Hi,
really just after a bit of advice. I have tried meeting women and couples through the photos forum but unfortunately there seem to be an awful lot of time wasters who are keen until it comes to meeting up!! Suffice it to say i haven't had much success.
I have also tried getting invites to parties on this forum but again no luck. What is the best way to get to know people? I realise there can be a bit of a stigma being a single male at times but we're not all weirdos!! I'm just a single male, in his late 20's and looking for some fun. I'm based in Surrey so maybe i should attend a munch?
Any tips welcome.
Many Thanks
John
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The moderators try very hard to keep the ads as timewaster-free as possible. Unfortunately there are more of them than there are of us! If you have real evidence that someone is a timewaster, such as prostitutes, scammers, spammers etc, please report the ad using the "report this ad" facility. It is only with the help of every geneuine user that we can keep down the amount of abuse we see in the ads system 
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Can I please point out, YET AGAIN, that being single is not like walking down the road with a bell around your neck shouting 'Unclean!! Unclean!!' There is no stigma to being a single male. How can a couple have a MMF threesome without a single male? how can you have a gang Bang, just with couples? how can the single girls meet a partner if there is another lady in tow?
Stop working the sympathy vote, it's getting incredibly boring. Making five posts does not give anyone the opportunity to get to know you properly and decide whether you are the single guy they have been looking for. Believe me, as a single guy, I have a great deal of fun on here, be it with singles or couples or groups. how do i do it? Easy - I'm just me. Nothing special, just me. Try being yourself and let people get to know your personality and everything else will fall into place, but have patience. It doesn't happen overnight.
Mal
and Little Mal
Stop working the sympathy vote, it's getting incredibly boring. Making five posts does not give anyone the opportunity to get to know you properly and decide whether you are the single guy they have been looking for. Believe me, as a single guy, I have a great deal of fun on here, be it with singles or couples or groups. how do i do it? Easy - I'm just me. Nothing special, just me. Try being yourself and let people get to know your personality and everything else will fall into place, but have patience. It doesn't happen overnight.
Mal
and Little Mal
I've found it harder to get to know the people in the chatroom than on here in the Forum. I think the Forum is a lot more civilised! 
I know how it can perhaps feel a bit awakward being a single chap on here, but you'll be surprised just how friendly people are on here, single male, female or couples...I think you should just get yourself known in the Forum more.
I'm in Surrey too, by the look of it, seeking the same thing as you - so keep me posted and let me know how you get on
-James.
I know how it can perhaps feel a bit awakward being a single chap on here, but you'll be surprised just how friendly people are on here, single male, female or couples...I think you should just get yourself known in the Forum more.I'm in Surrey too, by the look of it, seeking the same thing as you - so keep me posted and let me know how you get on
-James.
