Can you ever really leave swinging behind you?

9 Aug 2013

Quote by celestria
You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave.

I'm not getting on my knees for you often but ... worship

this is very true!
And no I won't whilst I'm down there
Yeah you would. You so would. :twisted:
Yeah and she'll do all your ironing cooking and cleaning too rolleyes

Works for me.
Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Morbius
I've been using that line regularly for 16 years..... and it's NEVER worked ..... yet :twisted:

Hello you!

9 Aug 2013

Quote by essex34m
You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave.

I'm not getting on my knees for you often but ... worship

this is very true!
And no I won't whilst I'm down there
Yeah you would. You so would. :twisted:
Yeah and she'll do all your ironing cooking and cleaning too rolleyes

Works for me.
Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?
George Forman does it at our house!
Hubby irons, I do clean but only when I feel guilty, and the kids cook!
The kitchen is the room I pass through to a) get into the garden to sunbathe and b) get into the office to work!

9 Aug 2013

Quote by essex34m
Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by celestria

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:
aaaah brekkies at chez celery n fektart were always awesome

9 Aug 2013

Quote by celestria

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:
Forgive me? Oh bless.

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Earthchild

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:
aaaah brekkies at chez celery n fektart were always awesome
Have never made it, such regrets :upset::upset::upset::upset:
;)

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Calista

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:
aaaah brekkies at chez celery n fektart were always awesome
Have never made it, such regrets :upset::upset::upset::upset:
;)
Open invites given at northern addresses are still valid in south wales addresses. wink

You'd be more than welcome to come have breakfast with us anytime :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by noladreams

I've been using that line regularly for 16 years..... and it's NEVER worked ..... yet :twisted:

Hello you!
'Ello you smile

assionkiss:
I do still exist, I've not been chained to some rotting post in the cellar.... yet

9 Aug 2013

Quote by celestria
Open invites given at northern addresses are still valid in south wales addresses. You'd be more than welcome to come have breakfast with us anytime :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Will start saving, might make it there one day smile

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Calista

Open invites given at northern addresses are still valid in south wales addresses. You'd be more than welcome to come have breakfast with us anytime :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Will start saving, might make it there one day smile

if you taste as good as you look mmmmmmmm nom nom

9 Aug 2013

Quote by essex34m
Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Well to be honest, it's all in the preparation. You need a nice firm, solid one, nothing worse than a weiner with no girth! Sausages need a decent amount of meat with them. Then, they need to rolled around with a little something to keep them lubed and stop them sticking. At appropriate points they needed to be show the tongs, and moved around appropriately in order to make sure they don't spit too much and of course should always be subject to a taste test ...
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Calista

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Well to be honest, it's all in the preparation. You need a nice firm, solid one, nothing worse than a weiner with no girth! Sausages need a decent amount of meat with them. Then, they need to rolled around with a little something to keep them lubed and stop them sticking. At appropriate points they needed to be show the tongs, and moved around appropriately in order to make sure they don't spit too much and of course should always be subject to a taste test ...
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Very often, I have felt for my mate Morbs. Tonight I high five him.

9 Aug 2013

Quote by celestria

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:
aaaah brekkies at chez celery n fektart were always awesome
Have never made it, such regrets :upset::upset::upset::upset:
;)
Open invites given at northern addresses are still valid in south wales addresses. wink

You'd be more than welcome to come have breakfast with us anytime :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Please Miss, could I come too?? dunno

:inlove:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by essex34m

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Well to be honest, it's all in the preparation. You need a nice firm, solid one, nothing worse than a weiner with no girth! Sausages need a decent amount of meat with them. Then, they need to rolled around with a little something to keep them lubed and stop them sticking. At appropriate points they needed to be show the tongs, and moved around appropriately in order to make sure they don't spit too much and of course should always be subject to a taste test ...
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Very often, I have felt for my mate Morbs. Tonight I high five him.
For years I've been wondering who it was feeling me..... now I know

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Morbius

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:
aaaah brekkies at chez celery n fektart were always awesome
Have never made it, such regrets :upset::upset::upset::upset:
;)
Open invites given at northern addresses are still valid in south wales addresses. wink

You'd be more than welcome to come have breakfast with us anytime :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Please Miss, could I come too?? dunno

:inlove:
i shall remember that next yr when my aunt moves to oz and leaves me her good car!

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Morbius

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:
aaaah brekkies at chez celery n fektart were always awesome
Have never made it, such regrets :upset::upset::upset::upset:
;)
Open invites given at northern addresses are still valid in south wales addresses. wink

You'd be more than welcome to come have breakfast with us anytime :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Please Miss, could I come too?? dunno

:inlove:
Absolutely yes... it's a family wide invite, unless you would prefer it not to be :wink:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by Earthchild
i shall remember that next yr when my aunt moves to oz and leaves me her good car!

Oh please do come and see if the ceilings here are any lower than the Leeds ones lol

:lol:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by celestria

Calista, what are you like at cooking sausages?

