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right ive had one meet so far and it went very very one week, not bad. but I WANT MORE! have any SUCCESSFULL guys here got some advice or stories to tell.?
id love to meet more of you girls and cpls thats why im here,as well as having fun posting etc , id love to meet you for a drink,a friend made is an enemy lost and so on.
cmon guys spill the do cpls want mainly bi fems etc? (or do they? )is there any hope for us single guys,we wont ADVICE IS GREATFULLY RECEIVED.
remember successfull guys please.
Quote by mark/surrey
why do cpls want manly bi fems......

:shock: :shock: :shock:
Do they???
Steve
After a week, a successful meet is good in anyone's book!
but im a sex crazed addict i want more more more.
nice advice steve rolleyes
My advice would be ....CALM DOWN lol
Oh and not ALL couples are looking for Bi fems dunno
Dawn :silly:
I have already spoken with you a bit on the subject but I'll offer some thoughts here and hopefully give encouragement to some guys.
Personally I never have problems getting guys if I want an MMF or MMMF (grandslam) or even a gang bang. Richard has plenty of hunky friends at the gym willing come come back and lend a "hand" and I am never short of offers from the guys I work with - believe me! Especially once the word got round that I was "attainable".
Similarly Richard has never had problems pulling girls - in fact that was how we met - I knew him from reputation before we first got togeher (and when I found out how good he was I married him!)
Swinging is a great option for promiscuous people who get married -you met up with other couples and swap. I fuck the man, Richard fucks the woman. As I'm bi I'll fuck the woman if she's OK with that - and thankfully often they are!
So we adverise for bi-fems to join us. Which also works well.
At the parties and clubs we usually go to the "Couples Only" nights, On the nights that have "limited single guys" - we still stick to the "Couples" room.
Why do I need a single guy at a party? I get sex from the other husbands.
What do I get from a guy who has no woman for me to play with or Richard to fuck?
Why should Richard just let such a guy fuck me while he just sits there?
The SurreyCouple parties are a couples party - but also single bi fems will be there. This is great for me, and probably for other women that want to play together when their men are straight. A surplus of bi women to play with each other, not straight men looking for pussy.
So the point is - are we against single guys - no - they are necessary and important - it's just a case of when and where.
Do we fuck single guys - yes - all the time. There just isn't a "shortage".
There are some great single guys on here - Mark/Surrey, LoveCommando to name two -that bother to get to know people on here and contribute. If a girl wants an extra guy for an MMF - and wants one from here - THESE are the guys who will get the invites.
Not the idots who do one or two posts saying a girl or couple is "required" for them, or guys you've never seen on the forum sending you PMs.
This seems to be turning into an essay so I'll stop here. It's just one girl's view - hope it sheds some perspective.
Rachel
wink
Ok, you caught me out. It wasn't advice at all.
I just wondered why you thought most couples were after MANLY bi-females?
Steve
Oh I see that now Steve lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Dawn :silly:
i dont know steve, i just think or do i? that most ads ive seen or cpls for bi fems etc.
its a jungle here but im making my way through .... wheres me axe.?
Mark what I missed first time and the point Steve was getting at is you'd spelt it wrong
manly and not mainly lol
Dawn :silly:
apologies all ill edit the dawn ta steve.
Good post Rachel cool .
From my perspective, here's another couple who doesn't just want to meet bi fems! As you can see from my sig, at the mo we are advertising for both couples AND single guys. Sometimes we only advertise for one or the other, but at the mo we have two ads running. We are both bi it seems quite obvious to advertise for single bi guys not straight ones - then when we have a MMF, or MMMMMMMF :shock: - we both can play, and we both can have an opportunity to watch :twisted: . Thus, we don't meet single straight guys as a rule.
However, it's different with couples. We don't mind if the guy is straight at all. I like watching Satin with girls, and he likes watching me with girls, so if there's no bi male activity it doesn't matter cos everyone's happy anyway! Furthermore, we're happy to swap, or whatever and it all be straight sex - the girl doesn't even have to be bi really.
That's just advertising in the photo ads. At clubs, I'm not looking specifically for bi guys unless it's a bi night... so if there's a good bunch of guys there, I'm happy to take on single straight guys. See, I'll do anyone really...... and there doesn't have to be a bi fem in sight, manly or otherwise wink
maybe i,ll have to post 239 replies in 11 days and who knows i might meet some more people !!!!!!!!! biggrin
when you fdont have to work in an office etc like i dont you can spend a lotve time also helps to have a good MINE HA HA.
Quote by chick0074
There are some great single guys on here - Mark/Surrey, LoveCommando to name two -that bother to get to know people on here and contribute. If a girl wants an extra guy for an MMF - and wants one from here - THESE are the guys who will get the invites.
Rachel
wink

And here was me, hoping I'd get my name mentioned here.....................lol
Quote by mark/surrey
when you fdont have to work in an office etc like i dont you can spend a lotve time also helps to have a good MINE HA HA.

Can you get me a job like that??....................lol
And YES.......I AM being serious.............lol