how come when u try n arrange to meet up with a couple that u want to meet up with we get given 30-45mins notice, it makes us look bad when we keep turning it down! with work at 9 the next day we dont want to be out latee. is that totally unreasonable of us or does everyone make last minute plans? cos my other half hates them and then ends up pissed off! its fair enough i guess
its just pissed me off in one sense and upset me in another, we are new to this and dont know what to expect
Don't bother then.
Go back to pubbing and clubbing, you won't be missed.
"don't want to out late"....are you real ?
I just got in a few minutes ago, and I've got to be at work by 8...latest.
AND this was an early night....I'm not in 'til 2 or 3 in the morning most nights....no staying power or ability anymore.....no wonder the games going to the dogs.
Let me put this in a few simple words.
You arrange your life to suit the COUPLES needs, if YOU cannot be bothered to put yourself out then GO AWAY
thanks for peoples opinions - its really appreciated - just for confirmaiton i am the female half of the couple :-) everyone on here has been so nice and i find it amused that the person that hasnt been very nice to us and made me post this actually commented on the post! the cheek! oh well - thanks to everyone from here the majority of you are great and i love the cafe!!
~hugs and kisses~
We were the ones who would like to meet the thread starter. The first time we should have met we arranged the night before. jane and I was to meet at a location in Leeds! They cried off when we were there with all sorts of excuses. We had the mobile number and was asked to keep in touch when we were out again. Two nights running text messages back and forth and last night was yes we would like to meet you at ??????? They knew we were out and about and that it would only take us 45 mins to get there, as we had already told them via text, lo and behold whilst we on our way we got a text, sorry it takes 30 mins to get water hot and really need a shower and its too cold to go out in winter. We just got fed up and sent a text back saying sorry waste of time , bye. Deny this if you wish Krazy but we
still have every text sent and received and would take this to the highest authority to prove myself.
We think some people just get a kick out of doing what was said above, maybe a ham shank or F..G but sorry its not for us, we want proper people for proper dogging fun.
If people want to get into dogging they should think more carefully about whether they really want it or not.
Just for the record with regard to a previous post , we are a couple looking for a couple.
sorry but we won't be meeting with Krazy
i dont deny any of that - i just asked for a little more notice - we made possible plans but nothing was confirmed until 30 mins beforehand! never mind, dont worry about it! we're met up with other couples from here and people are so nice that we are having a great time and thanks for the advice from everyone! :-D hope to meet some of you at a party xxxxx
if any mods are around can u delete this post? its turned into a bad match and its a little silly now - thanks xxxx
You didn't ask for more notice when you agreed last night
This should not be deleted, it should be a warning and some help to 'would be doggers' to think before acting.
We have been dogging 15 plus years and know the score, we don't need young and innocents to take over and tell us how we should act. Its just been proven as nothing has been denied, see previous post!!!
I'm totally heartbroken, and I don't need 10 hours of sleep anyway...I can manage quite well with four hours, and less if I need to.
Couple wanting another couple is SWINGING.
I don't "do" arranged meets, too many wasters about...and the "real" people don't use inet anyway...in fact, I have only talked to a few couples who DO use inet...most just go out on spec...and do very well out of it.
What you all seem to forget is that the people on this site are a minority.....most show couples just don't do internet...in fact, I wish nobody did !
Since the net started the game has become crowded.
Praise where its due, Redhot, i think you are 75% correct as to it being swinging. however the meet was to be in a dogging location where others may have had the chance to watch or join in. This is where I think 'newbies' need to think long and hard whether this is for them. I think that the outdoor location in a public place can give people second thoughts. If so called 'newbies' are looking at this thread then please think before going head on to reply to adverts as to whether you can go through with it. If any doubt at all then don't do it.
For us the thrill is of the danger of being outside, not cos we want to get caught by the authoritys, we don't, but we want to get caught by the genuine doggers out there for whom it it wasn't for them we wouldn't get our fun that we crave for.
Lets see now, couple (numero 1) meet another couple (numero 2) in a car park for adult fun....both couples (numero 1 and numero 2) are offended by several single males standing about watching, and ask them to leave.
Another layby, later. Couple show up, looking for other couples. Various unattached males wander over to get a look and get a mouthful of abuse instead ( "why don't you fuckin' wankers piss-off and get a life...go on, fuck off before you get your fucking teeth knocked out" )
Yes, this is """"""dogging""""""" 2005 style......
You can call it what you like, but calling a shovel a toothpick doesn't make it one.
Then there are all the chancers pretending to be couples because they can't be arsed to wait ("sorry, the missus couldn't be here...her mums ill....but I'll fuck your girl anyway")
I personally think the best scheme was the "blind" dogger with the white stick....although why he used the stick at night in a layby I never did find out.....but he got a lot of fun out of it...
we tried to arrange meets 3 weeks running but its not as easy for couples as it is for single guys. There are babysitters etc etc and theres 2 people who have to feel like going out..Sex is often an impulse thing so is dogging planning it is not as exciting as doing it
My sympathy lies entirely with Krazykayaker,
Not all of us can play until the early hours, indeed some of us are on our way to work while others are on their way to their (own ) beds!.
To tell these folk to go away is extremely rude and I feel suggests that the person posting that note (jomu) is very self centered and lacks any degree of consideration or understanding that other folk do have busy lives to lead, perhaps he has little else to do other than type drivel.
Alan1954
If you read the thread correctly then we wrote
'They knew we were out and about and that it would only take us 45 mins to get there, as we had already told them via text, lo and behold whilst we on our way we got a text, sorry it takes 30 mins to get water hot and really need a shower and its too cold to go out in winter.'
Thats why we told them what we did. A polite sorry its too late would have been better, then none of us would be reading and writing to this thread!!!!
I am sorry if my posting offended philfun 1and my apologies to him ,
I would quite agree that to have someone to arrange a meet knowing that they are probably not going to show up is very annoying and frustrating. Ok we can all have a last minute crisis which can mean cancelling a meet, but not usually within such a short time of the arrangement being made, or for such forseeable reasons (No hot water for a bath, and its cold outside should have been obvious before kayaker made any arrangements.)
I suppose the very ease with which meetings can be arranged on sites such as these is in itself part of the problem. Too easy to make arrangements without any commitment to keep them.
The main point of the posting was towards jomju and his attitude to others, As I said in my posting we cannot all play late at night for whatever reason. This does not mean someone should be told to bugger off. ( Excuse the language).
Grief, I'm crying into my tea.
Get real, there are a lot of successful meets arranged on here, and just as many unsuccessful ones.
There are loads of single guys pretending to be couples, and loads of "couples" who are not into exhibitionism....but like 'tending.
There are chancers, wankers and wasters...and sometimes I think they're a majority of those on here.
Now, believe it or not, but you used to go to mk and have a good time....several times a week, without arranging anything as well. It used to have loads of show couples...now they get mangled in the rush of turds who cannot be bothered to get out of the cars and just sit wanking with the lights on, so they've packed it in...or moved to pastures new (mainly clubs and at each others homes)
Oh, and not to forget the sycophants who spend their time ass-licking every couple on here.....
As I said way back when...most people in the game don't use the net....most of the non-net guys think it's shite....maybe it's useful if you're pushed for time ("I can fit you in between 8 and 10 tonight, but I'm really busy") (don't laugh...that was a reply to a couple from a guy on here....)
