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it's just a piece of thinking nonsense. No we are not going to appoint Mods for a Day :shock: :shock: costhye shock would kill all of us and the training would take longer than that
When some have said that being a Mod doesn't make you the most popular person around they are quite correct!! redface All I wanted to do was 1) inject some form of thinking exercise into the forum and 2) see if your ideas about what makes a good Mod co-incides with ours.
So, those who are concerned about this pleasebe reassured. Thanks for expressing that concern here... x xx
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Quote by freckledbird
Just out of interest, how do you decide on who becomes mods? Is it like a vote where you have several members then choose? When do you decide new mods are needed? Is it every X number of members?

lol :lol: :lol:
It's All Masonic :- (Handshake and Trouser Leg Stuff) :lol:
Fred
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It's All Masonic :- (Handshake and Trouser Leg Stuff) lol
Fred

You wouldn't be able to wear those shorts of yours then Fred :lol: :lol: .
Quote by MikeNorth

It's All Masonic :- (Handshake and Trouser Leg Stuff) lol
Fred

You wouldn't be able to wear those shorts of yours then Fred :lol: :lol: .
Didn't stop Mr Chicken Legs!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
I'd go for SexySteph to be Mof for a Day.
She's very helpful, does not rub people up the wrong way, is not sarcastic and bitchy, knows how to organise stuff, does not seem to have 'cronies' and is generally a good-egg.
In other words, is quite the opposite of me!
Quote by Dawn_Mids
This is one of those popularity contests - not a good thing here in my view. Never indulge in 'em - that's my position and advice to others.
Sorry!

I'm with Tune.
Being popular doesn't necessarily make a good moderator.
What they said.
Indeed - what they said :thumbup:
Perhaps it's not about who is popular....but who is most unpopular,making them a mod for a day could be considered a punishment wink
My nomination for Mod for the Day would be Espy......
The reasons being:....
he's polite,
can be firm but fair,
always hepful to all
seems to understand the intricacies of IT
nice sense of humour
equi-princess xxx
Quote by Dawn_Mids
of course we'd need to send one of the chatphobic forum mods over to the chatroom to take her place, which could be highly entertaining!

Oh pick me, pick me, I'll go do it :giggle:
You dozy mare you are already a Chatroom OP :doh: rolleyes lol
I am with Ice, Tune, Little Gem and Dawn..... Being popular doesn't necessarily make a good moderator, spot on there Little Gem :thumbup:
Shireen
xxx
Quote by Shireen_Mids
of course we'd need to send one of the chatphobic forum mods over to the chatroom to take her place, which could be highly entertaining!

Oh pick me, pick me, I'll go do it :giggle:
You dozy mare you are already a Chatroom OP :doh: rolleyes lol
I am with Ice, Tune, Little Gem and Dawn..... Being popular doesn't necessarily make a good moderator, spot on there Little Gem :thumbup:
Shireen
xxx
Absolutely Shireen......................
Dawn (replace with any mod that isn't showing as being in) isn't popular.......................but she is a great mod bolt
Dave_Notts
Like I said I won’t get into the popularity contest thingy, but the subject of what makes a good moderator is intriguing.
I think a good moderator is:
Consistent: That generally requires them to be a fairly well balanced personality but also to have thought things through where common practice is to be applied.
Good under pressure: Not phased by strong or aggressive characters – ready to act sensibly on own initiative when urgent circumstances require.
Collaborative: With the other mods to ensure that the place is run on a consistent basis but also to hear other experienced people’s views.
Good judge of character: It really helps if you can read between the lines to see if someone is being genuine, is a troll or has a damaging agenda.
Generous: Is prepared to explain privately, if necessary, but publicly if others need to learn, why certain actions have been taken.
Hard working: Prepared to put in the time to a lot bone-aching activity on the fora/ads etc.
Good written communication: Essential to avoid misunderstandings.
Competent: No room for airheads.
Intelligent: Needs to be able to hold a sound argument in a controlled way.
Selfless: Prepared to give up their leisure time for the benefit of others.
Innovative: Look at the exchanges on northcoastboy's thread on Missy's good idea on the photoads.
There’s probably more and a GSOH definitely helps!
I don’t suppose Mark has ever analysed it thus but he has made a pretty good job of finding the best people around who fit those criteria in my view.
I tried to re-arrange the criteria into a snappy acronym (‘cos I love doing that sort of thing!) but I gave up – too many Cs and Gs.
If I could nominate someone to be a Mod for a day, it would have to be............ me!
My reason being rolleyes ......... I am a total bitch evil so I am sure I will fit right in wink
Well much as I hate to do this, the best examples of mods I have seen are, well the mods.
Overall there is a consistent approach to things. There seems to be 'a plan' (athough one sometimes wonders if it the word PLAN on a piece of paper, sorry pratchett moment). There is nearly always a mod online, pretty much 24 x 7. They respond damn quick to any form of electronic communication, and they bring colour, comedy, and lots more to the site...
What makes a good mod on sh, damned if I could put it into words very well, but Mark seems to have got it right smile
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Well much as I hate to do this, the best examples of mods I have seen are, well the mods.
Overall there is a consistent approach to things. There seems to be 'a plan' (athough one sometimes wonders if it the word PLAN on a piece of paper, sorry pratchett moment). There is nearly always a mod online, pretty much 24 x 7. They respond damn quick to any form of electronic communication, and they bring colour, comedy, and lots more to the site...
What makes a good mod on sh, damned if I could put it into words very well, but Mark seems to have got it right smile

