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The Marriage (same sex couples) Bill is currently whipping up a political storm. The PM is trying to force the bill through it's second reading by election later today and is being opposed by a large cross section of backbenchers on all sides of the House. The BBC reports suggest upwards of 120 Conservative MPs could vote against the government's plans, including some cabinet ministers.
For those that aren't aware of Parliamentary process here is a summary. The proposed law is written in draft, called a Bill. The Bill is read and debated in the House and then voted on whether or not it is a viable potential law. If successful it will be refined further, debated and read a second time. This is the stage that this particular Bill is at today. There is then a vote (tonight). If successful the Bill passes to a committee who look at all the practicalities if it becomes Law and how it would work in day to day life. Amendments can be made, but once passed by a committee it enters the reporting stage, where the committees amendments are voted on. At this stage it is passed to the other chamber of Parliament and if successful at that final vote it is passed by Royal Assent and becomes Law.
For my part I have no issue whatsoever with same sex marriage. If people want to make a legally recognised commitment to each other then they should be allowed. I think the Bill will pass, but only just.
It seems like a complete waste of energy and time to be pushing through a bill like this at a time like this. Coalition governments should leave contentious Bills and concentrate on working together to fix the economy.
This Bill is nothing more than a doffoing of the cap to the Lib Dems for their support.
I have no issues at all with Gay Marriage but I am not sure that this is the most appropriate time to be debating it when there are far more important things to deal with.
In a word Trev, Laïcité.
The separation of the Church and the State or, if you prefer (which I do) French Secularism.
I'm not particularly religious but I do believe that the State has no place in making demands on the Church or the Church on the State.
Religious teachings throughout the ages indicate that marriage is the union of a man and a woman for the purposes of procreation.
I have nothing whatsoever against same sex 'unions' authorised by the State but to call it 'marriage' is just wrong IMHO.
To say that it creates 'second class citizens' if same sex couples are not allowed to 'marry' is ridiculous.
And as to Cameron saying that a Church will have the right to refuse a same sex marriage is a cop-out. Just wait for the first case of refusal to be heard in the ECHR.
The most recent case of something similar was, of course, the B&B couple who refused a bed to a same sex couple because it was against their religious beliefs. The B&B lost their case and it cost them dear.
Let's hope the Lords Spiritual have their way and manage to persuade their Borther Peers that this is just totally wrong and not demean the honourable and lasting durable state of Marriage and all that it entails and that this mischief making by Cameron is consigned to 'round objects'.
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OK ...somebody is going to have to explain this to me !
I thought that a civil partnership was marriage and that some religious practioners were able to give a blessing.
As far as I understand it the Christian church as an institution sees gay relationships as an abomination .
So why would gay couples want to have their partnership ratified by an organisation that thinks their liason is an abomination ?

Mischief making flower. Plain and simple.
The gay lobby want to have this thrust down peoples throats and, as you say, it just ain't right.
There are many different sex couples who 'live in sin' and raise children these days without the sanctity of marriage and as you say, for those that prefer, the State recognised Civil Partnership serves them well.
Cameron knows exactly where this will lead. It is no secret that a fair proportion of Tory MP's are not happy about this bill and will vote against it later. Cameron knows that if this bill is passed with his promise that the church will be able to abstain from marrying gay couples,the court of human rights will say that is illegal in that they cannot stop gay couples from being married in a church. As we already know Cameron and any future PM cannot over ride Europe's decision's on such matters. A gay couple with Stonewalls backing will challenge this law before the year is out, through Europe's own courts.
Can anyone here see Europe upholding that law where churches can deny a gay couple the right to marry in church?
I am against gay marriage as a lot of the general public appear to be, and rather a lot of Tory backbenchers. I have no issue with gay civil ceremony's at all but I believe that marriage should be between a man and a woman. To be against this new law would seem that I fall into the 'old fashioned ' line of thought. Well so be it.
I have made no secret of the fact that I hope the Lords reject it.
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There are many different sex couples who 'live in sin' and raise children these days without the sanctity of marriage and as you say, for those that prefer, the State recognised Civil Partnership serves them well.

