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I've lost me mojo ! ! !
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ops:Quote by JGL
more to the point. what am i still doing here at 1:40 am!!!
so what do you mean?? you've told your wife you want to swing and she dont like it?
your swinging behind your wifes back?? not sure what your trying to tell us
JGL
Yes but surely its not swinging if its behind someones back, its cheating?????
Quote by pinkbubble(mr&mrs)
more to the point. what am i still doing here at 1:40 am!!!
so what do you mean?? you've told your wife you want to swing and she dont like it?
your swinging behind your wifes back?? not sure what your trying to tell us
JGL
Yes but surely its not swinging if its behind someones back, its cheating?????
wondn't suprise me! there has been a fair few on the last few days! we might need a new forum for "lets cheat" section!
i know i'm still new to the swinging sence but even i know the main idea of it!
JGL
I take it that it is a temporary loss of mojo then?
If it is i wouldnt worry about one of those things where the more you worry about it the worse it gets
But try your best not to think about it too much,easier said than done,but hjopefully youll relax about it and itll return in no time. 
If it is i wouldnt worry about one of those things where the more you worry about it the worse it gets
But try your best not to think about it too much,easier said than done,but hjopefully youll relax about it and itll return in no time. 
Casanova
Quote by ant140
Someone help me.... The wife is'nt happy at all.....I just arent interested in nookie at all.
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Correct me if I am not much mistaken but ........
You havn't actually asked a question !! :doh:
All of the above are statements !! :eeek:
Even the title of the thread is a statement !!
Dan
P.S. Chosen subject on mastermind '' stating the bleedin' obvious ''
Sex God
Quote by ant140
Someone help me.... The wife is'nt happy at all.....I just arent interested in nookie at all.
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I mean no offence, honestly, but I have to ask: Could it be that it is your interest in your wife, rather than nookie per se, that is on the wane? Is it reasonable for me to suppose that because you are posting on a sex-based website, you are perhaps interested in sex in theory but just not actually in the mood for it? When you ask for help, are you asking for suggestions as to how to get your wife to turn you on?
:lol:Assuming that what you are asking is how to recover your sex drive. The first response is ... do you really want to, or is it just your wife who wants you to?
Your sex drive is yours, and if you are happy that it has vanished then that's it, really. Was it Plato who said something about age being a release from the tyranny of the libido - meaning that you can ghet on with your life without sex getting in the way.
However if you aren't happy about losing your libido you need to understand why it was lost, before you can attempt to fix it. Has this happened just recently? Might it be down to something festive like too much spending at Christmas weighing on your mind allied to too much alcohol, carrying too full a stomach, being too fat, being too unfit. All of these can be factors, and for many age is a big factor.
Maybe you simply don't fancy your wife any more. Do other women turn you on?
Or is it simply that you quite fancy sex, but have difficulty achieving and sustaining an erection?
I think it would be a good idea if you could be more specific about what's going wrong and what remedies you've attempted. As I said earlier, age can be an indicator, so for starters, how old are you?
My expereince might be useful to you: I am nearly 50. After having a massive sex drive until my late 30's it started to die off as my wife's 25 year history of lack of interest in sex (and my frustrated attempts to interest her failed). Quite simply, we have substantially different sex-drives I'd had a few affairs along the way which were very exciting. However a couyple of years ago the last of those ended painfully and I decided I didn't want more pain and really coudln't be bothered tying to fuck my wife anty more.
It's true what they say ... use it or lose it. I couldn't even be bothered wanking. On the few times my wife and I shagged I found it increasingly difficult to orgasm. I got some Viagra on prescription and that did make it a bit easier, but not much, and besides which it still needed me to fancy my wife and I'd stopped fancying her.
Then along came Alicia and we started a great affair. I fancied her and so it was more easy to get an erection, she did lots to interest me. She is a wonderfully adventurous lover - I'm currently cataloguing some of our adventures in the Swingers Stories. The Viagra still comes in useful for a sustained erection and it (possibly) makes my orgasm a bit easier to come by. but I was never driven by my own orgasm, it's my parters (multiple) orgasms that give me a massive kick.
The bottom line is that I'm now pretty well sorted and have a wonderful sex life, but it was a close thing. Has Alicia not come on the scene then I'd be just another miserable old git with no interest in sex.
Hope this helps
K
Your sex drive is yours, and if you are happy that it has vanished then that's it, really. Was it Plato who said something about age being a release from the tyranny of the libido - meaning that you can ghet on with your life without sex getting in the way.
