With nothing to lose I start this attitudinal survey.
On 15 Feb 13 we turned our cam off after a night in the chatroom. We soon became aware of a comment on our profile.
Please remember that our profile is solely based on meeting single white males under 27 only.
The comment came from a couple we have never spoken with:
16th Feb 2013 - 12:20am
was going to put what a stunning girl seeing on cam but ater reading your profile it is very very off putting no face pic on meet no whispers with out asking no second chances this is a fun site for couples to have fun and meet you make it sound like your the number one couple on here and everyone has to beg to talk to you and thats not being rude in anyway
Given all the variables, are these guys tossers?
Report the abuse.
It is for you to decide what you put in your profile and no amount of bullying should make you change that.
With GnV 100% on that! report it Trev, they, (if it is they and not just a single posing as they), are just a pair of dickheads we can do without.
Report it.
Some people just don't appreciate that one mans fun is another mans horror.
We occasionally get abuse telling us our profile is too long or our criteria too strict, not for us its not, if people dont like it they should simply move onto one they do like.
I dont like uninformative profiles and profiles without pictures or profiles where only body parts are in the galleries, what do I do when I see them, move to ones that have what I am looking for, I do not tell them how I think thier profiles should be.
Personally we like to be upfront and honest, we dont like to waste anyone's time, so we put all the info we can in our profile, we do have strict criteria, swinging IS only fun for us when we find someone compatible, swinging with someone that turned me off would be hell for me.
Socialising with people I wouldnt play with is different and we have many friends we would never play with, friends who would never play with us but still come to visit socially and friends we havent met yet, we go to swingers clubs for the social side of swinging, meet at home for playing.
No swinging site, swinging act or social act is fun as they put it without one ingredient
RESPECT.
It's not particularly that abusive really is it? If that's how they interpret your profile, and you're happy with it, then it's they who have the problem. Just delete the comment and get on with doing what you want to do. Let's be honest there is nothing seriously abusive going on. OK you might think how dare they think that we the number one couple or that they think they would have to beg to talk to you. Well if that's how they see it then it's more about their own insecurities possibly. We've seen you and spoken to you in chat land and you come across fine and never seem to have a problem with the people speaking to you or you them. You're a popular couple so you are obviously doing something right.
I wouldn't report them as they've not said anything i'd class as abusive. More sort of an unwelcome comment. It would be a bit to sensitive to get upset about such things.
I can see the value in what you say GnV, surely though, some who participate in the site, thinking of here in the forums at times, should or are getting lots of "words in their shell likes" :lol2:
Your advice would be to report and mine would be to not report. I guess it's up to the individual to decide.. As its not abuse and no rule broken under AUP under what title would you you report it as?
It's not abuse. It IS crap English. Granted that doesn't matter to a lot of people - I treat bad English the same as others treat poorly filled out profile - ignore the content and move on. It's also factually incorrect. This is NOT a site just 'for couples to have fun and meet'. It is a site for any adult - single, couple or otherwise, to use whether it is without communicating with others, or to communicate with others or to meet - whatever is their personal choice. There are no criteria about pleasing others and having to comply with random strangers' assumptions about how you should use the site.
What seems clear is that YOU are not using the site according to THEIR wishes - well stuff 'em. You're not on here to please random people that have never bothered to say hello.
Thanks everyone for your replies. Sometimes it is good to see something from another persons perspective before reacting.
Mrs Trevaunance is fabarooney viewing and although I'm reasonably sure she wouldn't be worried
by such comments there is at least comfort for her by way of Mr Trevaunance's shoulder, cos that's all I ever see of you *laughing* but don't change that, there is something quite comforting knowing that when I zoop on to your camera that shoulder is almost always there, sometimes I just wanna put my head on it meself *smiling*