Post very much after me own heart this one. I tried to put it into words but it got lost at the bottom of page 2.
To help the man in some small way I think we should make :
Meat2pleaseu
Mod for the day. It will help him ban those in his Q for being Bass'Tards.
Fred
This is a great idea....
i have never really thought about what makes a good mod...
i agree that i think wishy, DH, postie would make good mods.
to be honest i would vote for them all. Each has a diffrent reason why i would vote for them.
i mean if i was being a selfish pompos git il vote for myself..... smile
but i am not so there.
MikeC
Hey! I wouldn't make a good mod at all. I'd be a very BAD mod because I like being bad. wink :grin: :grin:
I go with the idea of M2PU as mod for a day. :giggle:
Give him a chance to get his own back, poor fellow! :cheers:
And if I were ever PM victim of the week I wouldn't reply to any of them 'cos if I did It'd take me the rest of my life as I'm also bad at PMming. :twisted:
BAD is good! .....................................er..................................
well BAD, which is ......................................Oh shit! redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
Erm.............well you know what I mean. Yep! Er..................
:confused: :confused: :confused:
drinkies
Quote by little gem
This is one of those popularity contests - not a good thing here in my view. Never indulge in 'em - that's my position and advice to others.
Sorry!

I'm with Tune.
Being popular doesn't necessarily make a good moderator.
Does being unpopular make for being a good mod?
If so I reckon I could do the job biggrin
Quote by Steve_Mids
This is one of those popularity contests - not a good thing here in my view. Never indulge in 'em - that's my position and advice to others.
Sorry!

I'm with Tune.
Being popular doesn't necessarily make a good moderator.
Does being unpopular make for being a good mod?
If so I reckon I could do the job biggrin
I know yer tongue is in yer cheek but I didn't mean that being a mod was a popularity thingy. What I meant was that this thread was turning into a popularity contest - it still is - bad thing!!
Since then I've posted, in all seriousness what I think makes a good mod but it got lost on page 2 - similar to Steph's - I'd really welcome a serious debate on the subject.
Sorry tune I was guilty of triteness here before.
In all seriousness I think a good mod has to be someone who doesn't court popularity.
That's my serious point of view.
ES
bolt
Quote by EagerSlut
Sorry tune I was guilty of triteness here before.
In all seriousness I think a good mod has to be someone who doesn't court popularity.
That's my serious point of view.
ES
bolt

Exactly...
I dont worry about wether folk like me or not I just try to do the job as best I can.
A good mod must be fair
A good mod must be firm
A good mod must be resolute
A good mod must be loyal
A good mod must be stable
A good mod must be Bloody Nuts
Fred
Quote by westerross
Like I said I won’t get into the popularity contest thingy, but the subject of what makes a good moderator is intriguing.
I think a good moderator is:
Consistent: That generally requires them to be a fairly well balanced personality but also to have thought things through where common practice is to be applied.
Good under pressure: Not phased by strong or aggressive characters – ready to act sensibly on own initiative when urgent circumstances require.
Collaborative: With the other mods to ensure that the place is run on a consistent basis but also to hear other experienced people’s views.
Good judge of character: It really helps if you can read between the lines to see if someone is being genuine, is a troll or has a damaging agenda.
Generous: Is prepared to explain privately, if necessary, but publicly if others need to learn, why certain actions have been taken.
Hard working: Prepared to put in the time to a lot bone-aching activity on the fora/ads etc.
Good written communication: Essential to avoid misunderstandings.