There are also many different sex couples who have the sanctity of marriage who haven't been near a church or received any form of religious blessing. Am I the only one to find the 'sanctity of marriage' a particularly amusing concept in this particular forum?
No, not at all nw-c.
It just shows how much a mucking fuddle the whole thing is but offering same sex couples a 'marriage' with the sanctity and blessing of the Church won't make it right.
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There are many different sex couples who 'live in sin' and raise children these days without the sanctity of marriage and as you say, for those that prefer, the State recognised Civil Partnership serves them well.

There are also many different sex couples who have the sanctity of marriage who haven't been near a church or received any form of religious blessing. Am I the only one to find the 'sanctity of marriage' a particularly amusing concept in this particular forum?
Why the sudden rushed need to change the law? Is Cameron getting pressured by his Lib Dem chums? Or what about outside pressure from a European source?
I saw this comment in a forum this morning which kinda has a ring of truth attached to it, and was the general feeling amongst those followers on that forum.
' The country is in turmoil and this is his priority, the man should be ashamed of himself and is highly unlikely to get a second term in office '.
Well the bit about him not getting a second term in office is correct, as I cannot believe the electorate will be as dumb a second time around.
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No, not at all nw-c.
It just shows how much a mucking fuddle the whole thing is but offering same sex couples a 'marriage' with the sanctity and blessing of the Church won't make it right.

The current legislation specifically says that churches will have the discretion to refuse to perform a wedding for gay couples.
If 'marriage' needs a religious element then surely no opposite sex couples who have a registry office ceremony with no religious blessing should be regarded as 'married'.
If opposite sex couples do not need a religious element to be married then why cannot same sex be regarded as married? If the procreation argument is used to justify refusal of marriage to gay people then anyone firing blanks should have their marriage certificate torn up surely?
Those oppossed are just relics of the past. What the hell does it really matter, it two people who love each other want to show that commitment in the house of GOD.
There is no actual mention anywhere in the bible about gay relationships !! However it does in very strong words condem and totally oppose second marriages in a church !!! How can the church or religious zealots openly accept and welcome people who
re-marry...and yet oppose the fact that two people of the same sex wish to get married.
The bill will pass, with the support of the labour party and the Lib-dems.....and so it should. Equality is for all....not just hetro-sexuals !!
But will it get past the 'fuddy duddies' in The Lords dean?
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But will it get past the 'fuddy duddies' in The Lords dean?

Well democracy got them there Gnv, and thankfully they are there, and as you know a damn good reason they are there on occasion. I hope the Lords put it where it belongs.....in the dustbin.
:gagged:coffeeinnocent
Cognac perhaps (given our location) wink
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Cognac perhaps (given our location) wink

Cognac will do .....must confess a 1961 Armagnac wouldn`t go amiss tho drinkies
Is that similar to a Cadillac?
You really shouldn't drink and drive.... lol
Well, it got past the MPs with a clear majority.
Now wait for the bunfight in The Lords
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But will it get past the 'fuddy duddies' in The Lords dean?

Well democracy got them there Gnv, and thankfully they are there, and as you know a damn good reason they are there on occasion. I hope the Lords put it where it belongs.....in the dustbin.
the lords..democratically elected are they !!!
Now then....when did I miss the chance to vote for a lord to sit there.....or is it someone that got there through priviledge or maybe they donated alot to a politcal party....think some people might call them TOFFS !!!! lol
Is anyone actually aware of the House of Lords reforms at all?
Have a Google at that one, and see that there are actually ELECTED members. Maybe not elected by the general public, but elected all the same. Is being elected by someone for something not democratic now then?
The history of the House of Lords in all seriousness, is well worth a read.


Excellent.
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Is anyone actually aware of the House of Lords reforms at all?
Have a Google at that one, and see that there are actually ELECTED members. Maybe not elected by the general public, but elected all the same. Is being elected by someone for something not democratic now then?
The history of the House of Lords in all seriousness, is well worth a read.

So you agree that in a democratic process ....not ALL of the people should be allowed to vote ?
Ah so in a general election ALL people can vote then? That is supposed to be the height of democracy, yet it is not if all cannot vote, Do you know who cannot vote?
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Is anyone actually aware of the House of Lords reforms at all?
Have a Google at that one, and see that there are actually ELECTED members. Maybe not elected by the general public, but elected all the same. Is being elected by someone for something not democratic now then?
The history of the House of Lords in all seriousness, is well worth a read.


Excellent.

Errrr, hold your horses star... These are APPOINTMENTS not ELECTIONS rolleyes
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Better off asking him to put it in sun-ease flower lol
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Never mind. Here is the answer:
Who cannot vote in a UK parliamentary election?
1. Young people under 18 years old
2. Foreign nationals (apart from citizens of the Irish Republic and Commonwealth countries resident in Britain)
3. Members of the House of Lords
4. Sentenced prisoners
5. People convicted within the previous five years of illegal election practices
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Never mind. Here is the answer:
Who cannot vote in a UK parliamentary election?
1. Young people under 18 years old
2. Foreign nationals (apart from citizens of the Irish Republic and Commonwealth countries resident in Britain)
3. Members of the House of Lords
4. Sentenced prisoners
5. People convicted within the previous five years of illegal election practices
So is that democratic then Trev, that say a prisoner cannot vote? Surely to be fully democratic ALL people should have the vote?
So as I do not agree with prisoners having the vote, then it cannot be fully democratic.
IIRC the right to vote is not a human right, it is a Crown bestowed right. Consequently the Crown can withdraw the right provided it is within the legal framework of the country. I could be wrong, and if I am then someone will no doubt correct me before too long.
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Is anyone actually aware of the House of Lords reforms at all?
Have a Google at that one, and see that there are actually ELECTED members. Maybe not elected by the general public, but elected all the same. Is being elected by someone for something not democratic now then?
The history of the House of Lords in all seriousness, is well worth a read.


Excellent.

You gave two links I have read both one is from the Chairman of the appoints commission. He stated "As Chair of the House of Lords Appointments Commission I should like to welcome you to our website.
It is my belief that an effective Second Chamber is an important part of our constitution and our democracy. But it will only be effective if it has the right people working in it. This is where the Appointments Commission plays its part
."
"The Commission's role is to select new independent members of the House of Lords."
The second link shows there are 750 peers 600 of which are life peers which have either been given or nominated their role and the commission decide, 92 hereditary peers so passed onto them, you have the law lords and then archbishops and bishops.
Which leaves me wondering where the election process takes place?
Nominations are not the same thing as elections.
As far as I can see the select committee make the decision on the nominations put forward. Which leads me to think it is no different than having a interview and presenting your CV. Which I don't believe can be called an election.
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Is anyone actually aware of the House of Lords reforms at all?
Have a Google at that one, and see that there are actually ELECTED members. Maybe not elected by the general public, but elected all the same. Is being elected by someone for something not democratic now then?
The history of the House of Lords in all seriousness, is well worth a read.


Excellent.

You gave two links I have read both one is from the Chairman of the appoints commission. He stated "As Chair of the House of Lords Appointments Commission I should like to welcome you to our website.
It is my belief that an effective Second Chamber is an important part of our constitution and our democracy. But it will only be effective if it has the right people working in it. This is where the Appointments Commission plays its part
."
"The Commission's role is to select new independent members of the House of Lords."
The second link shows there are 750 peers 600 of which are life peers which have either been given or nominated their role and the commission decide, 92 hereditary peers so passed onto them, you have the law lords and then archbishops and bishops.
Which leaves me wondering where the election process takes place?
Nominations are not the same thing as elections.
As far as I can see the select committee make the decision on the nominations put forward. Which leads me to think it is no different than having a interview and presenting your CV. Which I don't believe can be called an election.
That may be so but it does form part of a democratic process.
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Is anyone actually aware of the House of Lords reforms at all?
Have a Google at that one, and see that there are actually ELECTED members. Maybe not elected by the general public, but elected all the same. Is being elected by someone for something not democratic now then?
The history of the House of Lords in all seriousness, is well worth a read.


Excellent.

You gave two links I have read both one is from the Chairman of the appoints commission. He stated "As Chair of the House of Lords Appointments Commission I should like to welcome you to our website.
It is my belief that an effective Second Chamber is an important part of our constitution and our democracy. But it will only be effective if it has the right people working in it. This is where the Appointments Commission plays its part
."
"The Commission's role is to select new independent members of the House of Lords."
The second link shows there are 750 peers 600 of which are life peers which have either been given or nominated their role and the commission decide, 92 hereditary peers so passed onto them, you have the law lords and then archbishops and bishops.
Which leaves me wondering where the election process takes place?
Nominations are not the same thing as elections.
As far as I can see the select committee make the decision on the nominations put forward. Which leads me to think it is no different than having a interview and presenting your CV. Which I don't believe can be called an election.
That may be so but it does form part of a democratic process.
As democracy means - Democracy is a form of government in which all eligible citizens have an equal say in the decisions that affect their lives. Democracy allows eligible citizens to participate equally—either directly or through elected representatives—in the proposal, development, and creation of laws.
As the Lords are not elected through either you or I or a representative we have elected I don't believe it is part of Democracy. I do however believe there should be another house and perhaps the system they have in place with the lords is a far balance of judgement.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Is anyone actually aware of the House of Lords reforms at all?
Have a Google at that one, and see that there are actually ELECTED members. Maybe not elected by the general public, but elected all the same. Is being elected by someone for something not democratic now then?
The history of the House of Lords in all seriousness, is well worth a read.


Excellent.

You gave two links I have read both one is from the Chairman of the appoints commission. He stated "As Chair of the House of Lords Appointments Commission I should like to welcome you to our website.
It is my belief that an effective Second Chamber is an important part of our constitution and our democracy. But it will only be effective if it has the right people working in it. This is where the Appointments Commission plays its part
."
"The Commission's role is to select new independent members of the House of Lords."
The second link shows there are 750 peers 600 of which are life peers which have either been given or nominated their role and the commission decide, 92 hereditary peers so passed onto them, you have the law lords and then archbishops and bishops.
Which leaves me wondering where the election process takes place?
Nominations are not the same thing as elections.
As far as I can see the select committee make the decision on the nominations put forward. Which leads me to think it is no different than having a interview and presenting your CV. Which I don't believe can be called an election.
That may be so but it does form part of a democratic process.
As democracy means - Democracy is a form of government in which all eligible citizens have an equal say in the decisions that affect their lives. Democracy allows eligible citizens to participate equally—either directly or through elected representatives—in the proposal, development, and creation of laws.
As the Lords are not elected through either you or I or a representative we have elected I don't believe it is part of Democracy. I do however believe there should be another house and perhaps the system they have in place with the lords is a far balance of judgement.
If you read a bit more of that snippet you took from Wiki whatever, you will also see that democracy takes many other forms.
Parliamentary democracy
Jacksonian democracy
Liberal democracies
constitutional democracies
Social democracy
All say democracy, but each different to the next.
'The basic definition of democracy in its purest form comes from the Greek language: The term means “rule by the people.” But democracy is defined in many ways — a fact that has caused much disagreement among those leading various democracies as to how best to run one'.
Not always as it seems it would seem. If we had a true democracy the voting system would not be as it is. If we had true democracy every vote in Parliament would be a free secret vote, but we know how it works and that is not very democratic when an MP is forced by his Whip to vote with the Government even though their own views are the opposite of how he is being told to vote.
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No, not at all nw-c.
It just shows how much a mucking fuddle the whole thing is but offering same sex couples a 'marriage' with the sanctity and blessing of the Church won't make it right.

The current legislation specifically says that churches will have the discretion to refuse to perform a wedding for gay couples.
If 'marriage' needs a religious element then surely no opposite sex couples who have a registry office ceremony with no religious blessing should be regarded as 'married'.
If opposite sex couples do not need a religious element to be married then why cannot same sex be regarded as married? If the procreation argument is used to justify refusal of marriage to gay people then anyone firing blanks should have their marriage certificate torn up surely?
Similar to what I stated in the hypocrisy thread.
So, can anyone confirm that civil marriages have the same legal standing as those represented by church "married" couples?
And therefore since civil partnership has the same legal standing as civil marriage wouldn't that make the gay marriage bill null and void?
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And therefore since civil partnership has the same legal standing as civil marriage wouldn't that make the gay marriage bill null and void?

But a gay couple at the moment saying they are married is not true in the eyes of the law. Yes they have the same rights as a married couple, but are not married.
It is simply a word, yes the law had to be changed to make sure gays were universally equal in every single respect, but they will still not be equal as they will still not be able to marry in Church.... yet.