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iv never been dogging maybe cus i dont know what to expect when i go. what was yr first time like? did u go again or was it yr first and last time?. would be nice to hear some do's and dont's from u guys that go alot and from u guys that went once only
thanx raider
I'm not being lazy but I knew I'd posted my newbie thoughts on this over a year ago and I found them! Reading them back, even though I had plenty to say I can still recall how overwhelming that experience was!
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Hi All wave
Thank for the encouragement, I finally found the courage to go out looking at a couple of spots! Three evenings were spent with just cigarettes, CDs and what looked like innocent drivers for company who had no idea what my naughty mind was up to! I decided to go out again tonight and pulled up nearish to another car, I switched my light on on the pretext of getting my bag (just in case) and looked over, to be met with a smile from a couple when they put their light on too, although they did look a little surprised to see me on my own! biggrin
I really wasn't sure if it was just a smile or something else, so I acknowledged it, looked at them a little longer than you normally would then turned the light back off and waited (of course, all the advice that I hoped I'd remember rushed out of my head at 100mph!). Lucky me though, the couple in the started getting it on!
I'd love to say I stood at their car and had a birds eye view but I didn't, I wasn't sure if that was what they wanted and didn't want to push my luck but could see (and hear) enough from where I was and they seemed comfortable with that too. It was fantastic to watch them and SO erotic, especially because it all happened without an uncomfortable conversation or any major embarrassment! I have no idea if they were seasoned doggers or if I just got lucky with newbies/a very randy couple but I put my light back on and mouthed thank you then drove home with a HUGE smile on my face!
I have no idea who they were but I do hope I bump into them again, I guess you might be members here....if you are, thank you so much again! wink
Serendipity

If you do go, be prepared for neck pain as you'll be swivelling your head around at every light and noise like Linda Blair in The Exorcist! lol
There's a dogging hints and tips thread stickied at the top of the page which is a good starter and you can pick up good tips from the dogging gang on SH! So, what is drawing you to dogging?
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What times to people tend to go dogging? I'm never sure what part of the evening/night is common.

I don't think there is a set time, or a set day come to that. One of my eternal mysteries is why one day is more popular one week and then completely quiet the next week. It is almost like there is some sort of unseen dogging force dragging people out. smile
I have seen activity any time from mid morning until three and four o'clock in the morning.
The best times I have had in general, have been well after midnight when it is a bit quieter. The boy racers have generally crashed their cars by then, the impatient guys have become impatient and gone home, there aren't too many members of the public genuinely walking their dogs but there are horny people looking for excitement. I have also had some very dull lonely times after midnight as well, sitting on my own in dark carparks, hoping that the unseen force hadn't misfired and hit me and nobody else, in fact many more than I have had good times so just turning up doesn't guarantee anything.
although this is not the true origional essence of dogging me and rach prefer to arrange more intimate meets as most dogging locations (even the less well known ones) are becoming more overcrowded.
our first experience happened about a year ago, we went to a well known spot, rach in the passenger seat and both felt extremely nervous. we pulled up and my lady started to look through a porn magazine, she was wearing an extremely short skirt and no underwear.
after about two minuites two guys came over to the car, at first we didnt know what to do, stay drive off or what, but we stayed and rach continued to look at the magazine and then got out her vibrator and gave the guys a great show cumming hard with it!! the guys were very appreciative and well behaved.
since then we have had some dodgy experiences which has lead us to discontinue our dogging escapades at known sites, the moral of the story, dont spoil it for yourselves guys, be considerate doggers and there will be more couples willing to have a go!!
As you'll see i'm fairly new to this too but I had my first dogging experience on monday night - went to the local spot in Cardiff waited for 2 hoursand..... nothing! but that hasnt put me off at all
I found it really exciting sitting there, waiting, every car that pulled in, peering through the mist on my windscreen - is there two people in that car? is there? is there? ... no. But the the next one came and the next one and the excitement just built and built.
I was never expecting a volvo full of vaginas to turn up, it would have been nice to see something but the thrill of waiting is half the fun.
one little bit of advice - watch out for red herrings - it was so cold on monday night and my windows were so misted I nearly strangled myself on my seatbelt trying to get out of my car when I saw a flash of light in a distant car ...... only to find out it was someones cig lighter lighting up a benson..... still eh... its all part of the fun!
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I was never expecting a volvo full of vaginas to turn up, it would have been nice to see !
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: like it man realy like it lol
Thanks!! these are the things you can think of when you are sat in a dark carpark alone!!
our first time ,sat in carpark she mini on holdups no nicks legs up on dash rabbit giving it 6 nowt car coming along very slow till we see the blue light on top (not flashing lol) rabbit away before you could say"ferrot" lol
lol thanx guys not sure it makes me want to rush out and try it tho. i get the sinking tummy feeling when i read yr replys so there must be something there i guess. the main thing is with me is makin my self look a prat if its someone walking there dog or worse the police. can u get done for it? im a firefighter so would lose my job if i went to court.
keep them stories commin guys
well there was this man got his dog pinched one night ,there was about 8 of us there and we all had to a statement ,but we never heard anything so dont think that the police had any leads
Thats so bad northeastcouple!!!! ha ha ha you win the cheese award! lol
The first time I went I totally mised the first couple who had started but I didn't realise what they were doing straight away as their car was hidden a bit. By the time I realised they had finished!! Anyway i perservered and was rewarded about an hour later with a great show by a couple and she helped me out by hand as well.
Returned to that spot the next night and had the best time ever with three couples, initiated by the couple I'd met the previous night.
Stick at it and things will happen. We've all spent many hours sitting waiting with nothing happening but we persevere knowing that eventually something will.
Good luck and stay safe
Dave
Well I've been twice on my own (thanks by the way to all who offered advice!) and I took all precautions necessary but as happens, there was no one there! I did find it a turn on just getting ready though!
Maybe next time, I will take the dog (to lick the back windows when they steam up). Just out of interest, do people actually take their dogs? Suppose it would depend on the dog really?
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lol not sure where the dog thing is goin
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Just out of interest, do people actually take their dogs? Suppose it would depend on the dog really?
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Yup! We know two guys who take a dog along. One walks his dog around the general area first which gives him a chance to peep in each car and see what's going on :wink:
The other one takes a small dog along and he just sits in the back of his car and goes to sleep so he's obviously used to being left alone whilst his owner goes off for some fun lol
Actually it's a good idea to take a dog, if you have a well behaved one who will sit in the car quietly while the humans are out to play. At least it makes it look as if you have a genuine reason to be in a remote area at night should the Police happen to pull in, if you say you're going to walk your dog :P
Tracy-Jayne
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Actually it's a good idea to take a dog, if you have a well behaved one who will sit in the car quietly while the humans are out to play. At least it makes it look as if you have a genuine reason to be in a remote area at night should the Police happen to pull in, if you say you're going to walk your dog :P
Tracy-Jayne

Thinks!! Wonder if the RSPCA let you take their dogs for a walk at night time? biggrin :D