However if you aren't happy about losing your libido you need to understand why it was lost, before you can attempt to fix it. Has this happened just recently? Might it be down to something festive like too much spending at Christmas weighing on your mind allied to too much alcohol, carrying too full a stomach, being too fat, being too unfit. All of these can be factors, and for many age is a big factor.
Maybe you simply don't fancy your wife any more. Do other women turn you on?
Or is it simply that you quite fancy sex, but have difficulty achieving and sustaining an erection?
I think it would be a good idea if you could be more specific about what's going wrong and what remedies you've attempted. As I said earlier, age can be an indicator, so for starters, how old are you?
My expereince might be useful to you: I am nearly 50. After having a massive sex drive until my late 30's it started to die off as my wife's 25 year history of lack of interest in sex (and my frustrated attempts to interest her failed). Quite simply, we have substantially different sex-drives I'd had a few affairs along the way which were very exciting. However a couyple of years ago the last of those ended painfully and I decided I didn't want more pain and really coudln't be bothered tying to fuck my wife anty more.
It's true what they say ... use it or lose it. I couldn't even be bothered wanking. On the few times my wife and I shagged I found it increasingly difficult to orgasm. I got some Viagra on prescription and that did make it a bit easier, but not much, and besides which it still needed me to fancy my wife and I'd stopped fancying her.
Then along came Alicia and we started a great affair. I fancied her and so it was more easy to get an erection, she did lots to interest me. She is a wonderfully adventurous lover - I'm currently cataloguing some of our adventures in the Swingers Stories. The Viagra still comes in useful for a sustained erection and it (possibly) makes my orgasm a bit easier to come by. but I was never driven by my own orgasm, it's my parters (multiple) orgasms that give me a massive kick.
The bottom line is that I'm now pretty well sorted and have a wonderful sex life, but it was a close thing. Has Alicia not come on the scene then I'd be just another miserable old git with no interest in sex.
Hope this helps
K
Try something a bit different in your sex life mate. Doesn't a good Porno do it for you. Is it that you can turn yourself on but no longer find interest in your Woman? I could go on with the list of things to spice up your relationship if need be but first of all pin point the main area of the problem and also take your MRS/Partner on a date - she wearing no Nickers of course and let the mind wonder.
That whipped cream isn' t bad either although it can be sticky. I've always liked baby oil except it's a bit slippy when you want to go some...
Good luck
J
That whipped cream isn' t bad either although it can be sticky. I've always liked baby oil except it's a bit slippy when you want to go some...
Good luck
J
Sex God
I must say that I think K gave some excellent and sympathetic advice. He was also very open about his own experiences - which is something tobe admired and respected.
ant140, I hope it all works out.
Will
ant140, I hope it all works out.
Will
Assuming this thread is all about the loss of the male sex drive in a long term relationship, and assuming all the usual avenues of hightnening interest (eg role play, mags, internet, clothing t and toys etc) have been tried and assuming that there is nothing physically and mtentally wrong with the man in question, may I suggest a herbal/mineral supplement called Potenzia?
The tablets are non adictive and based on saw pamenta, try a google search. They took my 50 + year old h/b from being once a week to, well most of the time, once a night!!
The only problem now is ensureing he takes them regularly as he thinks he dosnt need them!!!
The results are not instant and you do need to stick with them for at least a month. I believe they should not bee taken by anyone with blood pressure problems.
The tablets are non adictive and based on saw pamenta, try a google search. They took my 50 + year old h/b from being once a week to, well most of the time, once a night!!
The only problem now is ensureing he takes them regularly as he thinks he dosnt need them!!!
The results are not instant and you do need to stick with them for at least a month. I believe they should not bee taken by anyone with blood pressure problems.
Sex God
Here have one of ours......................
Sex God
Oh dear Lord, look at this one............. this was Swinging Heaven sarcasm at its best!!!!
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Sex God
Did ant ever find his mojo......I bet it can be found near posties stool
Sex God
Quote by MikeC
Did ant ever find his mojo......I bet it can be found near posties stool
Hahahahaha. That's one of those great forum questions that sadly we'll ever find the answer to!!!
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
Did ant ever find his mojo......I bet it can be found near posties stool
Hahahahaha. That's one of those great forum questions that sadly we'll ever find the answer to!!!
I think we should all help ant find his mojo.......come on everybody
Sex God
I've been to the shop. Here's a mojo for everyone
