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Any older women in Essex want a toyboy tonight!
Quote by Sexysteph
Ok am in the mood to play games tonight
so you are Male and from Essex but what else do we know about you?
you are looking for older - older than what?
what sort of female floats your boat
You offer great sex but how do you guage that or did you become vastly experienced at a young age and can teach an older woman some new tricks or are you expecting her to GIVE YOU great sex and teach you
Come on hunni - what do you think Swingingheaven is about? It's not a quick shag site. Try slowing down, introduce yourself properly and show a bit of respect for both you and the ladies. Join in with some of the threads get to know people and let people see you are not a moron who drops his keks at the drop of a hat.
Try reading some of the advice threads which are knocking about and maybe think about using the mentor scheme to get used to us. A bit of thought put into your posts will earn you respect.
Good Luck
Steph
ohhhhhhhhhhhh and welcome to Swingingheaven
that told him :giggle:
Oh poor bloke shot down in flames - I can see where Sexysteph is coming from .... but it's not easy being a newbie.
We join up and think it's going to be sex, sex, sex - and it isn't is it? Just cos a female is on here doesn't mean that she's gagging for it - but then she's obviously got a more liberated view of sex than the average girl on the street (or my wife come to think of it). And us newbies confuse the two.
The other problem is how to talk to people over this, whilst not sounding like a perv or a jerk. Cos what we newbies want to do is sound sexy and interesting but struggle to convey that in a few paragraphs without overdoing the direct approach.
Ho hum - we just have to keep pluggin away...... hoping !!!!!
We join up and think it's going to be sex, sex, sex - and it isn't is it? Just cos a female is on here doesn't mean that she's gagging for it - but then she's obviously got a more liberated view of sex than the average girl on the street (or my wife come to think of it). And us newbies confuse the two.
The other problem is how to talk to people over this, whilst not sounding like a perv or a jerk. Cos what we newbies want to do is sound sexy and interesting but struggle to convey that in a few paragraphs without overdoing the direct approach.
Ho hum - we just have to keep pluggin away...... hoping !!!!!
