Can I suggest that you do a search of the posts in this forum as this topic has been covered on many occasions in the past.
I am sure if you put in a little effort you will find the information here.
Like everyone else my first times where pretty lean as i didn`t know the ropes.I`m pleased to say i bumped into someone who knew all the signs and the few good experiences I had where you do spend a long time on your own sometimes explaining to another guy in his car,whose beating his meat,that your not into blokes :shock:
Not out so often now due to bad press and police
But one day ..........once you start it`s hard to stop....lol