I'm new to reading the Forums but not new to the site.

1 Dec 2012

I mainly use the chat rooms and have only barely glanced at the Forum pages; it was only the fact that Theladyisaminx spoke about them to me recently and I had another look; it's a whole different world. I just wondered how long it took other people to use the forums from the time they joined the site?
smile

1 Dec 2012

Hi and :welcome: to our hidden little world.
We joined the site 27 Oct 04 and first posted in the forums on 14 Nov 04, however I barely used the forum until 2010. I think most people are the same, after all the chatroom supplies more dynamic chat, and of course cams, and the forums are seldom used by most users.
Since 2010 I have paid attention to almost every thread because the machine has me in its grip :borg:

1 Dec 2012

hey medman, welcome!!

1 Dec 2012

Quote by Trevaunance
Hi and :welcome: to our hidden little world.
We joined the site 27 Oct 04 and first posted in the forums on 14 Nov 04, however I barely used the forum until 2010. I think most people are the same, after all the chatroom supplies more dynamic chat, and of course cams, and the forums are seldom used by most users.
Since 2010 I have paid attention to almost every thread because the machine has me in its grip :borg:

Hi Trev, as you say, the chatroom has dynamic chat and cams; for me when I am in the chatroom my mind is basically in 'perve mode', but I am polite and respectful. Reading the forums and interacting like this is different, that "perve mode" is switched off. lol

1 Dec 2012

Quote by Stevie_and_Kitty
hey medman, welcome!!

Hi Steve and Kitty wave

1 Dec 2012

Hi Medman, welcome to the forums, but better warn you, there are some really scarey people round here lol

Great to see someone else posting, and look forward to seeing lots more of your posts wink

1 Dec 2012

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Hi Medman, welcome to the forums, but better warn you, there are some really scarey people round here
Great to see someone else posting, and look forward to seeing lots more of your posts

I wonder who NWC could possibly mean.......
bolt

1 Dec 2012

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Hi Medman, welcome to the forums, but better warn you, there are some really scarey people round here
Great to see someone else posting, and look forward to seeing lots more of your posts

Hi NWC, thanks and I hope to be more proactive in here than maybe I am in the chatrooms :lol:

1 Dec 2012

Quote by GnV
Hi Medman, welcome to the forums, but better warn you, there are some really scarey people round here
Great to see someone else posting, and look forward to seeing lots more of your posts

I wonder who NWC could possibly mean.......
bolt

By that emoticon you seem to know :lol:

1 Dec 2012

Quote by medman2000
Hi Medman, welcome to the forums, but better warn you, there are some really scarey people round here
Great to see someone else posting, and look forward to seeing lots more of your posts

Hi NWC, thanks and I hope to be more proactive in here than maybe I am in the chatrooms :lol:
I think you are so brave if you use the chatrooms. Personally Im terrified of the place, they all talk way to fast for me, and being totally blonde, I end up whispering people, perving profiles and generally getting all confuddled :lol:
Also, just ignore GnV, if he tells you Im a scarey lady, it soooo not true, he only scared of me because he still owes me a back rub (my went bath cold waiting for him to nip over from France to rub my back for me) :lol:
As it happens, we only joined the site to use the forums, and was a bit a shocked when we found out about the chatrooms and the photos ads, was even more shocked when we realised that people on here actually meet up for sex (shock, horror) :wink:

1 Dec 2012

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Hi Medman, welcome to the forums, but better warn you, there are some really scarey people round here
Great to see someone else posting, and look forward to seeing lots more of your posts

Hi NWC, thanks and I hope to be more proactive in here than maybe I am in the chatrooms :lol:
I think you are so brave if you use the chatrooms. Personally Im terrified of the place, they all talk way to fast for me, and being totally blonde, I end up whispering people, perving profiles and generally getting all confuddled :lol:
Also, just ignore GnV, if he tells you Im a scarey lady, it soooo not true, he only scared of me because he still owes me a back rub (my went bath cold waiting for him to nip over from France to rub my back for me) :lol:
As it happens, we only joined the site to use the forums, and was a bit a shocked when we found out about the chatrooms and the photos ads, was even more shocked when we realised that people on here actually meet up for sex (shock, horror) :wink:
Only because you refused to turn the lights on to illuminate your landing strip :wink:

1 Dec 2012

Quote by flower411
I mainly use the chat rooms and have only barely glanced at the Forum pages; it was only the fact that Theladyisaminx spoke about them to me recently and I had another look; it's a whole different world. I just wondered how long it took other people to use the forums from the time they joined the site?

