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Hi All,
This weekend munch was a great opertunity for me to meet people i had spoken to over the last couple of years and never met for one reason or another.
I have sat back at took stock, of why i mite not have met these people, then i realised that sometimes my posting and chat style is very childish toilet sence of humour, and i know this doesnt allways attarach people.
Then i sat back and thought well, ok fine my posting and chat is not great but surly i must have some qualities that may encourage people to meet me,
Now i have assesed this, and realised that how mutch is actually taken from first impressions of people in chat and forums, i know this comunity is very tollerant but, i have realised how some people can be judgemental,
I suppose thats why attending munchs are great, people can see face to face and have a chat and see if there is that spark there, that leads to furthur social or bedroom activities. I know a number of people that probably wudnt have met based on on-line activities then when met up :twisted: :twisted:
so what i suggest to all is try and get yourself to a munch, even if its just one, and say hi to people you just never know wink
Nice post Mike :thumbup:
Quote by MikeC
I know a number of people that probably wudnt have met based on on-line activities

I guess we would never have met without socials or munches. Its not that your posting style or the way you chat is not the best. For me its more a case of you are a fair distance away and you are below an age I personally would feel comfortable playing with as a rule.
Having said that, we have met socially a few times, we have had some giggles and I am so glad that we have kiss
Quote by MikeC
so what i suggest to all is try and get yourself to a munch, even if its just one, and say hi to people you just never know wink

Good piece of advice biggrin
Quote by Dawnie
Nice post Mike :thumbup:
I know a number of people that probably wudnt have met based on on-line activities

I guess we would never have met without socials or munches. Its not that your posting style or the way you chat is not the best. For me its more a case of you are a fair distance away and you are below an age I personally would feel comfortable playing with as a rule.
Having said that, we have met socially a few times, we have had some giggles and I am so glad that we have kiss
Quote by MikeC
so what i suggest to all is try and get yourself to a munch, even if its just one, and say hi to people you just never know wink

Good piece of advice biggrin
Thanks for nice words, but again this shows to people that willingness to travel. God knows how many miles i have put in the scene in last 6 months, but i know nearly 500 miles in Jan alone,
People can see that wow a person is willing to travel for a piss-up, if there is a spark there they would possibley be willing to travel for a meet.
Again the age rule, i know a lot of people that would not even chat to people outside of there age rule, whereas, at a munch i will try and talk to people regardless of age, sex, location, (ok if there a liverpool fc or arsenal fc then mayby not cool )
Mike
Quote by MikeC
People can see that wow a person is willing to travel for a piss-up, if there is a spark there they would possibley be willing to travel for a meet.

When meeting at a social, am only speaking for myself, I get to meet old friends, people I chat to but not meet and people I would consider playing with. So yes, it is worth putting in the effort for, apart from the fact munches are a bloody good night out.
If travelling for a playing meet with someone I hardly know, there is the risk of the spark not being there no matter how much I'd like it to be.
If I'd met someone at a social I had never considered before and the spark was there then yes, I would travel a hell of a lot further.
Quote by MikeC
Again the age rule, i know a lot of people that would not even chat to people outside of there age rule, whereas, at a munch i will try and talk to people regardless of age, sex, location, (ok if there a liverpool fc or arsenal fc then mayby not cool )

I'll chat to just about anyone but munches and socials has opened up a whole selection of people I might not have considered playing with purely because I didn't know their real personality, age or their pictures didn't work for me. Getting to know someone changes everything biggrin
I won't even start on the friendships that munches and socials have given me, I'd be here for hours.
Can you tell I love munches dunno :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Like this too Mike :thumbup:
I've only been to one munch, met a few of the ladies through the Pussy Posse and been to a couple of socials too. It's great to put faces to names, find out you really do ( or don't confused ) have an attraction with someone you've been flirting outrageously with for 6 months and of course, see new people who catch your eye.
I have to admit that I went to Notts with the thought of 'checking out' certain people but had such a laugh I totally forgot to perv and flirt :?
Trying to turn Dawnie, drooling over Missy's cleavage sillyhwoar: and sitting on Red's lap doesn't count :giggle: )
Great post, Michael and I'm in full agreement.
for some reason, i've always had loads of PM's from newbies wanting help or advice (I must have one of those faces :shock: ) and I always, always recommend going to Munches as an ideal way to get to know people and for them to know you.
It's easy to judge people on their online persona and not see how they really are - despite that many of us just are who we are - it's just different. A munch is great for someone like me who doesn't normally go out of their way to do meets or for the single guys who struggle to get any success from the ads system for example, or like Dawn says - just to meet people you wouldn't normally really consider.
I only wish I had the money and time to attend more events.
Quote by Marya_Northeast
It's easy to judge people on their online persona and not see how they really are - despite that many of us just are who we are - it's just different.

:thumbup:
I've said this before, but I have found that sometimes those who are quite chatty and confident on here are actually very shy in real life and vice versa.
It's also good when a couple have a joint account and only one of them posts/chats you get to meet and chat to both of them.
The other major benefit of meeting someone at a social is you know that they turn up for things.
Hiya Mike
We always find it better (or we feel better) talking to someone face to face at a Munch or social rather than one liners etc on a screen where you cant really find out what the people who you are talking to are really like.
Thats why we like to meet face to face at a Munch or Social and we usually find that the people you get to meet at a Munch, or social, are very Genuine and good people to get to know
(just our observations lol)
Our advice to anyone thinking of going to a Munch is go! You Will find the people there friendly and its always good to put a face (or a personalaty) to a name biggrin
Mr & Mrs goodtimez
Quote by Scandal
I am an angel personified in RL biggrin :smug:
A vision of pure gentleness cool

Who told you that? poke
Well in that case I'm Mother Theresa :shock:
lol :lol: :lol:
Should I just turn around now for my.... smackbottom :lol:
Fee
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Quote by Scandal
It's easy to judge people on their online persona and not see how they really are -

I am an angel personified in RL biggrin :smug:
A vision of pure gentleness cool
and i'm his Holyness The Pope! lol
god i am a 25 year old football hooligan with 2 asbos and an electronic tag
Mike ;)
Quote by Mr-Powers
and i'm his Holyness The Pope! lol

Pleased to meet you! :lol:
Mother T
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Back to the origional Q........
Why are munches good......
Well of course.....
It's becaluse i go to them lol
Quote by Scandal
It's easy to judge people on their online persona and not see how they really are -

I am an angel personified in RL biggrin :smug:
A vision of pure gentleness cool
Now why do I find that so hard to believe??? :twisted:
MikeC
A munch what is one of those??? lol
I am the shy one in the corner :lol:
And how you Mike have changed since I first knew you!
Quote by Lilmiss
Back to the origional Q........
Why are munches good......
Well of course.....
It's becaluse i go to them lol

Nice one Lillmiss, nice to see you again lol
Mr & Mrs Goodtimez
Quote by Lilmiss
Back to the origional Q........
Why are munches good......
Well of course.....
It's becaluse i go to them lol

Yeah but you still won't go dogging with me :giggle:
Quote by Scandal
Now why do I find that so hard to believe??? :twisted:

The proof of the pudding ....... and all that! ;)
Your shout! :twisted:
I love pudding. Bring it on. If you dare ... :twisted:
Quote by Sarah
MikeC
A munch what is one of those??? lol
I am the shy one in the corner :lol:
And how you Mike have changed since I first knew you!

shy me sooo true wink
Quote by MikeC
MikeC
A munch what is one of those??? lol
I am the shy one in the corner :lol:
And how you Mike have changed since I first knew you!

shy me sooo true wink
:twisted: You mean a bit like the first Rio's visit, when you sat and talked to Cassie and me??
okie i was shy back then at one point.......
ummm and i was strugerling to hide a techincal malfunction redface
I have one and only one problem with munchies :cry:
Quote by Lilmiss
Back to the origional Q........
Why are munches good......
Well of course.....
It's becaluse i go to them lol

snap :giggle:
I just love em at the moment.
Seem to have more fun at munches than anything else at the moment and its great to meet the folks here some regular and some for the first time.
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
I've said this before, but I have found that sometimes those who are quite chatty and confident on here are actually very shy in real life

This has always been my problem . I lack the confidence to approach people and would never dream of talking to someone for five minutes then asking if they fancied a spit roast innocent
Why are munches so good?? dunno
For me, it affords me the opportunity to see some old friends, meet people that I have been bantering with for a very long time online and having a bit of a dance (sometimes :lol2: )
The best bit for me though is the ability to have a night away from the kids :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Quote by sLeeper
This has always been my problem . I lack the confidence to approach people and would never dream of talking to someone for five minutes then asking if they fancied a spit roast innocent

This is true, it took you atleast 10 minutes to ask me!!!!
My first munch too, you scared me for life!!!
Munches are absolutely fab!! I love coming to a Munch and chilling out and relaxing with people that I a) already know and b) want to meet but haven't had the chance yet....
It's a good chance to have a laugh and get a few snogs....
Great post MikeC hun :thumbup:
I think your right Mike. The written word can be such an inadequate way to communicate. 90% of communication is non verbal. Also the written word makes no allowance for tone of voice and nuance. How often have you written something ironic or sarcastic, or written something that was meant to be light hearted banter and seen it all go wrong! I hope to get to a munch myself one day.
lol...well if anyone is able to translate my awful spelling, and poor english...
i tend do only use my with and sarcasam with people i know stops isssues
Mike