As I know that people did receive replies over the weekend, anyone who hasn't by now........... isn't going to get one (I think). And as it looks like we are all single males, & Helen's partner said something on the phone about not wanting too many single males (which is odd for a social!) I think we've had it.
It would be interesting to know on what basis they have chosen who to invite.
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Have you PM'd Helen again HungryP?
PM'd Marya & Helen over the weekend & no response. Thanks anyway MQ.
Sex God
well as some ppl do have a life besides on here helen ,did go to sexcroft ,i am sure they will get in contact
Sex God
Quote by HungryP
As I know that people did receive replies over the weekend, anyone who hasn't by now........... isn't going to get one (I think). And as it looks like we are all single males, & Helen's partner said something on the phone about not wanting too many single males (which is odd for a social!) I think we've had it.
It would be interesting to know on what basis they have chosen who to invite.
i would love to know if this is true.....
actually... this is the 3 seperate person i have heard this from and if it is true then it isn't really in the spirit of what was orginally started with..... sounds like the meet is being hi-jacked for some other purpose....
i am on lates this week so there is no way i can now go, but if this is what has been going on then i would not have gone anyway..... :( :( :(
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by northeastcoupleuk
well as some ppl do have a life besides on here
That's good to know
:lol: i'm sure helen39 and marya are leaving the details til tomorrow, already ppl are quipping and if people are quipping people will talk i'm sure you have seen the sunday newspapers and i am very sure you don't want to have them popping their heads round the door. i'm sure that everone who has replied to say they are going will get details whats the rush you have day off on wecnesday you know it's at 12 midday you just don't know the venue yet, chill out people.
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i'm sure helen39 and marya are leaving the details til tomorrow, already ppl are quipping and if people are quipping people will talk i'm sure you have seen the sunday newspapers and i am very sure you don't want to have them popping their heads round the door. i'm sure that everone who has replied to say they are going will get details whats the rush you have day off on wecnesday you know it's at 12 midday you just don't know the venue yet, chill out people.
Its customary to at least tell people if they can attend at some point in advance. The details can then be sent out separately.
Sex God
Quote by HungryP
i'm sure helen39 and marya are leaving the details til tomorrow, already ppl are quipping and if people are quipping people will talk i'm sure you have seen the sunday newspapers and i am very sure you don't want to have them popping their heads round the door. i'm sure that everone who has replied to say they are going will get details whats the rush you have day off on wecnesday you know it's at 12 midday you just don't know the venue yet, chill out people.
Its customary to at least tell people if they can attend at some point in advance. The details can then be sent out separately.
And we don't all live in the Teesside area, some of us are travelling quite long distances.
Mike.
Quote by MikeNorth
And we don't all live in the Teesside area, some of us are travelling quite long distances.
Yes, forgot to mention about some people needing to book accomodation.
Thought I should just say............ I'm not looking to whinge, be a pain in the rear, & I'm fully appreciative of all the work that is involved in setting up an event such as this. Plus it can't be nice when things don't necessarily go as planned, & people then start getting upset.
I'd just like to be able to meet with friends old & new.
I'd just like to be able to meet with friends old & new.
Quote by HungryP
i'm sure helen39 and marya are leaving the details til tomorrow, already ppl are quipping and if people are quipping people will talk i'm sure you have seen the sunday newspapers and i am very sure you don't want to have them popping their heads round the door. i'm sure that everone who has replied to say they are going will get details whats the rush you have day off on wecnesday you know it's at 12 midday you just don't know the venue yet, chill out people.
Its customary to at least tell people if they can attend at some point in advance. The details can then be sent out separately.
And we don't all live in the Teesside area, some of us are travelling quite long distances.
Yes, forgot to mention about some people needing to book accomodation.
that may be so but i'm sure 24hrs notice is enough time to book a room somewhere and plan your journey and i suspect you won't find it hard getting accommodation midweek i will even ring a few places around the stockton area to check availability i understand you will want accom nr the venue but like you i don't know where this is and i myself haven't heard anything i'm sure there is a reasonable explanation for all of this. if nothing is heard before 6pm tomorrow then i think we should start worrying. dj
It may be an Idea to have alook at Helns new thread in the Forum - sort of explains a few things.
Heres the link to Helens thread.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/29201.html
Heres the link to Helens thread.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/29201.html
Ive mentioned ages ago I may not be able to attend but things have changed and I can if I can get the directions after being to the munch in Newcastle and Marcusos birthday party it would be nice to meet pals again, I can get the train down, as for hotels the premier and travel lodge were both booked fully since Sat for wed night, they are the most easy going hotels I know, any way is there an invite for a couple although the fem is arriving about 5 hrs before the fella who is comming after work.
I am at last a happy chap. Thank you Helen.
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Ive mentioned ages ago I may not be able to attend but things have changed and I can if I can get the directions after being to the munch in Newcastle and Marcusos birthday party it would be nice to meet pals again, I can get the train down, as for hotels the premier and travel lodge were both booked fully since Sat for wed night, they are the most easy going hotels I know, any way is there an invite for a couple although the fem is arriving about 5 hrs before the fella who is comming after work.
PM'd
OMG!!!!!
I can't believe what this has turned into! It's like half a dozen other bluddy threads on the Cafe. Chinese feckin whispers and half of you are ready to down us for trying to do something bluddy nice for ya!!!!
I haven't been online for a few days, 'cos surpisingly enough I do have a life beyond SH and even more remarkably it's a tad more important than this. HOWEVER, i am truly sorry tha so many of you have been left wondering what's going on and YES you are right to expect a reply and the details WELL before today! It's definitely an unreasonable amount of time to expect to wait and I am sorry for that.
I've only just found out about Helen and Andy's technical probs so i am currently goinmg through the list and PM-ing you all like mad!
PLEASE, PLEASE bear with me! This may take some time!
BTW, there are no restrictions regarding single males. This IS a social meet. There are only one or two people who have been turned down, and yes they are male but it because we don't know them or anyone else who knows them. I think that's fair enough. If anyone objects to that, please feel free to PM.
Right, now I'm off to PM you. I hope all the above speculation hasn't put you off!
I can't believe what this has turned into! It's like half a dozen other bluddy threads on the Cafe. Chinese feckin whispers and half of you are ready to down us for trying to do something bluddy nice for ya!!!!
I haven't been online for a few days, 'cos surpisingly enough I do have a life beyond SH and even more remarkably it's a tad more important than this. HOWEVER, i am truly sorry tha so many of you have been left wondering what's going on and YES you are right to expect a reply and the details WELL before today! It's definitely an unreasonable amount of time to expect to wait and I am sorry for that.
I've only just found out about Helen and Andy's technical probs so i am currently goinmg through the list and PM-ing you all like mad!
PLEASE, PLEASE bear with me! This may take some time!
BTW, there are no restrictions regarding single males. This IS a social meet. There are only one or two people who have been turned down, and yes they are male but it because we don't know them or anyone else who knows them. I think that's fair enough. If anyone objects to that, please feel free to PM.
Right, now I'm off to PM you. I hope all the above speculation hasn't put you off!
Sex God
dont it make you mad marya all the whinging and off ppl who were not on the list in the first place banging quote from every body else ,but leaving other parts off, love to see them take charge and try and organise something like that , it takes time and thought and organising ya every day life to ie kids ,sitters work ,anyway looks like its sorted keep up the good work and we will see ya there
Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong but I believe this is the list so far:
not in any particular order btw!
billi1
northeastcoupleuk
geordiecpl2001
PJ1
macca100
shellyalan
James_NE
Lil_Bunny
djswinger
Nomad_Soul maybe?
MQ (we meet at last!)
MikeNorth
Marcuso
Novice1
tees-male
AndyS_NE
steve-teesside
HungryP
lustwench
friendly
let me know if I've missed you!
One more thing - I didn't give out my mobile number but i think Helen's sending hers and you can have my lovely face pic in all it's glory if you want to know who to look for???
Dunno about Wednesday, I need a bluddy drink now!
not in any particular order btw!
billi1
northeastcoupleuk
geordiecpl2001
PJ1
macca100
shellyalan
James_NE
Lil_Bunny
djswinger
Nomad_Soul maybe?
MQ (we meet at last!)
MikeNorth
Marcuso
Novice1
tees-male
AndyS_NE
steve-teesside
HungryP
lustwench
friendly
let me know if I've missed you!
One more thing - I didn't give out my mobile number but i think Helen's sending hers and you can have my lovely face pic in all it's glory if you want to know who to look for???
Dunno about Wednesday, I need a bluddy drink now!
Warming the Bed
just wondering what's the dress code for these event's please
Quote by Marya
OMG!!!!! I can't believe what this has turned into! It's like half a dozen other bluddy threads on the Cafe. Chinese feckin whispers and half of you are ready to down us for trying to do something bluddy nice for ya!!!!
I've had a pm from Marya & I fully accept her reasons for the delay in inviting me, & for her & Helen's work in organising the event.
Sex God
yep heeeeeeeeeeeee 2 more days to go
Wow talk about stirring up controversy! I had a feeling it was going to be there anyway hehe!
Looking forward to meeting you all anyway, hope I'm not too much of a letdown Marya :shock:
I've never been to a meet/munch before so I don't exactly know what to expect so I'll go with the flow and hopefully we will have a great time.
Looking forward to meeting you all anyway, hope I'm not too much of a letdown Marya :shock:
I've never been to a meet/munch before so I don't exactly know what to expect so I'll go with the flow and hopefully we will have a great time. 
Sex God
one more day to gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo :2fingers: :inlove: :happy:
