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Hi,
I am planning to try abfab next monday/18th July. Anyone around wanna give me company ? I am new to this scene and bi curious. Willing to try anything and see how it all goes.
Friends .. gimme a shout and believe me .. i can only go if someone accompanies me else will be very difficult..
It's Monday again !! - anyone else going to join us tonight ?
Why not pop along for a swim, hot tub or just chill out ?
Who knows, might even get a bit of fun :-)
KnS
I'm staying near Heathrow on Wednesday and was thinking of going to Abfabs. I haven't been to a club before and am only really interested in voyeurism. Is this accepted here? I don't want to be seen as a nuisance.
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I'm staying near Heathrow on Wednesday and was thinking of going to Abfabs. I haven't been to a club before and am only really interested in voyeurism. Is this accepted here? I don't want to be seen as a nuisance.

I would imagine like any club situation, that if you smile, be respectfull and keep your distance every thing should be fine - even better if you can socialise and chat with people too.
From a couples point of view it can be a little off putting to be followed around by a trail of single guys, we know its not easy but be patient - if couples are comfortable you might get a good show, even asked to join in - but if they feel crowded then they are likely to push off to a private room, seen that happen loads of times.
Go along with no expectations then anything more is a bonus wink
KnS
Thanks for the reply. Having been to Rio's a few times I'm horrified by the bahaviourof some of the single guys and never want to be tarred with that brush, so I'll take your advice and be respectful to all.
i went to abfab this monday and it was real fun. .. dont know whether i sae you both or not but i am sure there's always a next time. I had a fun with a couple.. i did follow them once but it happened that i crossed them 3-4 times and the lady always smiled and we said hi 3-4 times and then she asked me if i was not playing and so i asked her if I could play with her. SHe invited me to the pool and there i had fun with the couple.. I was running out of time so could not take it much.. i squirted .. and had to rush back home. but i'd definitely like to meet that couple again and have fun with them in private.. it'll be great..
It definitely helps if you know someone before.. I am trying to be friends here and then go to the party so that its easy out there...
It's nearly Monday again .... who's going to Abfabs?
Dungeon is now open on a Monday night .... some nice quiet corners for some bi fun lol
KnS
I will try to come today .. looking for straight and bi fun .. anyone going there pls say hello.. it will help me ease my nerves
I went on Wednesday and had a great time, some lovely couples playing and happy to let me watch, I did consider joining in, perhaps next time.
Just finish off some stuff at home and hope to be there about 7:30 - 8:00 >>> Stable block open sounds interesting!!
Ad Fabs is a very good club.
Atmosphere wise they layout does quite work as well as it should,
but facilities wise, easily the best in London.
Will be this Monday 3rd October 2011
I would consider myself bi rather than curious having played over the years - and I also like a little dungeon bdsm type play
Sounds like it might be ideal for me!
Would you suggest I just sort of hang around the dungeon area - making myself available somehow?
Hope someone is understanding and can give me a reply
S
I may go during day on 3rd Oct bi and may have bi lady friend with me.
I should be coming late in the afteroon...possibly staying long...
Never had the opportunity to go to abfabs but was thinking of going tomorrow, how busy is it on a Monday please ? or would I be better of attending on Wednesday ?
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Never had the opportunity to go to abfabs but was thinking of going tomorrow, how busy is it on a Monday please ? or would I be better of attending on Wednesday ?

Attendance has been variable on a Monday, some times quite good but from what we've heard possibly not as busy as Wednesdays ..... just depends on what you're looking for, Mondays are specifically a Bi-night though wink
We'll try and get there tonight.
KnS
Bump de Bump ... anybody going today 10/10/11
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Bump de Bump ... anybody going today 10/10/11

Yep we'll be there .... again !
KnS
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Bump de Bump ... anybody going today 10/10/11

Yep we'll be there .... again !
KnS
smile Hopefully see you there - also hope the wind drops a bit if not need to find somewhere warmer.