Competent: No room for airheads.
Intelligent: Needs to be able to hold a sound argument in a controlled way.
Selfless: Prepared to give up their leisure time for the benefit of others.
Innovative: Look at the exchanges on northcoastboy's thread on Missy's good idea on the photoads.
There’s probably more and a GSOH definitely helps!
I don’t suppose Mark has ever analysed it thus but he has made a pretty good job of finding the best people around who fit those criteria in my view.
I tried to re-arrange the criteria into a snappy acronym (‘cos I love doing that sort of thing!) but I gave up – too many Cs and Gs.

Oh FFS I've never done this before - yup I'm quoting meself but I put some effort into it and I want people to see me work of art!!
Edit OK OK this is me TE - I was logged on for me missus to help her with some Friends reunited stuff and forgot - so i posted my stuff as her - have a good larf on me but Angelica is me for the last half hour !! dunno Terrible stuff this red wine - I've told her and I'm in real trouble !
redface surprisedops: I've been mrsFC before now..........I did have a troubled past confused
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redface surprisedops: I've been mrsFC before now..........I did have a troubled past confused

Thanks for those kind words of support! Think I'd rather be Mrs FC just now than Mrs TE!
Quote by Vix
I'd go for SexySteph to be Mof for a Day.
She's very helpful, does not rub people up the wrong way, is not sarcastic and bitchy, knows how to organise stuff, does not seem to have 'cronies' and is generally a good-egg.
In other words, is quite the opposite of me!

she gets our vote aswell she has all this
A Good sense of Humour
Good with People
Sufficient technical skills (ok these can be learnt)
The ability to work as part of a team
Intelligence
An abundance of Patience
A TTTT destruct need
Plenty of time
A good intuition on people based on what they post
The ability to take it on the chin if they fook up
Quote by Steve_Mids
Does being unpopular make for being a good mod?

no, but I reckon being a mod could make you quite unpopular with some!
lol So you could be half way there steve afterall! :thumbup: ;) kiss
I think above all fairness and a willingness to self-evaluate. If you've made a bad decision then the ability to hold ones hands up and say "i'm sorry, I made a mistake" show great strength of character as does sticking by the choices you've made based on reasoning.
Either way, "Mr or MIss Popular" this week will undoubtably be out of favour as soon as they were modded up. A thick skin not to care too much would come in handy there as I reckon you get to know who are your real friends quite quickly when you're put in a postion like moderator.
:kiss:
Gem. x
Quote by little gem

Does being unpopular make for being a good mod?

no, but I reckon being a mod could make you quite unpopular with some!
lol So you could be half way there steve afterall! :thumbup: ;) kiss
I think above all fairness and a willingness to self-evaluate. If you've made a bad decision then the ability to hold ones hands up and say "i'm sorry, I made a mistake" show great strength of character as does sticking by the choices you've made based on reasoning.
Either way, "Mr or MIss Popular" this week will undoubtably be out of favour as soon as they were modded up. A thick skin not to care too much would come in handy there as I reckon you get to know who are your real friends quite quickly when you're put in a postion like moderator.
:kiss:
Gem. x
Being a chatroom op.....Unpopular is second nature to me.... rotflmao :rotflmao:
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Being a chatroom op.....Unpopular is second nature to me.... rotflmao :rotflmao:
It's not because you're an op, it's because you have yellow skin and wear Y-Fronts. :rotflmao:
Quote by Ice Pie
Being a chatroom op.....Unpopular is second nature to me.... rotflmao :rotflmao:
It's not because you're an op, it's because you have yellow skin and wear Y-Fronts. :rotflmao:
How did you know that???? :shock: :shock: :shock:
And I thought he managed to conseal that fact very well :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Shireen
xxx
P.S. :kick: because you didn't talk to me tonight in the chatroom lol
Quote by Shireen_Mids
P.S. :kick: because you didn't talk to me tonight in the chatroom lol

Oh, I'm sorry hunny. If I had seen you I would have been all over you like a rash. passionkiss