Ok, if he really is 16 years old, it is legal in this country after all, but should we be letting this chap be posting.
As a moderator i did get his ad removed but not before seeking advice first, i would like to hear your comments.
If you are genuine young man and not some sad 35yr old sat at his pc getting a kick out of this.
Now the other question is, if he wanted to post some pix with his ad would we let him, legally he is entitled to have sex, morally is it right.
I know they grow up fast but at 16 i was never this forward.
Mark and Linda.
I have to say I've got to agree with Sandie on this one.......16 yr olds should be able to get their fun but not this way.....
Mark, i've just read the posting and I would say that this is an adult group and you generally have to be 18 and over to watch porn or visit adult sites. I as a moderator would delete the posting immediately but I wouldn't dream of stepping on your toes darling.
enchantress
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short and sweet but....
I think the others are right although as you say 16 is legal for sex, 18 is the legal age for porn and/or adult sites.
I think the majority has spoken!!
Hi all
Thanks for the support to my point re age 16.
A few other pointers for you.
18 to go to a pub
18 to see an adult film
18/21 to enter a nightclub
18 to enter adult websites
17/18 to drive a car
18 to vote
I rest my case.
Mark and Linda I would kindly suggest that if you get future postings like this they are removed immediately.
This could be setting a dangerous precedent.
Take care and love to you all.
Sandie
Yep.. I have to agree too after reading the posts - I didn't realise about the 18 thingy!! But I would bar him cos he can't spell nookie properly but that's the teacher in me (no rude pun intended you lot!).
Jags
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you forgot this one sandie
I wish I was 18 again!!
were not worthy "moderator" but I still think the "team" do a great job on the site.
re the pics: still waiting for the updates!!!
Mark, I would react the same if the posting was by a girlie. As I tell my 14yr old son, you have plenty of time to explore this big bad world, don't try and do it all in one day.
Anyway, instead of deleting the offending posting i've edited it....lol
Take care darlings and remember.....Be good, be bad, be you! XXX
just to get my threppence in, personally i think 16 is too young whether it be a boy or girl, i suppose thats the point really they are just boys and girls and that is freeky to me.
on the other hand if any of you luvly ladies want to dress uop as 6th formers and amuse me for an hour or two,,,,,,,, :-)
Mark, sad as this may sound from one as free thinking and as liberated as myself, no 16 year old (boy or girl...and I have chosen my description of the two sexes very carefully, here!) can be in my humble opinion considered experienced or emotionally mature enough to handle the potential consequences of contributing to such an (excellent!) adult site as Swinging Heaven. I know that was a mouthful (oooer!), and the teacher in Jags may want to correct my grammer, but I feel strongly that a site such as this should not have its adult nature 'corrupted' by minors- if indeed the person in question is a minor!
Anyway, I'll get off my hobby horse now and try and find a good swingers club to go to this weekend!
See Ya,
Allgood
Am only a teacher during the hours of m. and m.... the rest of the hours are for learning!!!
Jags
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I think you KNOW the answer to that one Steve!!! Or do you need a revision class already??? :shock:
Jags
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Just a quick note, the subject of 16 year olds has come up in the chatroom also, with a user proclaiming herself to be a 16 year old girl. Im pleased (and a little proud) to say that the response was almost universal in asking her very politely but forcefully to leave the room.
If my memory serves me Enchantress was in the room at the time and along with myself was the first voice of discontent.
I feel that not only is it a matter of law reference access to adult sites, pornography etc. but is the tip of a much bigger iceberg. I for one do not want to be part of a site that becomes known as a place to pick up children, and much as they would like to dispute the fact that is what a 16 year old (regardless of sex) is.
Just wanted to let the ladies know they dont have complete control over the moral high ground ( i have a map and will be attempting to find it when i find the time in a busy schedule of being totally amoral!).
This is a great site and the integrety of the members and a willingness to self police are necessary to keep it that way, so good response guys.
Rob
Nicely put my friend, nicely put.
Mark and Linda
Oh yes.. that certainly does mean detention... lol!
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