I asked a question in the forums very soon after joining and they didn`t like the look of me and directed me to the chatroom .... Mrs flower and myself had a jolly nice time in chat and then Bilko started the chatroom lounge in the forum which is when I started posting a lot lol

Kinda got hooked for a while and then some brainless wazzock went and told minx about the forums and they`ve gone down hill ever since !!! :lol:
When I joined the site I headed for the chat rooms and never looked at the forums until some brainless wazzock, (which is a great name to call yourself Flower) threw me in here screaming and shouting and he bolted the door. I could hear his evil laughter echoing through the crack in the door.
I got chewed up and spat out by the lions its a scary place.
Medman loon

Never trust a Minx! :twisted:
I have securely bolted the door and there is no point looking for any windows as I have already checked every nook and cranny of the place and there isn't any.
Good luck x rotflmao

1 Dec 2012

Quote by Theladyisaminx
I mainly use the chat rooms and have only barely glanced at the Forum pages; it was only the fact that Theladyisaminx spoke about them to me recently and I had another look; it's a whole different world. I just wondered how long it took other people to use the forums from the time they joined the site?

I asked a question in the forums very soon after joining and they didn`t like the look of me and directed me to the chatroom .... Mrs flower and myself had a jolly nice time in chat and then Bilko started the chatroom lounge in the forum which is when I started posting a lot lol

Kinda got hooked for a while and then some brainless wazzock went and told minx about the forums and they`ve gone down hill ever since !!! :lol:
When I joined the site I headed for the chat rooms and never looked at the forums until some brainless wazzock, (which is a great name to call yourself Flower) threw me in here screaming and shouting and he bolted the door. I could hear his evil laughter echoing through the crack in the door.
I got chewed up and spat out by the lions its a scary place.
Medman loon

Never trust a Minx! :twisted:
I have securely bolted the door and there is no point looking for any windows as I have already checked every nook and cranny of the place and there isn't any.
Good luck x rotflmao

HELLLLPPPPPP bolt

1 Dec 2012

Quote by medman2000
HELLLLPPPPPP

You might find this link helpful :giggle:

1 Dec 2012

medman! :welcome: Nice to see you here!
I agree with the pattern suggested, new forum members seem to get dragged in by existing forumites! This was certainly the case for me, I'd been using the chatrooms daily for a month or two when a non-chatter member "baited" me to join the forums. I have never managed to introduce anybody to the forums successfully myself - back when I read forums more actively I used to regularly mention the topics of conversation to the people I chatted with in the chatrooms... and the most frequent reaction I got was that the forums look boring! :-o

Quote by medman2000
Reading the forums and interacting like this is different, that "perve mode" is switched off.

Pffft, no adjustment necessary :P

1 Dec 2012

Quote by GnV
HELLLLPPPPPP

You might find this link helpful :giggle:
ty GNV lol

1 Dec 2012

Quote by pebble
medman! :welcome: Nice to see you here!
I agree with the pattern suggested, new forum members seem to get dragged in by existing forumites! This was certainly the case for me, I'd been using the chatrooms daily for a month or two when a non-chatter member "baited" me to join the forums. I have never managed to introduce anybody to the forums successfully myself - back when I read forums more actively I used to regularly mention the topics of conversation to the people I chatted with in the chatrooms... and the most frequent reaction I got was that the forums look boring! :-o
Reading the forums and interacting like this is different, that "perve mode" is switched off.

Pffft, no adjustment necessary :P
Ahhhh Pebble wave

well forums ain't got no cams so that must be why they seem boring ? wink

lol
And I can't have two brains thinking at once lol....it's either perv mode or not.:grin:

1 Dec 2012

Hello Med! wave

Good to see you on the flip side of The Site.
I started my SH journey after something in the forums piqued my interest from a Google search back in 2004, and I've been stuck here ever since. To be honest the forums are a more acquired taste and don't suit everyone's pace, but those who make a go of it do tend to find it a useful way to get to know people in a more 'sensible*' environment.

Quote by pebble
I'd been using the chatrooms daily for a month or two when a non-chatter member "baited" me to join the forums.

And you returned the favour by baiting me into the chatrooms. Now I tend to end up there most evenings! :lol2:
* I use the word 'sensible' in it's loosest possble context. ;)

1 Dec 2012

Quote by Cubes
Hello Med! Good to see you on the flip side of The Site.
I started my SH journey after something in the forums piqued my interest from a Google search back in 2004, and I've been stuck here ever since. To be honest the forums are a more acquired taste and don't suit everyone's pace, but those who make a go of it do tend to find it a useful way to get to know people in a more 'sensible*' environment.
I'd been using the chatrooms daily for a month or two when a non-chatter member "baited" me to join the forums.

And you returned the favour by baiting me into the chatrooms. Now I tend to end up there most evenings! :lol2:
* I use the word 'sensible' in it's loosest possble context. ;)
Hi Cubes, hmmmmm it seems this 'been here ever since" is what I am finding for myself lol

1 Dec 2012

Quote by medman2000
Hello Med! Good to see you on the flip side of The Site.
I started my SH journey after something in the forums piqued my interest from a Google search back in 2004, and I've been stuck here ever since. To be honest the forums are a more acquired taste and don't suit everyone's pace, but those who make a go of it do tend to find it a useful way to get to know people in a more 'sensible*' environment.
I'd been using the chatrooms daily for a month or two when a non-chatter member "baited" me to join the forums.