Re-phrase that to what are you like at cooking sausages after two whole days of drinking munch style quantities and I'll forgive you lol

:lol:
aaaah brekkies at chez celery n fektart were always awesome
Have never made it, such regrets :upset::upset::upset::upset:
;)
Open invites given at northern addresses are still valid in south wales addresses. wink

You'd be more than welcome to come have breakfast with us anytime :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Please Miss, could I come too?? dunno

:inlove:
Absolutely yes... it's a family wide invite, unless you would prefer it not to be :wink:
That's the benefit of kids getting older, we can leave them alone now :twisted:

9 Aug 2013

Quote by celestria
Absolutely yes... it's a family wide invite, unless you would prefer it not to be

Oi, oi, oi I asked first LOL ;)

9 Aug 2013

Quote by celestria

i shall remember that next yr when my aunt moves to oz and leaves me her good car!

Oh please do come and see if the ceilings here are any lower than the Leeds ones lol

:lol:

i think its mandatory once i have a reliable car!

9 Aug 2013

I "left" the scene for sometime mainly due to personal circustances - no job, living situation was not good either. By the time I had sorted things out, many of those I knew in the scene socially or otherwise themselves had left. It was quite difficult to get to know those who had entered thereafter, and the interest trailed off (not necessarily anyone's fault, just a fact). I had been to a few Socials since, but they just didn't have the same effect for me and I went into hibernation again. I honestly think that I was spoiled way back (in fact, I know) as the events I've been fortunate to attend were legendary. Quite a few of the recent ones were rather pedestrian to be honest.
I miss the old times, but know that they'll never be back. Conventional relationships etc is something that has little appeal, but the way things are I doubt that I'll truly be able to get back into the "swing" of things again (pun intended).
So I'm in limbo. How long that lasts is anyone's guess.

9 Aug 2013

We have made some fabulous friends through swinging and I have realised that the thing I miss most is being able to drive off every other weekend to a munch/social/meet and spend time with like minded people. Some were just fleeting acquaintances, others we formed very very good and lasting friendships with. Our finances and location and childcare arrangements are a whole lot different now than they were then which is a big reason we drifted away. Hoping as the kids get bigger we will be able to leave them to travel and relive the best times of when tart and I first met, when life was less complicated and finances meant we could travel the length and breadth of the country to spent time with old friends and friends yet to be made.

10 Aug 2013

With me I still dabble here and there sometimes I will go to a club normally cupids......
Will I get back to how I was probably not but I take each day as it comes

10 Aug 2013

Quote by MikeC
With me I still dabble here and there sometimes I will go to a club normally cupids......
Will I get back to how I was probably not but I take each day as it comes

I went to Cupids, just for a look round when it changed hands.
The dogging car was a sight to behold.
Also been to Partners a handful of times since I gave up swinging. These trips were social for me, I went as a hand holder for someone who was too nervous to go on their own. It was interesting from a fly on the wall perspective, but kinda samey from a sexual one. In fact, go to somewhere like Partners with no sex in mind, and it's a pretty good health club. Just needs a gym.

10 Aug 2013

We were playing for a long time before joining a site and only joined here because I wanted to shag on cam. When we joined we had no intention of being social and making friends out of it ... We were on a mission to shag the world!
We would play every Friday and Saturday night and mid week if we could fit it in. Clubs, parties, house meets, hotels, dingy car parks, camping, singles, couples, orgies ... we had some fantastic sexual experiences (and some pretty shit ones too). We started going to socials and quickly realised that they were not just social!! Making fantastic friends and having loads of sex with random strangers ... Bonus!! :twisted:
I don't know if we'd just done it to death, but about 2 years ago I just decided out of the blue that I wasn't getting anything from it anymore. The buzz had gone. I stopped going into chat, I couldn't be arsed looking for meets, it just didn't seem worth the hassle so we stopped.
We have been out and played since but not often. It hasn't been bad but not great either. We talk about getting back into it again properly but never quite get round to it, life and work get in the way.
I do think you can have a normal relationship. We have an excellent one with the added bonus that I can walk down the street with my husband, see a hot guy and say "I would fucking destroy him!" lol

If we decided to never swing again, (never say never i say) neither of us would be bothered, if we lost touch with the fantastic friends we've made along the way we would both be gutted!

10 Aug 2013

Quote by Funlovers2009
We were playing for a long time before joining a site and only joined here because I wanted to shag on cam. When we joined we had no intention of being social and making friends out of it ... We were on a mission to shag the world!
We would play every Friday and Saturday night and mid week if we could fit it in. Clubs, parties, house meets, hotels, dingy car parks, camping, singles, couples, orgies ... we had some fantastic sexual experiences (and some pretty shit ones too). We started going to socials and quickly realised that they were not just social!! Making fantastic friends and having loads of sex with random strangers ... Bonus!! :twisted:
I don't know if we'd just done it to death, but about 2 years ago I just decided out of the blue that I wasn't getting anything from it anymore. The buzz had gone. I stopped going into chat, I couldn't be arsed looking for meets, it just didn't seem worth the hassle so we stopped.
We have been out and played since but not often. It hasn't been bad but not great either. We talk about getting back into it again properly but never quite get round to it, life and work get in the way.
I do think you can have a normal relationship. We have an excellent one with the added bonus that I can walk down the street with my husband, see a hot guy and say "I would fucking destroy him!" If we decided to never swing again, (never say never i say) neither of us would be bothered, if we lost touch with the fantastic friends we've made along the way we would both be gutted!

