one, you might be able to do two things at once (perhaps Jools is driving, as I am sure women are the only ones who can do more than one thing at a time) wink but there are a lot of guys/girls out there who would just be too distracted.
I would hate to think that by flashing at someone, I was the cause of a serious accident, or even worse caused someones death. Just my opinion but my brother got killed by a bloke who was driving and had been distracted for a moment, not worth it in my opinion. hiya lol could`nt help that it was just my sarcastic side coming out :twisted: i understand where you both are coming from but there is usually more distraction driving through a city centre especially at night i would`nt condone anyone driving along with their mind on anything else but what they are doing but i think we are talking about a fleeting glimpse here not an all out orgie :lol: :lol: .
women are the only one who can do two things at once hmmmm ......................... (walks away thinking about that one confused :lol: )
Agree about the town centres, they can be VERY distracting, all these young things with no clothes on, they will catch their death of cold they will wink :wink:
i will be flashing friday south of the county guys ( daytime)
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Agree about the town centres, they can be VERY distracting, all these young things with no clothes on, they will catch their death of cold they will wink :wink:

MMMMMMM Well what can i say to that Mrs NWC you can distract me any day :wink: redface
Love Mollman xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Agree about the town centres, they can be VERY distracting, all these young things with no clothes on, they will catch their death of cold they will wink :wink:

MMMMMMM Well what can i say to that Mrs NWC you can distract me any day :wink: redface
Love Mollman xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Mollers, you crack pot :wink:
sounds great go for it redface wink
The idea that my wife would want to flash someone is a real turn on.
Also, love the idea of wife flashing someone whilst asking for directions (mapping?)
If you are ever in the south- tip me the wink...
i think you would not be called a slut you are just having some fun if i was in the pub and saw this and you went back to your husband it would be a turn on go for it girl biggrin