Partly inspired by mentioning Leonard (from Big Bang Theory) in another thread, and as a result of Leonard and Penny's off-on-off-and-on again relationship, I thought about this.
Your ex (any ex that comes to mind) -- Would you get back with him or her? Have you ever got back with him or her? How did that work out for you?
Dammie's Law --
I got back with my ex, and split up, and got back, and split up again, and on and on, many times, in various guises over the years. We are more Leonard and Penny than Leonard and Penny (he's Penny, btw!)
Now, we're kinda friends, but sex is out of the question. Too weird.
You?
Ahhhh. The ex. *sigh*
I have one, y'know, THE one. The one that definitely got away. That one.
He's hot. I find him unbelievably sexually attractive.
But we're fundamentally incompatible in terms of a relationship. We've been together. Then not. Then again. Then sometimes when we shouldn't be.
Now, we're just pals. And, whilst I can appreciate his attractiveness, I no longer pine for him emotionally. We meet occasionally for coffee & we exchange pleasantries. Occasionally there will be a brushing of hands and I will actually physically gasp. But chemistry is chemistry. The past is the past.
We've moved on.
He still figures in the odd ladywank fantasy scenario though :lickface:
I did it in Vanilla land. Once.
Biggest. Mistake. Ever.
well...think the say goes..." they are Ex's for a reason " still shag most of them thou given the chance..lol
Left my Wife of many years around 12 years ago. I have to say there has not been a single day when I regretted it.
She is the Mother of my two children so will always have a tie there, but my new Wife is younger and smarter, and just loves sex. All the things my ex loathed or lacked. Never go back anyway.
I definitely agree with ex`s are called that for a reason.
I was married for many a year to a childhood sweetheart and while we went on to have 2 fantastic sons I fell out of love with him many many years before we actually split, which was my decision by the way.
Everyone who knows me in my real life knows that I would never ever EVER go back, the thought of it actually makea a little bit of vom rise in my throat :crazy:
He got remarried not so long ago, good luck to them that`s what I say, me I like my own company
We tried it once...
It didn't work :-(
We're still friends.... and yes....I would in a heartbeat....
Never had an ex so I'd better feck off out of this thread :sad:
NO, I wouldn't. Not ever.
id rather cut my own throat
no never.
i close the door completely.
if they have ended the relationship and regretted it then im afraid its tough.
second chances make you look a fool.
Definately not and would never consider sex with an ex...
ex for a very good reason!
ex's are like prison, if you keep going back then there is a lesson that your not learning.
. Until the song just got too old and samey :undecided: