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What is flirting?

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Theladyisaminx
Sex God
After reading a post from Cubes on another thread about flirting.
I keep wondering what is flirting?
I have been told I flirt and am good at it but I don't really know what others see that makes me a flirt.
I am an innocent flirt, innocent of all charges. wink
What is this flirting business everyone talks about?
neilinleeds
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I have been told I flirt and am good at it but I don't really know what others see that makes me a flirt.
I am an innocent flirt, innocent of all charges.
What is this flirting business everyone talks about?

You and Flower, sitting in a tree, k.i.s.s.i.n.g.
Something like that maybe that people see Minxy, probably? lol bolt
skinny
Sex God
I always understood flirting to be promoting a romantic or sexual encounter or encouraging the advances of others by chat or a knowing smile, or a wink just for instance.
Smooth2
Sexpert
Flirting for me is the confidence to chat amiably to any member of the opposite sex. There are degrees of flirting but you are wasting your time if the person you are trying to flirt with does not think along the same lines. Most flirting would be of a complimentary,very mildly sexual,double entendre or humerous nature. Stay on the safe side until you have made a few 'saucy' comments and see how they respond. If the banter is well received you can go as far as you feel safe with. I always think that a bit of banter and flirting brightens up the day of many people, shop workers for example. There are too many miserable B's out there.
Smooth1
Unknown User
Quote by Theladyisaminx
After reading a post from Cubes on another thread about flirting.

Moi? Are you sure? It's not like me to flirt with anyone. :shock:
PS.. fancy a shag gal? :twisted:
;)
VoyeurJ
Sexlightened
Fun, better if its welcome though. Part of the build up when meeting someone new to flirt at I say
J
Ben_Minx
Sex God
A subtle sexual overture. The subtler the better.
foxylady2209
Sex God
Quote by Ben_Minx
A subtle sexual overture. The subtler the better.

That's no good for me. I need really really obvious stuff. No point using subtle flirting - just pull my frock up over my head. I'll just about get the hint then. :giggle:
Seriously, I've been told loads of times that I missed really obvious flirts and overtures.