I am asking the question is there anyone out there for me? for some fun tonight (16/10/05)
either single lady or a lady who is part of a couple that would be interested in....
ME: a 25 year old male : intelligent slim, attractive, well toned, with a medditeranean complextion and nice sized c*ck 7.5" (no really!) lol
I cannot accomodate so am open to invites/ suggestions perhaps a hotel (I will pay)
I will be shocked and amazed if there is a lady between 20-45 out there that is interested!
If there is one then she could be shocked and amazed by me tonight!
I have met up with a few ladies so far that have all been very very glad they made the decision of "fuck it i'll give him a try" ;)
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a nice shag if I shay sho myshelf: tonight in hants/surrey?
Sex God
Well it looks like you are not going to be shocked and amazed then (I wonder why)
edited to add the vital missing not word (wonder how I missed that)
edited to add the vital missing not word (wonder how I missed that)
i apologise
I was advised by somebody on here to post more
I was testing the water here....as I suspected it hasnt created a great deal of interest...people either too shy or simply no interested people within this area of the country
I always like to keep my options open as Im sure do many people who use this site
x
I was advised by somebody on here to post more
I was testing the water here....as I suspected it hasnt created a great deal of interest...people either too shy or simply no interested people within this area of the country
I always like to keep my options open as Im sure do many people who use this site
x
If you chat to someone and arrange to meet its usual to turn up or let them know something has turned up and you can now not make it, not to place a add looking for someone else without telling your proir meet your not longer interested
I doubt this thread will have done you any favours as surely no other women will want to arrange a meet with you after reading this :shock:
P.S no i doubt many people like to keep their option open by trying to arrange more than 1 meet at the same time, what was you doing keeping this lady on the side line just incase you didn't get a 'better offer'? very rude and deffo not the done thing
I doubt this thread will have done you any favours as surely no other women will want to arrange a meet with you after reading this :shock:
P.S no i doubt many people like to keep their option open by trying to arrange more than 1 meet at the same time, what was you doing keeping this lady on the side line just incase you didn't get a 'better offer'? very rude and deffo not the done thing
Sex God
Quote by therapiei
I always like to keep my options open as Im sure do many people who use this site
x
You make it sound as if you were trying to arrange a meet with someone . . . anyone . . . but if that didn't materialise then no doubt you'd have trotted off to meet with blondie's group rather that stay home on your own :undecided:
Nice going
Tracy-Jayne
Quote by naughtynymphos1
what was you doing keeping this lady on the side line just incase you didn't get a 'better offer'? very rude and deffo not the done thing
Edit - NN beat me to it
Thats fair enough but we tend not to give out the place where we go as where we use to meet idiots use to ruin it for everyone .We only give out the directions and place where we will be to the ones we do think that are genuine hey dont worry its your lost bye jane and alyson and gang
I think you're all being a bit harsh
its now the lane meet wasnt until I was only going to respond to the post for another half an hour. If I had a positive response I would have made a decision snd told the relevant parties eg. told them what I was actually going to do. Its not that I'm not genuine and I'm grateful for you giving me directions and I was intendning to meet you - as said this PM was to test the water really and see if any females locally would actually be interested
I guess theres certain underwritten rules that I just wasnt aware of or didnt consider
and I can see it from your perspective and I am sorry for any inconvenience disappointment this has caused.
I hope you all forgive me
its now the lane meet wasnt until I was only going to respond to the post for another half an hour. If I had a positive response I would have made a decision snd told the relevant parties eg. told them what I was actually going to do. Its not that I'm not genuine and I'm grateful for you giving me directions and I was intendning to meet you - as said this PM was to test the water really and see if any females locally would actually be interested
I guess theres certain underwritten rules that I just wasnt aware of or didnt consider
and I can see it from your perspective and I am sorry for any inconvenience disappointment this has caused.
I hope you all forgive me
Well i suppose we all do things different but if i was this women i would be very piss off with you now, pissed off at being kept on the back boiler just incase another meet did't happen, also pissed off that i have given you direction when you hadn't even decided if you was coming :shock: they will prob now have to find another spot for the meet as i doubt you still have a invite and they wont want to meet in a place where others outside the meet know where they are.....you say your not a time waster.....well you have wasted their time
Honey you should have just posted here first then if you only really wanted someone in your area.......your very lucky to be invited to janes meet honey she is very fussy i know as ive been out with her and her other half...in this sort of time you should think yourself that as a single man you got a response from jane or any women as there are so many men like you looking for fun....
Well lesson learnt im sure honey just relax and be respectful to others as willing couple/s are very hard to come by ,that would just give you meeting details...they must have throught ery hard and then you let them down abit by doing this post....
Good luck from now on....
Well lesson learnt im sure honey just relax and be respectful to others as willing couple/s are very hard to come by ,that would just give you meeting details...they must have throught ery hard and then you let them down abit by doing this post....
Good luck from now on....
Quote by da69ve
thank you all for your comments
I will take them onboard - it is a lesson learnt and I hope that this won't put people off wanting to meet up with me in the future
xx
I think it will put people off!
ok then I'll give it a try - after last nights disaster (completely self inflicted) there surely must be someone out there who is interested....
