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16yr old Males should go to adolescent sites only.
Ok, if he really is 16 years old, it is legal in this country after all, but should we be letting this chap be posting.
As a moderator i did get his ad removed but not before seeking advice first, i would like to hear your comments.
If you are genuine young man and not some sad 35yr old sat at his pc getting a kick out of this.
Now the other question is, if he wanted to post some pix with his ad would we let him, legally he is entitled to have sex, morally is it right.
I know they grow up fast but at 16 i was never this forward.
Mark and Linda.
As a moderator i did get his ad removed but not before seeking advice first, i would like to hear your comments.
If you are genuine young man and not some sad 35yr old sat at his pc getting a kick out of this.
Now the other question is, if he wanted to post some pix with his ad would we let him, legally he is entitled to have sex, morally is it right.
I know they grow up fast but at 16 i was never this forward.
Mark and Linda.
I have my doubts about this one too -if a sexy 16 year old with a big cock can't get laid in Manchester then something is very wrong with the state of Manchester! Whilst it might not ring true if this chap really is 16 (can it not be checked out somehow) he claims to be above the age of sexual consent so the site has no moral ground to cling to - where do you draw the line... 17? 18? what???
I think he's in the wrong place but also think he might not get any response - lots of blokes much older, much wiser and much more experienced than him are struggling! My days of helping out virgins are long gone - my needs are more sophisticated now and I am getting more demanding about what I want!!
An old, wise and experienced Jags x xxx
I think he's in the wrong place but also think he might not get any response - lots of blokes much older, much wiser and much more experienced than him are struggling! My days of helping out virgins are long gone - my needs are more sophisticated now and I am getting more demanding about what I want!!
An old, wise and experienced Jags x xxx
HI Mark and Linda 
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I think this chap is a fraud.
As he has replied to an ad re I want a cocksucker.
It does not concur with a 16 year old.
2 Messages down from the original on the list.
As 18 is the age to enter adult websites I suggest you remove this posting.
I am not being prudish but make the minimum age 18.
If we allow 16 we will get 15 and 14 and then we have a totally different concept.
Thanks
Sandie
: :?: I think this chap is a fraud.
As he has replied to an ad re I want a cocksucker.
It does not concur with a 16 year old.
2 Messages down from the original on the list.
As 18 is the age to enter adult websites I suggest you remove this posting.
I am not being prudish but make the minimum age 18.
If we allow 16 we will get 15 and 14 and then we have a totally different concept.
Thanks
Sandie
I have to say I've got to agree with Sandie on this one.......16 yr olds should be able to get their fun but not this way.....
Hi all
Thanks for the support to my point re age 16.
A few other pointers for you.
18 to go to a pub
18 to see an adult film
18/21 to enter a nightclub
18 to enter adult websites
17/18 to drive a car
18 to vote
I rest my case.
Mark and Linda I would kindly suggest that if you get future postings like this they are removed immediately.
This could be setting a dangerous precedent.
Take care and love to you all.
Sandie
Thanks for the support to my point re age 16.
A few other pointers for you.
18 to go to a pub
18 to see an adult film
18/21 to enter a nightclub
18 to enter adult websites
17/18 to drive a car
18 to vote
I rest my case.
Mark and Linda I would kindly suggest that if you get future postings like this they are removed immediately.
This could be setting a dangerous precedent.
Take care and love to you all.
Sandie
You have all responded in the very way that the sort of people we want for this site should do, give yourselves a pat on the back.
"Kat, :twisted: , (meant with feeling), Enchantress,
, and to all of you that i dont know so well.
You all said things that i had not even thought of, thanks, Enchantress darling, please tread on my toes and get rid off this guy for me, you know the score.
Sandie, Jags, and Quicky, well done, hope we get to chat sometime.
Now, one last little thing to ponder over, lets all think about it before we jump in.
Had it been a "16yr old girl" asking the same thing, would we all be singing off the same hymme sheet.
I would, "i think, yes i would", just a thought, did more "gals" than "guys" respond to this post,
.
Mark and Linda
"Kat, :twisted: , (meant with feeling), Enchantress,
, and to all of you that i dont know so well.You all said things that i had not even thought of, thanks, Enchantress darling, please tread on my toes and get rid off this guy for me, you know the score.
Sandie, Jags, and Quicky, well done, hope we get to chat sometime.
Now, one last little thing to ponder over, lets all think about it before we jump in.
Had it been a "16yr old girl" asking the same thing, would we all be singing off the same hymme sheet.
I would, "i think, yes i would", just a thought, did more "gals" than "guys" respond to this post,
.Mark and Linda
as a single male my answer would have still been "no". I'm sure that some may disagree but the reason I use this site is not just for the meets but also to have and to read topics such as this one. I'm not unatractive but I'm sure if I wanted to go into town and shag some 16yr old I could. This site is about talking, meeting and building up (dare I say) a relationship with others in essence a community. I think sometimes even at eighteen the maturity isn't there to do those things and many 18's would sooner go out get pissed and shag, which is fine.