And you returned the favour by baiting me into the chatrooms. Now I tend to end up there most evenings! :lol2:
* I use the word 'sensible' in it's loosest possble context. ;)
Hi Cubes, hmmmmm it seems this 'been here ever since" is what I am finding for myself lol
Wait until you get sent up the sh tower, or asked to go down into the depths of crypt, then you might start seeing the length of time some have been here.

1 Dec 2012

Quote by Theladyisaminx
Hello Med! Good to see you on the flip side of The Site.
I started my SH journey after something in the forums piqued my interest from a Google search back in 2004, and I've been stuck here ever since. To be honest the forums are a more acquired taste and don't suit everyone's pace, but those who make a go of it do tend to find it a useful way to get to know people in a more 'sensible*' environment.
I'd been using the chatrooms daily for a month or two when a non-chatter member "baited" me to join the forums.

And you returned the favour by baiting me into the chatrooms. Now I tend to end up there most evenings! :lol2:
* I use the word 'sensible' in it's loosest possble context. ;)
Hi Cubes, hmmmmm it seems this 'been here ever since" is what I am finding for myself lol
Wait until you get sent up the sh tower, or asked to go down into the depths of crypt, then you might start seeing the length of time some have been here.
sounds like something similar to this:

:O

2 Dec 2012

Hey Medman, welcome to the forums and all that. smile

Found the chatrooms quite by accident at first, not even looking for a swinging site, knew nothing about it but liked the chatroom immediately, very, very funny some of the people in it back when 200 people in the one room on IRC was a busy night, got into the site bouncing along with them. Didn't get the forums at all when I did finally have a look mooching around the site, first post was quite typically a chatroom related question.
Took me kinda flouncing outta the chatroom for a bit to start reading the forum more about 6 months after arriving here and a bit more posting before I really got it and found my posting boots, first hundred posts even maybe but then a little light went on, been here since. Can't get back into the chatroom now, too fast and too many convos going on. The slower pace suits me but do have to rein in a tendency towards the overly-verbose a lot of the time! rolleyes

2 Dec 2012

Quote by neilinleeds
Hey Medman, welcome to the forums and all that.
Found the chatrooms quite by accident at first, not even looking for a swinging site, knew nothing about it but liked the chatroom immediately, very, very funny some of the people in it back when 200 people in the one room on IRC was a busy night, got into the site bouncing along with them. Didn't get the forums at all when I did finally have a look mooching around the site, first post was quite typically a chatroom related question.
Took me kinda flouncing outta the chatroom for a bit to start reading the forum more about 6 months after arriving here and a bit more posting before I really got it and found my posting boots, first hundred posts even maybe but then a little light went on, been here since. Can't get back into the chatroom now, too fast and too many convos going on. The slower pace suits me but do have to rein in a tendency towards the overly-verbose a lot of the time!

Hi Neil,
one thing I have just seemed to notice as i went back in the chatrooms earlier is just how easy it is to be another person as in persona; I can go in there and because of the situation with cams and if i don't know ppl almost act rudely to people (even though I don't think I ever have in the time I have been in there - never begged, ordered etc where I shouldn't, always said please and thank you). Yet in here, I don't feel that I can as I am talking to someone who will respond in more than just a few words like in the chatroom.
Everything's mixed up now lol.

2 Dec 2012

And what you say here has a permanence to it that someone can still come across long after the thread has sunk into the archives so your real personality becomes more apparent as it's revealed more over time as you accumulate posts. Harder to fake it here for long for sure, the mask always slips at some point for those that try it. And the regs are very regular, will come across a core of regular posters day in, day out and though that core changes over time it's not as changeable or as large as the list of regular people in a particular chatroom so you get to know them and they get to know you fast.
Wouldn't say you notice that you've been ignorant of people in the chatroom all of a sudden if I got that right. Not always possible to respond to everyone aims a comment at you, miss a lot and have to be selective in the conversations you join in with depending how many you can juggle all at once but same applies here. You don't respond to every post and every poster but perhaps more obvious who you're choosing to respond to and who you're not if anyone's ever inclined to read anything into that at all? Just as selective with the threads you join in with.

2 Dec 2012

:welcome: medman.....

2 Dec 2012

Hey medman and :welcome: to the forums!
I like the banter of the forums - slower, yes but somehow a bit more affable (in my opinion) than in chat.
Looking forward to lots of forum chats with you soon!
Nola x

2 Dec 2012

Hi to everybody else who has said hi to me since I last said hi to a person individually lol

if I reply to every reply I will be here all day :lol: