Ok, just to clear up some confusion a bit- there are I think two types.
Most people here seem to be "swinging doggers" who aim to meet up with others, usually couples, in public. This is well organised, well structured and safe- and in many way this is like a swingers club. The only difference is that the location is public. The emphasis is on being friendly and polite, and ultimatly the aim is sex (well, most of the time.) As such the way they use this forum could be to discuss meets etc
Then there are the voyeur doggers- perhaps the "old breed." Their aim is to watch and spy, and to keep a distance. As for the shagging couple then they ARE part of the system, but they ain't the doggers. I get the feeling that the THRILL comes from the fact that someone *might* be watching. As such there is little or often no contact between the doggers and the couples.
Worth pointing out that I have never ever practiced either.
Oh dear! I fall between the two groups. I like to watch from a safe distance, then gradually get nearer, then get my arm in the window following an invitation, then hopefully indulge in full safe sex.
Pr'aps I'm just greedy, LoL.
Dave...
Wekll, thats more of a swinging experience then!
I can tell you've done neither, Crazydonk - that is why you're talking totally out of your arse!
Some people like all sorts of things, why try to categorise?
You sound like some spotty student, trying to get some info for a dissertation!
I'm all types you mentioned!
My very first outdoor erotic experience was when I was about 13 and I chanced upon a couple shagging in the woods. I spied on them from a distance and have never forgotten it :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: . However, not only do I like to watch, I like to play too. I go to clubs and yes, some of what happens outdoors is very much like what happens at clubs only it is outdoors. But in lots of situations there are differences, depending on who is there. Sometimes it might be one couple who want to be watched either publicly or secretly, sometimes it might be guys playing with each other, sometimes there might be a full scale gang bagng happening - yes, all that could happen at clubs - even the secret bit.
So what, as long as everyone is having a good time, who gives a fuck what it's called!
Now, either go and get some real world experience of the subject, or stop talking shite!
Ok crazy, u seem to have firm ideas about dogging, and u seem to want to be a dogger.....and you also think that swinging and doggin are not interchangeable....
So why the fuck did u join a swingers forum?
Big G yawns scratches ..and moves on :-)