Anyway 18 is the limit so whatever u are man woman dog(ger) or beast so 18 it should be
:!:: :!: 
ouch fell of mi soapbox!
K
P.S think your doing a great job M&L
xx
but I'm sure if I wanted to go into town and shag some 16yr old I could. This site is about talking, meeting and building up (dare I say) a relationship with others in essence a community. I think sometimes even at eighteen the maturity isn't there to do those things and many 18's would sooner go out get pissed and shag, which is fine. Anyway 18 is the limit so whatever u are man woman dog(ger) or beast so 18 it should be
:!:
: :!: ouch fell of mi soapbox!
K
P.S think your doing a great job M&L
xx
Hi mate, well said, don't know if you know this or not, but we are not the people that run this great site.
In fact, i got talking to "the Mark" because they thought i was the type of guy they wanted to keep away from this site, (not his fault by the way) "stupid AOL, in a Homer kinda voice", lol.(but it worked out well in the end).
You are not the first to make this mistake mate, that is unless you meant keep up the good work has a moderator, then thankyou.
Mark and Linda, ps, Quicky, have you seen our pix,
In fact, i got talking to "the Mark" because they thought i was the type of guy they wanted to keep away from this site, (not his fault by the way) "stupid AOL, in a Homer kinda voice", lol.(but it worked out well in the end).
You are not the first to make this mistake mate, that is unless you meant keep up the good work has a moderator, then thankyou.
Mark and Linda, ps, Quicky, have you seen our pix,
Mark, I would react the same if the posting was by a girlie. As I tell my 14yr old son, you have plenty of time to explore this big bad world, don't try and do it all in one day.
Anyway, instead of deleting the offending posting i've edited it....lol
Take care darlings and remember.....Be good, be bad, be you! XXX
Anyway, instead of deleting the offending posting i've edited it....lol
Take care darlings and remember.....Be good, be bad, be you! XXX
Orgasminator
just to get my threppence in, personally i think 16 is too young whether it be a boy or girl, i suppose thats the point really they are just boys and girls and that is freeky to me.
on the other hand if any of you luvly ladies want to dress uop as 6th formers and amuse me for an hour or two,,,,,,,, :-)
on the other hand if any of you luvly ladies want to dress uop as 6th formers and amuse me for an hour or two,,,,,,,, :-)
Mark, sad as this may sound from one as free thinking and as liberated as myself, no 16 year old (boy or girl...and I have chosen my description of the two sexes very carefully, here!) can be in my humble opinion considered experienced or emotionally mature enough to handle the potential consequences of contributing to such an (excellent!) adult site as Swinging Heaven. I know that was a mouthful (oooer!), and the teacher in Jags may want to correct my grammer, but I feel strongly that a site such as this should not have its adult nature 'corrupted' by minors- if indeed the person in question is a minor!
Anyway, I'll get off my hobby horse now and try and find a good swingers club to go to this weekend!
See Ya,
Allgood
Anyway, I'll get off my hobby horse now and try and find a good swingers club to go to this weekend!
See Ya,
Allgood
Just a quick note, the subject of 16 year olds has come up in the chatroom also, with a user proclaiming herself to be a 16 year old girl. Im pleased (and a little proud) to say that the response was almost universal in asking her very politely but forcefully to leave the room.
If my memory serves me Enchantress was in the room at the time and along with myself was the first voice of discontent.
I feel that not only is it a matter of law reference access to adult sites, pornography etc. but is the tip of a much bigger iceberg. I for one do not want to be part of a site that becomes known as a place to pick up children, and much as they would like to dispute the fact that is what a 16 year old (regardless of sex) is.
Just wanted to let the ladies know they dont have complete control over the moral high ground ( i have a map and will be attempting to find it when i find the time in a busy schedule of being totally amoral!).
This is a great site and the integrety of the members and a willingness to self police are necessary to keep it that way, so good response guys.
Rob
If my memory serves me Enchantress was in the room at the time and along with myself was the first voice of discontent.
I feel that not only is it a matter of law reference access to adult sites, pornography etc. but is the tip of a much bigger iceberg. I for one do not want to be part of a site that becomes known as a place to pick up children, and much as they would like to dispute the fact that is what a 16 year old (regardless of sex) is.
Just wanted to let the ladies know they dont have complete control over the moral high ground ( i have a map and will be attempting to find it when i find the time in a busy schedule of being totally amoral!).
This is a great site and the integrety of the members and a willingness to self police are necessary to keep it that way, so good response guys.
Rob
Nicely put my friend, nicely put.
Mark and Linda
Mark and Linda
