would like to meet a couple for some dogging fun

21 Nov 2005

hi all
we are a couple from wakefield fem28/bi/medium build-male33/str8/medium build-
we are looking to meet some sexy couples around the same age and build to us, no offence but not wanting to meet old beerbellied men and women, we have been doing this for about 3 years and are not shy, get in touch if you think you would like to meet up, and if this post does offend you then loose some weight,
would prefer you to be in the wakefield area.

21 Nov 2005

My belly is mostly chips .............does that count ?

21 Nov 2005

Me too Silk and Big G, no beer in my belly! I may be overweight, chubby, fat (whatever you want to call it) and fully agree that people who do the pre-arranged stuff should say exactly what they want, but Tabby and Tina, I really dont think there is any need to be offensive and tell people they need to lose weight, we would never say anything rude about your figure! Everyone as their own likes and dislikes and it is not very polite to be so rude to people wink

Just glad I dont live near to Wakefield lol

Good luck Tabby & Tina, think you just might need it!

21 Nov 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Me too Silk and Big G, no beer in my belly! I may be overweight, chubby, fat (whatever you want to call it) and fully agree that people who do the pre-arranged stuff should say exactly what they want, but Tabby and Tina, I really dont think there is any need to be offensive and tell people they need to lose weight, we would never say anything rude about your figure! Everyone as their own likes and dislikes and it is not very polite to be so rude to people Just glad I dont live near to Wakefield
Good luck Tabby & Tina, think you just might need it!

Nah leave em be , Im sure they will meet just the kind of doggers they are after :wink:
Its just a theory but Ive always thought theres such a thing as a 'fat slovenly personality' and it isnt always fat people that have them ....if ya get me drift Mrs Wig :wink: xxx

21 Nov 2005

I was being nice, I put lots of smileys in my post and the odd wink to show I wasnt being horrible!
But I can also do slovenly if required lol

21 Nov 2005

i have been reading lots of posts by people new this forum and the regulars usually tell them to be more specific about what they are looking for and where they are from,thats all I was doing, ive not got anything against the bigger person just dont want them bouncing up and down on me getting all out of breath b4 we have even started lol
also i feel there has to be some attraction and im not attracted to the bigger person although im no size 10 myself,

21 Nov 2005

Take no notice T n T ...i can be a nasty fucker for no reason at all sometimes . You dont ask you dont get right ? lol

:lol:

Good luck with it

21 Nov 2005

Quote by tabby&tina
hi all
we are a couple from wakefield fem28/bi/medium build-male33/str8/medium build-
we are looking to meet some sexy couples around the same age and build to us, no offence but not wanting to meet old beerbellied men and women, we have been doing this for about 3 years and are not shy, get in touch if you think you would like to meet up, and if this post does offend you then loose some weight,
would prefer you to be in the wakefield area.

Come down to Birmingham, and have a word with some of the dogging Yoofs, and I'm sure that they will oblige for you. They have already got their spray cans out and marked out the car park tarmac with classics like "Gay Bay", "Swingers Bay" etc...so maybe they can add some bays for you like "Fussy Couples Bay" "Slim Doggers Bay" "Fat Doggers Bay" etc
rolleyes

22 Nov 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
Take no notice T n T ...i can be a nasty fucker for no reason at all sometimes . You dont ask you dont get right ? :lol:
Good luck with it

can you stop your avatar changing so quickly I am trying to perv :D

22 Nov 2005

Quote by partyman
hi all
we are a couple from wakefield fem28/bi/medium build-male33/str8/medium build-
we are looking to meet some sexy couples around the same age and build to us, no offence but not wanting to meet old beerbellied men and women, we have been doing this for about 3 years and are not shy, get in touch if you think you would like to meet up, and if this post does offend you then loose some weight,
would prefer you to be in the wakefield area.

Come down to Birmingham, and have a word with some of the dogging Yoofs, and I'm sure that they will oblige for you. They have already got their spray cans out and marked out the car park tarmac with classics like "Gay Bay", "Swingers Bay" etc...so maybe they can add some bays for you like "Fussy Couples Bay" "Slim Doggers Bay" "Fat Doggers Bay" etc
rolleyes

well u can guess which bay we will be going in then

22 Nov 2005

Tabby & Tina, no one as a problem with you only wanting slim couples and you are right is stating what you are looking for. It was the rude way in which you said it which I found very offensive.
Common curtousey and good manners never cost anyone anything!
Anyway as I said previously, hope you have fun.

22 Nov 2005

sorry if i offended but i was probably getting my bitchy remarks b4 I recieved them from other members who i knew would take offence, but as i said its our preference

23 Nov 2005

somone mentioned bouncing ummmm bigger is better and skinny people just cant afford to eat well we thought swingers were meant to be non judgemental hence the saying make love not war

23 Nov 2005

Quote by tabby&tina
sorry if i offended but i was probably getting my bitchy remarks b4 I recieved them from other members who i knew would take offence, but as i said its our preference

Oh piffle! lol

Find me a thread in the Dogging section where someone has been offended and bitchy about someone stating their preferences for slim couples? The only thing you'll find like that are posts from doggers/couples/wannabes being rude or disrespectful who are then challenged for behaving that way! I don't think that qualifies as being bitchy and really don't see why you do!

23 Nov 2005

It is possible to be specific without being rude.
For the record, we are not offended by T & T's comments as we put it down to a lack of something and move on.
If our comments offend you then we suggest that you think before posting.
It costs nothing to be polite.

23 Nov 2005

hey lets be honest you guys are out for a shag and fun arnt so stop fuking bitching,its not gona solve ne thing isit? biggrin

25 Nov 2005

if t&t want to be specific about what they are after then i think that is up to them.
everyone has theyre prferences and it is better to let people know before they meet and are dissapointed.

25 Nov 2005

Strikes me as strange that this thread is in the Dogging section at all and not in "Lets Meet Up". The car park is not the place to legislate who can and who can't drive around and park up. What's the next step? Bouncers at the car park entrance doing a height and weight check on all drivers and passengers who want to come past?
So obese people are ...what about the ill-mannered, foul-mouthed, and other disfunctionals? Are they OK as long as they are "slim"? Would you like to further discriminate...maybe on hair colour, or lack of hair, or skin colour, race or religeon? Any prejudices against people with disabilities?

Quote by tabby&tina
and if this post does offend you then loose some weight,

and if this post does offend you then ... yes I was tempted, but no, I shan't sink to those sort of depths,

25 Nov 2005

Quote by john781
if t&t want to be specific about what they are after then i think that is up to them.
everyone has theyre prferences and it is better to let people know before they meet and are dissapointed.

Personal preferences ought, IMHO remain exactly that...PERSONAL.
By bringing them out into the PUBLIC domain, they cease to become preferences and they become prejudices.
And I thought that there was an AUP that covered prejudice... confused

25 Nov 2005

Quote by john781
if t&t want to be specific about what they are after then i think that is up to them.
everyone has theyre prferences and it is better to let people know before they meet and are dissapointed.

spot on mate its always best to be honest for the beginning biggrin

it will save a lot of embarrassment later on both sides :cry: .
surely the name of the game is fun lol

:lol: :lol: .
maybe a little more diplomacy in the wording of the ad would have been a more subtle way wink

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25 Nov 2005

So they don't want to meet old, fat, beer bellied men and women?
So what? Good for them.
Don't be so harsh on them.
Best of luck to you biggrin

25 Nov 2005

Mr Ben, no one is being harsh about their preferences, and I say well done to them for being up front with their requirements. It was the cruel and rude comments they made about obese people which caused the offense!
It would be a boring old world if we all liked the same type, personally I dont like men who are under 5 foot or over 7 foot wink

but I would never be rude to anyone who did not meet my requirements.
Anyway, I think it is about time everyone let T&T get on with their add and hopefully they will meet the people they are looking for and have fun. I think we have all made our point about being rude andI am sure that most people agree that they did do right by clearly stating their requirements.
T&T good luck with your post lol

25 Nov 2005

I agree that we should state our preferences in our adds, mine would go something like , no stick insects, sizeofiles etc. I may be on the large side, and have a small prick, but there is 16 stone shoving it in. wink

My wife is size 18/20 and I love every inch of her, so I wouldn't be interested in you at all, so you are safe. cool

26 Nov 2005

hi to all you sad gits
this is tabby,we have the right to our preferences if u dont like it tuff shit,get a LIFE, all alot of u seem to do with your lifes is spend it on here bitching about other peoples posts do u actually get time to go out in the real world & do some dogging?theres alot of old ,fat,beerbellied people out there (that includes women too) who i dont want near my wife thats the reason 4 the add which i thought was being extremely polite but hey thats life,but your all entitled to your opinion but you just get carried away,plus i dont really give a shit.
p.s tina says thanks to all the p.m,s of support we have recieved & i cant wait to read the avalanch of critisisum were gunna get & i no i cant spell & i'm the most ignorant arragant person you'v had the displeasure of reading but again hey i dont giv a shit.(forgot to mention a sarcastic b*****d)
thanks
tabby

26 Nov 2005

Quote by tabby&tina
i'm the most ignorant arragant person you'v had the displeasure of reading but again hey i dont giv a shit.(forgot to mention a sarcastic b*****d)
thanks
tabby

Think we already worked that one out without you having to tell us! We might be fat with beer bellies (as you so elequantly stated) but we are not thick!
Anyway, its alright for you to say what you want/think but you dont like it if anyone else comments on what you have put. Double standards?
Has for having a life, you are not in a position to judge anyone on this site. You dont know me or a lot of the other people who have commented but maybe we have more of a varied life than you and do other things apart from dogging evil

Cant be arsed with this anymore, it getting very childish and cant be bothered with kids, would much rather speak to adults!

26 Nov 2005

Ok - end of discussion.
we all have a right to our preferences and are able to state them.
However, the AUP states:
"No abusive or aggressive behaviour towards other people on here"
Therefore they are ex-members.
Thread locked.
Mal