Hi everyone,
I am a youngish single guy and have never been to a club. The more I have got into this site the more I think I want to try it out. I live in greater Manchester, where would people recommend? Also have anyone got any tips for me, I know some people aren’t that pleased about single blokes going. What normally happens in a club and what should a single guy do?
Thanks for any help / advice
Dav xx
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Hi Dav, the good thing for you is that you have quite a lot of choice of clubs to go to living within the North West.
We are not club regulars but have been to Partners and Adam and Eves,both of which make single guys welcome. Partners does have specific nights for couples only, but Adam & Eves are open to all on every night (I think). It may be worth checking out the clubs section on the left of the page and having a look at the reviews which have been left by other single males and see how they felt.
We went to Partners last night, which was Party Night and we did notice the owners showing round some people who had never been before, and that included two single males. Most clubs will do that if you explain that it is your first visit and they will answer any questions you have.
I can only speak for the two clubs I have been to, and both of these have always been very friendly and not shown any discrimination to anyone who attends, but I have to say, that it really depends on who is attending on the night you go. I am sure others will be along shortly to give you an idea of their experiences but clubs are a very personal thing and what I like is not necessarily what someone else would like.
Also, keep your eyes open in this part of the forums as there are often parties and meets arranged at clubs, which may be an easier way for your first visit as at least you will be going to meet others and not on your own.
Whatever you decide, I hope you have a great night
We are not club regulars but have been to Partners and Adam and Eves,both of which make single guys welcome. Partners does have specific nights for couples only, but Adam & Eves are open to all on every night (I think). It may be worth checking out the clubs section on the left of the page and having a look at the reviews which have been left by other single males and see how they felt.
We went to Partners last night, which was Party Night and we did notice the owners showing round some people who had never been before, and that included two single males. Most clubs will do that if you explain that it is your first visit and they will answer any questions you have.
I can only speak for the two clubs I have been to, and both of these have always been very friendly and not shown any discrimination to anyone who attends, but I have to say, that it really depends on who is attending on the night you go. I am sure others will be along shortly to give you an idea of their experiences but clubs are a very personal thing and what I like is not necessarily what someone else would like.
Also, keep your eyes open in this part of the forums as there are often parties and meets arranged at clubs, which may be an easier way for your first visit as at least you will be going to meet others and not on your own.
Whatever you decide, I hope you have a great night
I kind of agree with NWC above over the clubs. I attend clubs as a single male and have had a mix of good and bad nights out. All clubs are different, the best ones are where at least some couples are happy to interact with single guys, but it really does depend on what crowd turns up. I have been to Cupids, Liaisons and Adma & Eves in the last 12 months, all are different and have different types of nights like Greedy Girls nights, Bi Nights and Couples only nights. They are all busier on a weekend and Friday is a good night for single guys to go out and about.
Further afield I have been to Xtasia in West Brom at there party nights such as the one organised by Bambi last Friday and they are particularly good nights.
Bets of luck whereever you go. remember your manners, don't act like a sheep following a couple about and if a couple starts to play in an area where singles are welcome to join in, give them a little bit of space to get started before being invited or asking to join in, the nyou may find the pleasure lasts a lot lot longer...
Further afield I have been to Xtasia in West Brom at there party nights such as the one organised by Bambi last Friday and they are particularly good nights.
Bets of luck whereever you go. remember your manners, don't act like a sheep following a couple about and if a couple starts to play in an area where singles are welcome to join in, give them a little bit of space to get started before being invited or asking to join in, the nyou may find the pleasure lasts a lot lot longer...