Yep. That just about sums things up for me too.
However fantastic the times, and the memories, I've got to thinking that swinging, as in the all-out shag the world stuff, really does have a shelf life.
I do know a few people who have carried on at a grand pace for many years, but most don't. Most go all-out, then slow down and then many just stop completely.
Is that too much of a sweeping generalisation though?

10 Aug 2013

Quote by bluexxx
We were playing for a long time before joining a site and only joined here because I wanted to shag on cam. When we joined we had no intention of being social and making friends out of it ... We were on a mission to shag the world!
We would play every Friday and Saturday night and mid week if we could fit it in. Clubs, parties, house meets, hotels, dingy car parks, camping, singles, couples, orgies ... we had some fantastic sexual experiences (and some pretty shit ones too). We started going to socials and quickly realised that they were not just social!! Making fantastic friends and having loads of sex with random strangers ... Bonus!! :twisted:
I don't know if we'd just done it to death, but about 2 years ago I just decided out of the blue that I wasn't getting anything from it anymore. The buzz had gone. I stopped going into chat, I couldn't be arsed looking for meets, it just didn't seem worth the hassle so we stopped.
We have been out and played since but not often. It hasn't been bad but not great either. We talk about getting back into it again properly but never quite get round to it, life and work get in the way.
I do think you can have a normal relationship. We have an excellent one with the added bonus that I can walk down the street with my husband, see a hot guy and say "I would fucking destroy him!" If we decided to never swing again, (never say never i say) neither of us would be bothered, if we lost touch with the fantastic friends we've made along the way we would both be gutted!

Yep. That just about sums things up for me too.
However fantastic the times, and the memories, I've got to thinking that swinging, as in the all-out shag the world stuff, really does have a shelf life.
I do know a few people who have carried on at a grand pace for many years, but most don't. Most go all-out, then slow down and then many just stop completely.
Is that too much of a sweeping generalisation though?
Everyone's different I suppose. We were shagging the world at a mad pace for about 9 years and stopped quite suddenly. I came to the conclusion that no sex was as good as the sex I got at home.
If we start again (which we probably will but not to the same extreme), it will be stimulating my mind with the experiences much more than it stimulates my foof!

10 Aug 2013

I still browse the sites, and halfheartedly look for a meet, but it's changed too much for me. Back when I first joined this site it was initially to get laid, then I found the forums, and developed some great friendships, I also made my name known on another site, and made some amazing friends there too.
Now when I visit forums, there is no community there anymore. The messages I get are from single guys with no profile or banter and around 90% say "want a fuck". I need my brain to be turned on as much as my body, and that just doesn't cut it for me.
Socials are now usually in clubs, which for me defeats the object entirely of socials. There is no such thing as munches anymore.
In short I'm happy to call myself a swinger, because I believe I always will be, it's a mindset, not an activity for me, but I'm not looking for sexual one nighters, I can get that in a normal nightclub, but that seems to be what swinging has turned into recently.

10 Aug 2013

Quote by Redangel2013
I still browse the sites, and halfheartedly look for a meet, but it's changed too much for me. Back when I first joined this site it was initially to get laid, then I found the forums, and developed some great friendships, I also made my name known on another site, and made some amazing friends there too.
Now when I visit forums, there is no community there anymore. The messages I get are from single guys with no profile or banter and around 90% say "want a fuck". I need my brain to be turned on as much as my body, and that just doesn't cut it for me.
Socials are now usually in clubs, which for me defeats the object entirely of socials. There is no such thing as munches anymore.
In short I'm happy to call myself a swinger, because I believe I always will be, it's a mindset, not an activity for me, but I'm not looking for sexual one nighters, I can get that in a normal nightclub, but that seems to be what swinging has turned into recently.

Do you know, that's almost exactly how it is for me too.
I've had an ad for years on another site but go through phases of logging in, actively looking, getting disheartened with the mentality and disappearing again for months.
I 've had almost a 2 year absence from everything (forums/ads) due to sheer workload & personal life that just took over everything else but have met (and seemed to keep...again lol

) the only two guys who didn't approach me with the 'fancy a fuck, luv' attitude and turned them into long term fb's. :thumbup:
Although its taken a complete back seat, the 'swinger' in me has never really left - I'm not interested in lots of play with different people, one-nighters just don't cut the mustard! I want high quality regular play with those who are 'keepers'.
Occasionally the mindset takes over & I have come very very close to taking my male friends to Chams for the experience - I absolutely love that there is something in me that can open these doors to others but I don't think it'd be a regular back-in-the-saddle thing ever again, more a one-off blow-his-mind thing. That's what the sexual side of this is for me now....power, I guess! dunno

And I miss my weekends of munch bubbles & room parties sooooo much! that bit I'd go back to in a heartbeat - with a tag on me that says 'not up for it' (but I kinda had one of those anyway ) :lol: