Wendy Richards dies

26 Feb 2009

Quote by Theladyisaminx
If Jade Goody gets her finger out we can have a national day of mourning.

Oh dear the tast-o-meter of this site just went down a rung or two.
I think that's just about the most tasteless thing I've seen on SH.
Ben - if you decide to edit out your original post I'll happily delete this quote.
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one persons tasteless is another persons funny
freedom of speech n all that old boy
I find nothing funny about a 27 year old mother of two dying and leaving her children regardless of their place in society.
Your post is as bad as his. You should be ashamed.
Death is a very delicate issue with most people, we cope in different ways some keep a sense of humour and others treat is seriously. We all have different coping strategies to deal with such a dilemma.
I think to express humour within a place like this when others have such different opinions, is a little inconsiderate of others, Ben maybe oversaw that when he posted that post.
see ya point hunny but then if no-one posted in here for fear of being inconsiderate of others it would be a big ole pile of tumbleweed now wouldn't it lol

26 Feb 2009

Quote by bouncy332
If Jade Goody gets her finger out we can have a national day of mourning.

Oh dear the tast-o-meter of this site just went down a rung or two.
I think that's just about the most tasteless thing I've seen on SH.
Ben - if you decide to edit out your original post I'll happily delete this quote.
.
one persons tasteless is another persons funny
freedom of speech n all that old boy
I find nothing funny about a 27 year old mother of two dying and leaving her children regardless of their place in society.
Your post is as bad as his. You should be ashamed.
in your opinion!
Yep :thumbup:

26 Feb 2009

Quote by bouncy332
If Jade Goody gets her finger out we can have a national day of mourning.

Oh dear the tast-o-meter of this site just went down a rung or two.
I think that's just about the most tasteless thing I've seen on SH.
Ben - if you decide to edit out your original post I'll happily delete this quote.
.
one persons tasteless is another persons funny
freedom of speech n all that old boy
I find nothing funny about a 27 year old mother of two dying and leaving her children regardless of their place in society.
Your post is as bad as his. You should be ashamed.
Death is a very delicate issue with most people, we cope in different ways some keep a sense of humour and others treat is seriously. We all have different coping strategies to deal with such a dilemma.
I think to express humour within a place like this when others have such different opinions, is a little inconsiderate of others, Ben maybe oversaw that when he posted that post.
see ya point hunny but then if no-one posted in here for fear of being inconsiderate of others it would be a big ole pile of tumbleweed now wouldn't it lol

True :thumbup: fair point, I say post and be damned I did smile and then thought naughty Ben, then told myself off after. :lol:
But then I remeber my mum walking past an undertakers with me I was about 14 just saying people are dying to get into there, I told her she was cruel, then I laughed.

26 Feb 2009

Quote by Theladyisaminx
If Jade Goody gets her finger out we can have a national day of mourning.

Oh dear the tast-o-meter of this site just went down a rung or two.
I think that's just about the most tasteless thing I've seen on SH.
Ben - if you decide to edit out your original post I'll happily delete this quote.
.
one persons tasteless is another persons funny
freedom of speech n all that old boy
I find nothing funny about a 27 year old mother of two dying and leaving her children regardless of their place in society.
Your post is as bad as his. You should be ashamed.
Death is a very delicate issue with most people, we cope in different ways some keep a sense of humour and others treat is seriously. We all have different coping strategies to deal with such a dilemma.
I think to express humour within a place like this when others have such different opinions, is a little inconsiderate of others, Ben maybe oversaw that when he posted that post.
see ya point hunny but then if no-one posted in here for fear of being inconsiderate of others it would be a big ole pile of tumbleweed now wouldn't it lol

True :thumbup: fair point, I say post and be damned I did smile and then thought naughty Ben, then told myself off after. :lol:
But then I remeber my mum walking past an undertakers with me I was about 14 just saying people are dying to get into there, I told her she was cruel, then I laughed.
see thats my point exactly minxie your honest enought to say it at least made you grin i did the same too and also like you flogged myself for doing so
we are all human ffs we can grin at summat then feel bad for doin so after doesn't make us bad people for finding humour in awfull situations in fact i think it makes us good people for being honest about it
i love honesty i hold a lot of regard for those that are n thats why i loves ya minxie my sweet wink

26 Feb 2009

anyhoo lets stop gettin off point this is meant to be about wendy

26 Feb 2009

Quote by bouncy332
If Jade Goody gets her finger out we can have a national day of mourning.

