clubs and swinging

23 Jan 2013

There are quite a fe new clubs that have opened in recent times and it occurs to us that this seems to coincide with a reduction in people swinging from their own homes? For us this is a bit of a shame as , though w enjoy going to a club every now and then, we enjoy swinging in house. If we're honest we find it far harder and less comfortable to get to the sex end of things in a club.
Any one else find this?

23 Jan 2013

We have the same problem, when we go to a club we don't want to come across too pushy and rush over to the first couple as soon as we enter, we always find a nice little corner and stand there. When we do get talking to a couple or a couple come talking to us, next thing an hour and half has passed and you are still chatting but only because you don't really fancy them or your not interested in girl/ girl stuff and you don't want to be rude but still chat until you can find away to break off the conversation and move on and find other couples. At least when you meet a couple in a pub you have already chatted and exchanged photos giving you an idea what they look like and what they are into, all you have have to do on the night is click.

23 Jan 2013

I far prefered swinging in a club rather than someones house, there is usually more choice for a start and if i don't like whoever i'm chatting to then i can wander off smile

not that i do any swinging nowadays but clubs were my choice in the past.

23 Jan 2013

We took some time out and now that we're back we've decided to just do clubs and parties for the time being. We've been put in some quite difficult situations on house meets, and not just because some people don't look quite like the pictures that they sent!
It can be easier to get down and dirty at a house meet but it doesn't have to take too long at a club. I suppose it depends how up front you want to be.

23 Jan 2013

We only meet at home. Clubs are more of a social thing for us.

24 Jan 2013

we havent been to a club in aeons, after mr bonedigger overheard a lady he'd just played with saying some not so nice things about his size sad

It really knocked his confidence and we've never been back, the we just kind of fell out of swinging full stop after deciding to have another baby.
Now the kids are all older and staying up later, if we ever did decide to swing as a couple agan, it would be impossible to do it at home.

24 Jan 2013

Quote by Thebonediggers
Now the kids are all older and staying up later, if we ever did decide to swing as a couple agan, it would be impossible to do it at home.

Tell Mr B if fancies handholders at a club anytime, just give us a shout, be great to see you both again.
We have not really been swinging for a while, but we have carried on going to clubs. To be honest, we also find it more difficult to play in a club environment compared to home meets, but we do enjoy the social side of clubs and that is the main reason we have carried on going.

24 Jan 2013

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

Now the kids are all older and staying up later, if we ever did decide to swing as a couple agan, it would be impossible to do it at home.

Tell Mr B if fancies handholders at a club anytime, just give us a shout, be great to see you both again.
We have not really been swinging for a while, but we have carried on going to clubs. To be honest, we also find it more difficult to play in a club environment compared to home meets, butwe do enjoy the social side of clubs and that is the main reason we have carried on going.
Think we feel the same as NWC. Hey and if you fancy a sixsome going to a club we'd be up for a bit of that! Oh and Mrs B ...j says theres nowt wrong with Mr B's size he's a sexy bloke!

25 Jan 2013

Quote by Lost

Think we feel the same as NWC. Hey and if you fancy a sixsome going to a club we'd be up for a bit of that! Oh and Mrs B ...j says theres nowt wrong with Mr B's size he's a sexy bloke!

Tell J, that apart from Mr B being VERY sexy, he is also one hell of a fantastic kisser, I miss my snogs with him at the Munches.
I think we should sort out this 'six-some' wink

26 Jan 2013

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

Now the kids are all older and staying up later, if we ever did decide to swing as a couple agan, it would be impossible to do it at home.

Tell Mr B if fancies handholders at a club anytime, just give us a shout, be great to see you both again.
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

Think we feel the same as NWC. Hey and if you fancy a sixsome going to a club we'd be up for a bit of that! Oh and Mrs B ...j says theres nowt wrong with Mr B's size he's a sexy bloke!

Tell J, that apart from Mr B being VERY sexy, he is also one hell of a fantastic kisser, I miss my snogs with him at the Munches.
I think we should sort out this 'six-some' wink

oh you guys!! redface

thanks for your lovely words :inlove: I shall pass them on to Mr B

26 Jan 2013

Quote by Thebonediggers

Now the kids are all older and staying up later, if we ever did decide to swing as a couple agan, it would be impossible to do it at home.

Tell Mr B if fancies handholders at a club anytime, just give us a shout, be great to see you both again.
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

Think we feel the same as NWC. Hey and if you fancy a sixsome going to a club we'd be up for a bit of that! Oh and Mrs B ...j says theres nowt wrong with Mr B's size he's a sexy bloke!

Tell J, that apart from Mr B being VERY sexy, he is also one hell of a fantastic kisser, I miss my snogs with him at the Munches.
I think we should sort out this 'six-some' wink

oh you guys!! redface

thanks for your lovely words :inlove: I shall pass them on to Mr B
Big Hint http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/413169.html huh huh Two birds with one stone and all that................. smile

27 Jan 2013

Quote by Lost
There are quite a fe new clubs that have opened in recent times and it occurs to us that this seems to coincide with a reduction in people swinging from their own homes? For us this is a bit of a shame as , though w enjoy going to a club every now and then, we enjoy swinging in house. If we're honest we find it far harder and less comfortable to get to the sex end of things in a club.
Any one else find this?

We have found that a lot of our swinging friends all over the country just cant have parties at home due to the normal ''kids'' lol
We have visited a few clubs in our time but find them too unsexy and clicky at times as well as the mentioned insecurities on how and when to kick play off..
We being of the age that kids are no longer an issue have the opportunity to share our party planning skills and our home, and have managed to host some fantastic parties over the past few years.
We love the naughty social nights here ... its great for new couples to come and dip their toe in to sample the home party scene and make some great friends withoutthe pressure of having to play .. but there is always something majorly sexy going on.
House parties al the way!!!! :cheers: