hi all.
i am a 32 yr old good looking married man, but am somewhat unfulfilled in the bedroom department. Therefore i am looking ot meet up with someone for sexy nsa fun. I dont want tol eave my wife, just become sexually active again and enjoy being with a sexy woman, from time to time without any ties.
Am i on the wrong site? if so does anyone have any recommendations of where to go? if not....please help!!
Thank you!
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am i in the wrong place??
Master of Sex
yep, your in the wrong place.... your pleas should be whined in the "let's meet up section"
Bit harsh of you Nichola ans Alan.
Not all of us are as lucky as you and have partners whose sex drive matches ours.
At least this guy, like me, is honest and up front about being married and is not pretending to be single.
Luckily not all the couples on here react like you two or there would be very few MMF threesomes going on.
Try being a bit kinder and you may get the same back.
Not all of us are as lucky as you and have partners whose sex drive matches ours.
At least this guy, like me, is honest and up front about being married and is not pretending to be single.
Luckily not all the couples on here react like you two or there would be very few MMF threesomes going on.
Try being a bit kinder and you may get the same back.
Sex God
Moving to LMU
I think people are being a bit harsh......at least he's being upfront about what he wants and he's saying that yes he is married but he wants to play away and then people who want to play with him can make an informed decision about whether they want to play with a married man whose wife doesn't know.
Good luck to you......
Good luck to you......
Quote by Sexysteph
Ok gonna play devils advocate here
What would your wife's response be if/when she finds out you are cheating on her behind her back?
How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot and she felt unfulfilled in the bedroom and came on a swingers site for nsa shagging without talking to you -The person who is supposed to be closest to her, the person she trusts not to betray her trust etc????
Rest assured you may feel you are being careful but when you are in bed with her making love - will it be her in your mind or the partners you are playing with? To me if you find the extra marital partners more fulfilling than your own partner you will compare and find her lacking thus compounding your betrayal of her trust. If you are more content with the sex variation she is gonna know you are playing away and a feeling of total distrust will pervade your relationship and destroy what you have. Guilt and betrayal are like a poison destroying whatever may still be good.
IS it worth risking a good relationship just for sex??????
SH is about swinging between consenting partners/couples and singles. Many on here abhor cheating and I am afraid that is what you are describing. There are many on here that WILL play with Married guys BUT it is usually with their partners consent
My strongest advice for you is to talk to your wife - express your concerns over the unfulfilling sex and maybe experiment between yourselves. If you wish to get adventuresome later and involve other people then it wouold be a time to consider swinging.
Sorry if this has not helped but I wish you well whatever you decide to do.
Steph
totaly agree with steph talk to your wife she may surprise you
