This is a swingers site....and we are near Brighton ..... Now known as "London by the Sea"
Someone must want to have sex?
People don't tend to read posts on the forum much (as we have found)... No one really responds to ads, either. Better to go into a chatroom and ply your trade there (whisper to promising people if you don't want everyone to know).
Or just send a message to someone you like the look of.
I think it's because there's a huge amount of mistrust on the site (and, to be fair, elsewhere) because of the enormous number of fakes.
BTW, FAKES, DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH MORE PLEASANT LIFE WOULD BE WITHOUT YOU ***HOLES?
Sorry. Good luck with the search x
By God! Don't we know it. Arranged a definate meeting with 2 guys from the chatroom last week .....even to the point of speaking on the phone. Neither of them had more than 2 miles to travel.........Guess what? Neither of them showed!
Even the chatrooms on here don't work much. Some users bang on about how reliable this site is, but they tend to meet the same people over and over, to us that's not swinging, but hey! Each to their own....
I'd be interested but I'm not single...
Why don't you try Bristol Gardens Spa in Brighton - usually plenty of people there to have fun with?
By single male, we mean as not a couple! Have been to Bristol Gardens several times, women who are willing to play tend to get swamped! I love group attention, but not when they are standing on each others shoulders to get at me!
Could lead to some interesting positions! Know what you mean though - definitely more women needed there but it is a good place to meet when no one can accommodate and there are private rooms...
Umm....but as a woman, it's my choice.....why the hell should I "make do" in order to give some guy a free shag?
The trouble with half the blokes on these so called swinging sites, is that they are married (which doesn't bother me) and all the want is for a woman to go to their location so that they can slide away for a couple of minutes, have a quick illicit shag, then scuttle back home before they get found out.
Well, there you go! Have made countless appointments on here that the men don't bother to keep.
BTW why does your username come up as Darth when your pic shows you in a Judge Dread helmet?
I'm not surprised with that attitude - happy frigging Saturday night
Yukio.....
Attitude?.....I've been messed around and let down, time and time again on this and other sites by guys who sit on a PC and pretend they're superstuds.....I've been to Bristol Gardens and been swamped by men climbing over one another to get at me and the one other lady that was playing that day!
Why have I got an attitude.....I think it's about time something went the way I wanted it....If that is a problem for you, dont follow the thread!
Sorry, just thought one of your replies above seemed a bit angry when I was genuinely trying to be helpful - perhaps you misconstrued my message - anyway, good luck finding someone genuine on here to play with as it clearly isn't going to be me!
i live in brighton on 15th is my birthday
You know....this is really interesting........this post and the accompanying ads have generated over 50 solid replies from, obviously, 50 different men.
Of those 50, every one of them has made definite arrangements over the last week....except that come today (Friday) 48 have cried off at the last minute due to other commitments, unexpected emergencies etc. etc. ALL of those 48 however would be pleased to meet up another time on a one to one basis of course!!!!! And at a time and location to suit them but somewhere about the end of Sept, start of Oct!
Now if you were me, don't you think that you would become convinced that nearly all the men on this site log in through boredom and get a cheap thrill out of being invited for a meeting. As far as swinging goes, you would start to reckon that they are all fakes!
Now, as a note to the moderators, I'm not ranting, nor am I naming names. I'm simply pointing out some hard and fast facts regarding my posting, followed by my opinions regarding the general state of this site.
Have read and understood all the arguments regarding naming and shaming, feedback and other methods of rating members on this site, but do think it is high time someone devised some system of weeding out the complete wasters that now seem to dominate (and that is an opinion shared by many others on here) this site.
Having been through almost exactly the same scenario!
Difference here is that through choice, we do not play with individuals who are part of a couple, married individuals, or any party with 'other halves' that don't swing.
It has to be said that in our opinion, the majority of 'single' males quite simply aren't.
We tend to speak with other couples, a lot of whom have helped us out and we name and shame privately, so that others don't get caught out with the same time wasting morons.
Not wanting to teach egg sucking, but we find those without profile pics are the main culprits!!!
In this instance, quite a few had pics.....not all granted.
Trouble is, I'm quite a "greedy girl" type while hubby loves to watch, so we DO go for meetings with men rather than couples. We don't object to them being married as long as they play as a single, presumably with permission from their other half. We think that a lot of these attached guys spend hours on this site, wanking over the fact that they can actually "pull" without realising, that to us, they are just a walking talking vibrator, so there is not much "skill" involved in getting an invite. Then when the wife comes home from Tesco, or Bingo, or wherever they've been, the guy signs off the site till the next day!
Sad really....
i love you attatude shame your so far away guys we could av so much fun
but happy hunting hope you get what your looking for
and you stick to ur guns ur date ur rules hunny
xxx
I can validate(not that this is necessary)what Dippergt750 says. I was amazed everybody else failed to show ..
Oh! Thats nothing......Organised a gang bang in an hotel last year....on this site.....Ready for some silly figures?
Over 3000 views of the Ad
Over 600 replies to the Ad of which....
Just over 150 men made "conrete" appointments...
On the night....FOUR showed up and one of them bottled out and ran away before anything happened.
And people wonder why we're cynical!!!???
You will be very welcome Magik.
Well....It's Saturday afternoon and we have finished up with 8 definite attendees.....except that 4 have cried off within the last 45 minutes, and the others "may have problems" getting there....leaving us with NONE!
That's after 2815 views of our two adverts and a further 708 views of our posting making 3523 in all! Countless emails back and forth and huge numbers of men "gagging" for an invite.
Please please please, don't message us saying that not everyone on here is a timewaster, because the evidence shows otherwise!
When are the owners of this site going to stop playing about with website design and sort out the membership!
Sorry to hear that, especially after all this discussion.
Personally, I never ask for an invite to something like this or say I'll be there unless I'm certain I can get to wherever it is, first. This evening for instance, I have a family do to go to which rules me out. It should be that simple.
Unfortunately, not sure what the site can do about the time wasters and armchair swingers.
And all I wanted was some group sex, so I asked on a swingers site.....what a waste of time!
