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Someone told me recently that I'm painfully honest and it made me think about how we come across to people we're meeting for the first time. Do you just let them have the real you or are you guarded and hold something back?
If someone wrote down their first impression of you, what would it say?
/curious... :mrgreen:
Just asked my better half and she said "Knows a lot of crap"
I've been told in the past that people's first impressions of me are that I'm guarded and hard to get on with.
Quite possibly a fair assessment. I am quiet when I first meet people, I like to suss them out. It takes me a long time to get to know someone, and I don't let people know me easily.
Then on the other side, other people say that I'm easy going and look sociable with strangers :eeek:
dunno
Quote by bluexxx
I've been told in the past that people's first impressions of me are that I'm guarded and hard to get on with.
Quite possibly a fair assessment. I am quiet when I first meet people, I like to suss them out. It takes me a long time to get to know someone, and I don't let people know me easily.
Then on the other side, other people say that I'm easy going and look sociable with strangers :eeek:
dunno

Same as blue, i keep quiet, and see what others have to say.
If they are talking pants, then i tell them so lol
Otherwise, i just hide in the corner, until i get to know folk.
Quote by Devon1
I've been told in the past that people's first impressions of me are that I'm guarded and hard to get on with.
Quite possibly a fair assessment. I am quiet when I first meet people, I like to suss them out. It takes me a long time to get to know someone, and I don't let people know me easily.
Then on the other side, other people say that I'm easy going and look sociable with strangers :eeek:
dunno

Same as blue, i keep quiet, and see what others have to say.
If they are talking pants, then i tell them so lol
Otherwise, i just hide in the corner, until i get to know folk.
There are two sides of me people might have seen...he bouncy ott centre f attention or the more reserved sitting in a corner type...........
Quote by MikeC
There are two sides of me people might have seen...he bouncy ott centre f attention or the more reserved sitting in a corner type...........

Or the dangling by your boxers type
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Fat arrogant bastard would be a lot of peoples opinion of me but they'd be wrong. I'm a very fat arrogant bastard.
Quote by bluexxx

There are two sides of me people might have seen...he bouncy ott centre f attention or the more reserved sitting in a corner type...........

Or the dangling by your boxers type
:giggle:
True true..........my cock hasn't worked properly since sulk
Ive been told I'm afferble and charming - Then I woke up !!
I really don't know what people make of me, I don`t have anyone to ask dunno
i dont know tbh friendly i would hope oh and give her a drink and she wont shut up lol!
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I really don't know what people make of me, I don`t have anyone to ask dunno

u coming to Coventry social?? u can ask me then...
im always polite and friendly.
see no point in being rude or funny with someone until they give me a reason to be.
Mr Tigs has always and will always be the one that sits in the corner and keeps himself to himself...he doesnt do socialising lol On the other hand Im normally the one flitting around a room either talking to everyone or sitting in the the corner with Mr Tigs because I have dragged someone over and Im chewing their ear off with my insistent nattering :lol:
Quote by tyracer
im always polite and friendly.
see no point in being rude or funny with someone until they give me a reason to be.

Me too also :thumbup: - however, that doesn't stop people taking their own first impressions of me. I once worked at a very large car dealers, and apparently I can come across as a bit snooty :shock: :shock: My best friend worked there long before I did, and someone (who I'd never spoken to!) asked her who "that stuck up new girl with the posh walk" was :shock: rotflmao
Wtf is a posh walk anyway??? I've heard of a posh wank, but not a posh walk FFS :lol2:
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someone (who I'd never spoken to!) asked her who "that stuck up new girl with the posh walk" was :shock: rotflmao
Wtf is a posh walk anyway??? I've heard of a posh wank, but not a posh walk FFS :lol2:

:giggle: Ok, that's it... we've got PK & now PW! Love it!
"Ditzy" :confused2:
But I'm soooo not! :giggle:
Quote by Angel Chat
im always polite and friendly.
see no point in being rude or funny with someone until they give me a reason to be.

Me too also :thumbup: - however, that doesn't stop people taking their own first impressions of me. I once worked at a very large car dealers, and apparently I can come across as a bit snooty :shock: :shock: My best friend worked there long before I did, and someone (who I'd never spoken to!) asked her who "that stuck up new girl with the posh walk" was :shock: rotflmao
Wtf is a posh walk anyway??? I've heard of a posh wank, but not a posh walk FFS :lol2:
Haha!!! I thought you were a right man's bird the first time I met you at a Manchester munch... never in a million years would I have said that we'd have the friendship that we have now. Snooty moo! :rotflmao:
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Mr Tigs has always and will always be the one that sits in the corner and keeps himself to himself...he doesnt do socialising lol On the other hand Im normally the one flitting around a room either talking to everyone or sitting in the the corner with Mr Tigs because I have dragged someone over and Im chewing their ear off with my insistent nattering :lol:

Really! :giggle:
I know of at least a couple of occassions where that is simply not true! :twisted:
Do you know what, I have no idea how I come across to other people anymore :-? I think I've given up caring, if you like me, you like me, if you don't you don't, I'm not going to change now dunno
I try not to hold back. They will come to think of me as either alright or a twat sooner or later anyway.
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I try not to hold back. They will come to think of me as either alright or a twat sooner or later anyway.

I've been composing a reply in my head for a bit now which would have been mega long, but this pretty much sums me up too, in a far more succinct way! Cheers MCB :thumbup:
Quote by Qbu
I try not to hold back. They will come to think of me as either alright or a twat sooner or later anyway.

I've been composing a reply in my head for a bit now which would have been mega long, but this pretty much sums me up too, in a far more succinct way! Cheers MCB :thumbup:
No problem QBU. Its a joy to know I have stopped you from rambling on about nothing, please feel free to ask me to do it again. lol
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