Anxious to meet someone!.......am I just getting old?

9 Nov 2011

No need to answer that, but the number of threads appearing, generally bemoaning the fact that the author isn't managing, through ad's and so on, to arrange a meeting suggests a certain anxiety, perhaps caused by the expectancy generated when becoming a member of swinging heaven. Is there a general feeling that all members of the site are "in heat", promiscuous without any reservations, and only looking for someone, anyone, to shag?
I've been a member of s.h. for years, but I guess I wasn't young when I joined. Are we perhaps becoming a cyber generation who aren't familiar with meeting in the real world. That would be sad.
I can usually look back on any week and raise a smile by reminding myself of at least one person I've met during that week. As far as linking up with a partner willing to participate in sexy frolics goes, well, come on, the worlds full of them. I realise the different criteria for the couple looking for a special someone, but that's life.
I only joined to have a look at some of the girly pics confused

was an internet virgin at the time. Why did you join, and what, if any, expectations did you have?

9 Nov 2011

We joined because we both realised that as great a sex life as we have together, the thought of having sex with other people whilst both being there seemed to much to resist! We dont know how involved in the social side of things we want to get yet, its something we need to discuss I think.
One thing I would say is, its alot harder to meet another couple than we thought it was going to be (don't think thats always a bad thing though).

9 Nov 2011

Quote by skinny
Why did you join, and what, if any, expectations did you have?

I only wanted to buy one of these:

Damn you google!:rude:
Srsly though
I had a few unusual encounters prior to joining here, I enjoyed it and decided I was going to hunt for some more filthy fun, took a while but Im there now.

9 Nov 2011

Quote by joe_katy
We joined because we both realised that as great a sex life as we have together, the thought of having sex with other people whilst both being there seemed to much to resist! We dont know how involved in the social side of things we want to get yet, its something we need to discuss I think.
One thing I would say is, its alot harder to meet another couple than we thought it was going to be (don't think thats always a bad thing though).

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pretty much how we feel. we even have difficulty trying to arrange single guy meets. we thought that would have been easy seeing the ratio of guys against couples.
it seems to us that if you are a couple who shag on every opportunity like say at clubs, then it would be easiar, which has an element of truth there.
single guys are almost as difficult.
we have had more success on another site we are on, with a damn site less members than apparently on here.
we have been told that maybe not having pictures on our profile is not helping but we are prepared to cam, but then excuses as to why the other peeple cannot cam surface.
yes there are genuine peeple here but nowhere near as many as you would beleeve.

9 Nov 2011

Quote by starlightcouple
We joined because we both realised that as great a sex life as we have together, the thought of having sex with other people whilst both being there seemed to much to resist! We dont know how involved in the social side of things we want to get yet, its something we need to discuss I think.
One thing I would say is, its alot harder to meet another couple than we thought it was going to be (don't think thats always a bad thing though).

:thumbup: :thumbup:
pretty much how we feel. we even have difficulty trying to arrange single guy meets. we thought that would have been easy seeing the ratio of guys against couples.
it seems to us that if you are a couple who shag on every opportunity like say at clubs, then it would be easiar, which has an element of truth there.
single guys are almost as difficult.
we have had more success on another site we are on, with a damn site less members than apparently on here.
we have been told that maybe not having pictures on our profile is not helping but we are prepared to cam, but then excuses as to why the other peeple cannot cam surface.
yes there are genuine peeple here but nowhere near as many as you would beleeve.
Yea agreed, we have spoken to a few couples, most of which are very friendly. You do get the odd couple though who are of the persuasion "its only sex whats the big deal." We want our first time to be with someone a tad more considerate than that.

17 Nov 2011

Since posting this thread I had a whisper in chat, from a guy who'd read it but obviously didn't want to publish in the cafe... He said "if women didn't want to have sex with strangers then they wouldn't have joined this site" ... so there ya go folks...yer all sex maniacs and up for anything apparently, and you thought The Inbetweeners was fiction.

17 Nov 2011

We had already been playing in clubs for a few years but I wanted to play on cam so thats why we joined SH.
We get more meets 'elsewhere' so dont activley look for meets here anymore. It just seems like too much hard work at times which takes the fun out of it. We do still get meets off here though and have made many friends and met so many lovely people.