Any ladies, or ladies part of a couple free any night this week and interested in some fun in the Hants/Surrey/Berks area (please read the first post for more details)
As said before cannot accomodate so would be me travelling to you/ meeting somewhere/ hotel.
It would definitely be worth your while!
xx
Sex God
Quote by therapiei
As said before cannot accomodate so would be me travelling to you/ meeting somewhere/ hotel.
Does that mean willing to travel to a meet . . . unless a better offer comes along?
:confused2: You may well have learnt your lesson the hard way, but since people have so much choice when it comes to single men, I doubt very much if you'd be their first option :dry:
T-J
Quote by RedHot
As said before cannot accomodate so would be me travelling to you/ meeting somewhere/ hotel.
Does that mean willing to travel to a meet . . . unless a better offer comes along?
T-J
I can understand how you might think that but I'm sorry you're wrongl - I wouldnt do that - I don't treat people like that and I wouldnt stitch anyone up
I'm sorry for what I did - I apologise - I f*cked up! But I still remain that I was going to make a decision a few hours before the meet was due to take place
Can people on here not accept an apology??
I know all too well what its like for single guys on here - how hard it is which is why I am trying in vein to dampen that statistic by finding people who are actually interested in meeting up with me!
I will not let anyone down - in more ways than one ;)
xx
Sex God
Quote by therapiei
I know all too well what its like for single guys on here - how hard it is which is why I am trying in vein to dampen that statistic by finding people who are actually interested in meeting up with me!
I will not let anyone down - in more ways than one ;)
xx
Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr........................... sorry, but the way I read this thread, someone did arrange to meet you, and you let them down......... sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo............ your above comment is a bit naff, don't you think?
Sex God
Quote by therapiei
no i havent let anyone one down and if you read all the posts you'll realise that
:shock:
Oh, sorry, so I must have mis-read this post then and the number of posts that came after it..... silly me......... :doh:
Quote by blondie37141
well what a waste of time that was arranging for you to come to the group meet tonight
for dogging fun giving you directions and time and place where we all will be then you go and post this thanks for wasting my time
very annoyed
Sooooo........... if you didn't let this person down, what are you apologising for?
Sex God
Quote by Him'nHer
Well it looks like you are not going to be shocked and amazed then (I wonder why)
Well based on the previous posts........... well you ended up being shocked and amazed ... not for the reason you wanted though
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
no i havent let anyone one down and if you read all the posts you'll realise that
:shock:
Oh, sorry, so I must have mis-read this post then and the number of posts that came after it..... silly me......... :doh:
Quote by blondie37141
well what a waste of time that was arranging for you to come to the group meet tonight
for dogging fun giving you directions and time and place where we all will be then you go and post this thanks for wasting my time
very annoyed
Sooooo........... if you didn't let this person down, what are you apologising for?
exactly what i was thinking
lets face facts.... you "dropped the ball" because you were trying to be greedy.... now that you have been found out if any person even considers meeting you if they do there research you will now have to wear this like a bell round your neck....
there are a lot of people who would have loved to have been in the position you were in.. and you have violated someones trust...... and that trust wasn't given, it was earnt!!!
so if i were you don't expect any meets soon........exactly as sharon said, if it comes down to a choice of 2 and one had this around them.....who would you pick.
you are going to have to work at earning a lot of peoples respect and trust again.....and it won't happen overnight
sean
Sex God
I am going to confess to being a little bit confused by the fuss on this thread - the original meet therapiei had been invited to was a dogging one I think.
As far as I can tell it was a group meet already arranged and he was just going to be one of a number of guys watching/wanking?
I fail to see how his turning up or not really causes any problems for the couple showing.
It also to my mind smacks of naming and shaming - he hadn't posted in the dogging forum so whatever was arranged was private until it was posted about on here!
Roger the Dragon
Apologies if I have the wrong end of the stick as I am not really the dogging type.
As far as I can tell it was a group meet already arranged and he was just going to be one of a number of guys watching/wanking?
I fail to see how his turning up or not really causes any problems for the couple showing.
It also to my mind smacks of naming and shaming - he hadn't posted in the dogging forum so whatever was arranged was private until it was posted about on here!
Roger the Dragon
Apologies if I have the wrong end of the stick as I am not really the dogging type.
thanks for the support rogerthedragon...
But I feel im fighting a losing battle here, the more I try to defend my actions the bigger the hole i dig
I apologised for it and people have made some very valid and fair comments - thankyou
People are very quick to tar you with a brush on here - I guess if someone is deciding between me and another guy they have only got this thread to go on
If they choose me it will be on trust as it will be if they choose the other guy who they don't know
Thanks everyone though - it is evident I have my work cut out for the forseeable future! I enjoy a challenge though
But I feel im fighting a losing battle here, the more I try to defend my actions the bigger the hole i dig
I apologised for it and people have made some very valid and fair comments - thankyou
People are very quick to tar you with a brush on here - I guess if someone is deciding between me and another guy they have only got this thread to go on
If they choose me it will be on trust as it will be if they choose the other guy who they don't know
Thanks everyone though - it is evident I have my work cut out for the forseeable future! I enjoy a challenge though
Quote by therapiei
no i havent let anyone one down and if you read all the posts you'll realise that
I think you are telling fibs we arranged for you to come to a group meet that evening and then you went and posted another for the same night all i can say is you are a waste of time.
By the way we had a great time