Oh dear the tast-o-meter of this site just went down a rung or two.
I think that's just about the most tasteless thing I've seen on SH.
Ben - if you decide to edit out your original post I'll happily delete this quote.
.
one persons tasteless is another persons funny
freedom of speech n all that old boy
I find nothing funny about a 27 year old mother of two dying and leaving her children regardless of their place in society.
Your post is as bad as his. You should be ashamed.
Death is a very delicate issue with most people, we cope in different ways some keep a sense of humour and others treat is seriously. We all have different coping strategies to deal with such a dilemma.
I think to express humour within a place like this when others have such different opinions, is a little inconsiderate of others, Ben maybe oversaw that when he posted that post.
see ya point hunny but then if no-one posted in here for fear of being inconsiderate of others it would be a big ole pile of tumbleweed now wouldn't it lol

True :thumbup: fair point, I say post and be damned I did smile and then thought naughty Ben, then told myself off after. :lol:
But then I remeber my mum walking past an undertakers with me I was about 14 just saying people are dying to get into there, I told her she was cruel, then I laughed.
I am going to boot another old thread of my up take a read.. called can we laugh in the face of adversity, give me 5 mins :lol:
see thats my point exactly minxie your honest enought to say it at least made you grin i did the same too and also like you flogged myself for doing so
we are all human ffs we can grin at summat then feel bad for doin so after doesn't make us bad people for finding humour in awfull situations in fact i think it makes us good people for being honest about it
i love honesty i hold a lot of regard for those that are n thats why i loves ya minxie my sweet wink

26 Feb 2009

Well sorry I obviously do not have a sense of humour. I cannot see anything funny at all, about someones death.
If somebody would have made a similar comment about David Camerons son, I would hope the people would have recoiled in horror. Why should it be any different for an adult, or is death worse if a child was involved?
The comment was not meant to be funny in my opinion, it was said deliberatly to cause offence, which it most certainly did.
I feel for the familes left behind, as they are the ones that have to pick up the pieces.

26 Feb 2009

Just a point - it's Wendy Richard - not RichardS. I know she's in no position to object, but I always feel someone's name is part of them and getting it right reflects our respect for each other.

26 Feb 2009

Quote by foxylady2209
Just a point - it's Wendy Richard - not RichardS. I know she's in no position to object, but I always feel someone's name is part of them and getting it right reflects our respect for each other.

Quite right folxylad

26 Feb 2009

Quote by essex34m
Just a point - it's Wendy Richard - not RichardS. I know she's in no position to object, but I always feel someone's name is part of them and getting it right reflects our respect for each other.

Quite right folxylad
smackbottom

:giggle:

26 Feb 2009

Quote by bouncy332
maybe i should of not expressed my oppinion eh maybe time to sit on my hands :gagged:

Or maybe you should just remain the person you originally were (which is lovely) and not be too swayed by what people are telling you wink

26 Feb 2009

Quote by jaymar

maybe i should of not expressed my oppinion eh maybe time to sit on my hands :gagged:

Or maybe you should just remain the person you originally were (which is lovely) and not be too swayed by what people are telling you wink

oh trust me hun i am never ever swayed am always n forever myself and hopefully still lovely even if my oppinion isn't a popular one
fraid i have always been a big bottomed rebel not one for towing the line lol but never want to upset anyone not my intention just bein vocal where normally i would walk on by not sure why just couldn't sit on fingers tonight :shock:

26 Feb 2009

I did recoil at the (what I consider to be) tasteless "humour" in this and the Jade thread.
But much as I felt it was amazingly nasty, horrible, etc... I do feel that it's only words. It's not said to the bereaved, it's not meant to hurt anyone.
I don't find the jokes funny - I find them offensive, and I'd rather not see them here - but I agree, people (including myself) find the strangest things amusing, and that's just human nature.

26 Feb 2009

On the back of another post, I'm afraid I found it tasteless and unnecessary as well.
I totally understand gallows humour, however wishing anyone's death, whether in jest or not is beyond a certain boundary.
It reminds me of a local incident here in Derby where a teenage boy committed suicide by jumping off the shopping centre, whilst a crowd bayed at him to just go ahead and jump sad

A sickening example of how cruel society has become.
I appreciate that people are entitled to their opinions. Entitlement does not necessarily mean that it should be voiced, particularly when they could cause distress.
Think for a minute, how much nicer would society be if just for once, you praised instead of chastised; stayed quiet instead of voicing a contraversial opinion; relayed positive news instead of rumours; stopped to check that the person who tripped was okay instead of hurrying by and stifling a giggle; complimented a stranger instead of avoided them?
Life isn't all about fluff, I know but that's only because we choose to delight in other's misfortune.

26 Feb 2009

Quote by Calista
On the back of another post, I'm afraid I found it tasteless and unnecessary as well.
I totally understand gallows humour, however wishing anyone's death, whether in jest or not is beyond a certain boundary.
It reminds me of a local incident here in Derby where a teenage boy committed suicide by jumping off the shopping centre, whilst a crowd bayed at him to just go ahead and jump
A sickening example of how cruel society has become.
I appreciate that people are entitled to their opinions. Entitlement does not necessarily mean that it should be voiced, particularly when they could cause distress.
Think for a minute, how much nicer would society be if just for once, you praised instead of chastised; stayed quiet instead of voicing a contraversial opinion; relayed positive news instead of rumours; stopped to check that the person who tripped was okay instead of hurrying by and stifling a giggle; complimented a stranger instead of avoided them?
Life isn't all about fluff, I know but that's only because we choose to delight in other's misfortune.

don't misunderstand me i would b overjoyed if life was all fluffy and i do agree in the main with your post kiss

26 Feb 2009

I apologise for perpetuating BenrumsOn's hijack, without acknowledging the OP's subject.
I think the reason why it is often comment worthy if a famous person dies is because many people remember what pleasure the deceased has given them. The memories give some pleasure but it is also a stark reminder of our own mortality.
So I say I regret Wendy Richard's passing because she brightened part of my youth and has died relatively young.

Quote by bouncy332
deadly serious why shouldn't i be its a fact humour is subjective just because u find it tasteless does that mean everyone has to???
we all have our own minds and i for one am not affraid to say mine for fear of being judged i do not care wat others oppinions are of me so i am not prepared to jump on what someone says just to appear as if i am a good person with only good and righteous thoughts and opinions
maybe i should of not expressed my oppinion eh maybe time to sit on my hands :gagged:

I have to say in response to this that I am prepared to 'jump on' anyone who demonstrates what I consider such poor taste. That is me expressing my opinion after all is it not.
And if you think I did that merely to make me look like a 'good person' (whatever that is) then you really don't know me.
I'll have a good laugh about many a risqué subject but I reserve the right to draw the line and express my views accordingly.
You of course are entitled to do the same and that is how we all get to know eachother on here mostly isn't it.
So don't sit on yer hands and keep smiling!
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26 Feb 2009

Quote by Calista
On the back of another post, I'm afraid I found it tasteless and unnecessary as well.
I totally understand gallows humour, however wishing anyone's death, whether in jest or not is beyond a certain boundary.
It reminds me of a local incident here in Derby where a teenage boy committed suicide by jumping off the shopping centre, whilst a crowd bayed at him to just go ahead and jump
A sickening example of how cruel society has become.
I appreciate that people are entitled to their opinions. Entitlement does not necessarily mean that it should be voiced, particularly when they could cause distress.
Think for a minute, how much nicer would society be if just for once, you praised instead of chastised; stayed quiet instead of voicing a contraversial opinion; relayed positive news instead of rumours; stopped to check that the person who tripped was okay instead of hurrying by and stifling a giggle; complimented a stranger instead of avoided them?
Life isn't all about fluff, I know but that's only because we choose to delight in other's misfortune.

That is true.
Respect and dignity, but not always honesty.

26 Feb 2009

Quote Kent:
"Respect and dignity, but not always honesty."
Kent may I refer you to the AUP.
Non Acceptable Behaviour.
* Abusive, aggressive, hateful or racist behaviour towards fellow members, Ops/Mods or Administration staff.
I think that snide remark regarding my honesty is abusive, aggressive and hateful. May I ask that you desist. I will not be bullied by you or any other member of this community.
In edit the honesty dignity respect reference is lifted from my profile.

26 Feb 2009

Quote by benrums0n
Quote Kent:
"Respect and dignity, but not always honesty."
Kent may I refer you to the AUP.
Non Acceptable Behaviour.
* Abusive, aggressive, hateful or racist behaviour towards fellow members, Ops/Mods or Administration staff.
I think that snide remark regarding my honesty is abusive, aggressive and hateful. May I ask that you desist. I will not be bullied by you or any other member of this community.

Have I missed something here? :dunno:
Kenty never referred to you so it appears to me that you either have a guilty conscience or are spoiling for a fight by baiting?

27 Feb 2009

if anything i would have said it was aimed at callie.....as kenty was quoting her post....but then again i cant see that there was any dig or malice in kentys post.....maybe im being dim dunno

27 Feb 2009

I am sorry that she has passed away as I remember her on the TV.
My sorrow is not great as I do not and did not know the woman except as a character on the TV screen. I feel as much sorrow as when watching the history channel and watch the hundreds of thousands that are on the Century of Warfare that die. This sorrow lasts fleetingly as her life did not affect me directly. Thats why I think I smiled when reading Bens comments.
Dave_Notts

27 Feb 2009

It sometimes amazes me how so called "Grown ups" (dare I say middle aged adults?) can behave like school children, bickering away on an Adult forum like kids in a playground.
I am not taking sides here, but FFS, take a step back, take a deep breath and start behaving like adults!!! confused

:? :?

27 Feb 2009

Quote by Calista
Quote Kent:
"Respect and dignity, but not always honesty."
Kent may I refer you to the AUP.
Non Acceptable Behaviour.
* Abusive, aggressive, hateful or racist behaviour towards fellow members, Ops/Mods or Administration staff.
I think that snide remark regarding my honesty is abusive, aggressive and hateful. May I ask that you desist. I will not be bullied by you or any other member of this community.

Have I missed something here? :dunno:
Kenty never referred to you so it appears to me that you either have a guilty conscience or are spoiling for a fight by baiting?
I agree - I don't think you are being bullied, Ben.

27 Feb 2009

Quote by Freckledbird
Quote Kent:
"Respect and dignity, but not always honesty."
Kent may I refer you to the AUP.
Non Acceptable Behaviour.
* Abusive, aggressive, hateful or racist behaviour towards fellow members, Ops/Mods or Administration staff.
I think that snide remark regarding my honesty is abusive, aggressive and hateful. May I ask that you desist. I will not be bullied by you or any other member of this community.

Have I missed something here? :dunno:
Kenty never referred to you so it appears to me that you either have a guilty conscience or are spoiling for a fight by baiting?
I agree - I don't think you are being bullied, Ben.
I think you need to go back to page one to understand where Ben thoughts have come from.
I think it was more of what was said then as a pure direction of what Ben wrote. wink

So I can see why Ben could feel this way, rightly or wrongly, But it is how Ben feels I believe.

27 Feb 2009

Quote by benrums0n
Quote Kent:
"Respect and dignity, but not always honesty."
Kent may I refer you to the AUP.
Non Acceptable Behaviour.
* Abusive, aggressive, hateful or racist behaviour towards fellow members, Ops/Mods or Administration staff.
I think that snide remark regarding my honesty is abusive, aggressive and hateful. May I ask that you desist. I will not be bullied by you or any other member of this community.
In edit the honesty dignity respect reference is lifted from my profile.

I think you are being paranoid Bens, as I stated in another thread.
You have the gall to say you are upset at MY comment. mad

When your comment was the one that most and myself found disgustingly offensive.
IF you want to come on here and say comments like that, then expect a backlash, because you are not dim so must have known for sure the reaction you was going to get.
For the record.....I have never or will never look at your profile! I do not know what is on it, nor do I care.
Is that clear enough for you? Being paranoid is not a good thing.
Also for the record it was NOT aimed at Calista either, I have too much respect for her anyway. It was aimed at nobody in particular. So get off your high horse and comment and reply how you used too, and not in the manner for which you have been. You are doing yourself no favours.
Also I appologise for saying Richards imstead of Richard. redface

27 Feb 2009

Kent, I do not wish to discuss your abuse of me anynmore.
I cannot accept that the honesty jibe was not lifted from my profile. Although Im sure many will find the coincidence believable. You have in fact looked at my profile on many occasions although I cannot tell how recently since my extras package has expired.
I will take Bilko's wise council as it seem that your personal remarks are acceptable behaviour.

27 Feb 2009

Quote by benrums0n
Kent, I do not wish to discuss your abuse of me anynmore.
I cannot accept that the honesty jibe was not lifted from my profile. Although Im sure many will find the coincidence believable. You have in fact looked at my profile on many occasions although I cannot tell how recently since my extras package has expired.
I will take Bilko's wise council as it seem that your personal remarks are acceptable behaviour.

Well am glad you seem to be having a better day than yesterday. :shock:
I stand by my comment that I have not looked at your profile still.....it seems you are still determined to be a tad paranoid.
Lets see if we can have a better day eh? wink

27 Feb 2009

Quote by kentswingers777
Kent, I do not wish to discuss your abuse of me anynmore.
I cannot accept that the honesty jibe was not lifted from my profile. Although Im sure many will find the coincidence believable. You have in fact looked at my profile on many occasions although I cannot tell how recently since my extras package has expired.
I will take Bilko's wise council as it seem that your personal remarks are acceptable behaviour.

Well am glad you seem to be having a better day than yesterday. :shock:
I stand by my comment that I have not looked at your profile still.....it seems you are still determined to be a tad paranoid.
Lets see if we can have a better day eh? wink

This is bordering ridiculous!
Ben, it's not just Kent who's commented on your behaviour. A lot of people thought your comment about Jade was disrespectful and out of order.
How has that ended with you becoming the victim of bullying?
The word 'bully' thrown around too much for my liking.
Sgt.B is right, everyone needs to grow up!!!

27 Feb 2009

Mar,
I do not wish to discuss this any more. Did you read that bit? So with your permission I will do as I wish. Are u Admin Op or Mod?
This really is my last word on this ridiculous situation.

27 Feb 2009

Quote by benrums0n
Mar,
I do not wish to discuss this any more. Did you read that bit? So with your permission I will do as I wish. Are u Admin Op or Mod?
This really is my last word on this ridiculous situation.

nope I'm just lil old me! ... did you ask that because I gave you some advice??
Yes, I'll respect your wishes and not discuss this anymore cool