are there many genuine people can anyone answer please

6 Sep 2003

excuse me but are there many genuine people on here looking for a genuine fun chap who enjoys playing and seeing people and ladys enjoying them selfs and who is non pushy ?

9 Sep 2003

Hi Lesmond,
The simple answer to your question is YES there are many genuine people out there, I have met with a good number of them, and count several of them as very good friends. The main problem a single male has, is, he's only one in perhaps thousands of other males looking for the same thing. The ladies on this site therefore have a very large number of males to pick from so please don't expect immediate results. sad

Every lady has personal preferences and these may not coincide with the information you provide in either photo or want adds etc. Some of the language used in the adds by certain men will never result a reply.
The great majority of the females who come into this site are ladies who's sexual preferences may differ slightly from other women, but that is no reason to treat them as anything else but ladies. A very few may be turned on by adds calling them Slags, Bitches, Whores etc, but these are very few in number and not the norm.
The ladies I have met through this site appreciate being treated as a lady should be treated, with good manners, politeness and respect. Failure to observe these simple niceties will result mainly in a lack of success. Almost all contacts will want a meeting first to judge your suitability so please dont expect an instant 'bonk'. I almost never happens. Even then you may be turned down. confused

Its something you have to learn to live with.
Dont think I am trying to put you off, its just that so many men expect an instant result. It simply doesn't happen like that. I have been swinging since before they invented the pendulum so I do have some knowledge of what I am talking about.
Persevere, you will get there eventually. biggrin

Regards
Harry0
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9 Sep 2003

Lesmond - I think we have spoken before, but if you check out some of the threads on the Cafe, you will see that there are many genuine people, from whcih many genuine meets are being done.

9 Sep 2003

*yawns* - why do so many blokes (usually ) whine, whinge and complain - I don't find it attractive at all. Life does NOT owe you a sexual encounter, go and make it happen.
And, before you ask, no!!
biggrin

:D
Jags

9 Sep 2003

i am not whinging i was just generally asking and dont expect nothing but i enjoy meeting couples and ladies for fun there wishes always respected and im fun loving

9 Sep 2003

Lesmond, I'm not meaning to be rude, but it sounds by your posts that you are trying to "sell yourself" with everything you say - this might not be your intention and merely my perception of your words, but my point is that if the replies you send to women are of a similar tone you may well be perceived as desperate rather than as you say "fun loving". Sorry if this sounds harsh on a public forum but this subject keeps coming up from single guys, therefore I'm not aiming this reply at just you, but to others who do the same sorts of things also.

9 Sep 2003

Starting a thread with the 'excuse me' is whining and complaining.
I'm off to be fun loving and jolly now... lol

works for me!
Jags

9 Sep 2003

im trotting along very nicely on this here dear going to add fotos very soon. is ent them info and a piccy and got told no.i was even prepared to travel to meet them,oh well. lol

9 Sep 2003

Hi...Might be off topic but how do you add photos. Is it to your profile or is there a photo place I've not found. I've not been a member long so if anyone wants to hold my hand.... wink

10 Sep 2003

Durr.....Thanks Mark..never thought of that. Funny how we miss the obvious. rolleyes

10 Sep 2003

BG - is that you in your avatar? Obviously, it isn't me in mine!

11 Sep 2003

Are you sure it's not you in yours blue? But its soooo cute lol

:lol: :lol:
D'ya think I canpass as mine having seen my pics???? it was the closest I could get!
x x x x x

11 Sep 2003

eli i seen your pics and i think your avatar is very close (pics of you are very cool). wink

11 Sep 2003

Yes Blue...it's all me smile

You mean your not really blue and furry? I'm shocked...Ah well there goes my fantasy lol

11 Sep 2003

Bikerguy - you're into little blue dogs???? hmmmm, have you considered therapy lol

:lol: :lol:

11 Sep 2003

11 Sep 2003

mmmm...you may have something there Blue. Little blue dogs in biking-gear :shock: I could take them for a ride wink

:wink:

11 Sep 2003

ive haerd blue ones arnt as good as purple ones?

11 Sep 2003

that's the biggest laugh I've had all night - little blue dogs in biker gear lol

- well, I suppose it brings a whole new meaning to the term "dogging" - OK, extremely bad gag, but someone was bound to say it if I didn't wink

11 Sep 2003

well, I suppose it brings a whole new meaning to the term "dogging" - OK, extremely bad gag, but someone was bound to say it if I didn't

I doubt it. :P :P (Still Sulking.) lol

(well, trying to)
Biker guy, Kit loves the pic, but wants to know what happens when someone pulls on your helmet? smile

lhk
Kat
x

11 Sep 2003

Kit...It makes me go faster lol

The trouble with that though is it upsets the dogs, makes their fur all frizzy.
Great pics BTW, you look like a fun couple smile

11 Sep 2003

Aaaggggghhhhhh - this little blue dog doesn't want frizzy fur, stop the bike, I want to get off wink

11 Sep 2003

Can't stop yet...I'm nearly there...Pull it harder Kit.....Blue, get your tail out of my mouth...Phew, not sure I can cope with group biking lol

Like your pics too Blue, be nice to see more of you though wink

Would you like a ride? 8)

11 Sep 2003

Great pics BTW, you look like a fun couple

Thanks biker, glad you like them. We have our moments!
Kit

Pull it harder Kit

I'm pulling as hard as I bloody can! you just watch where your going or you'll have us in a ditch!

Blue, get your tail out of my mouth

Spit Spit !

11 Sep 2003

yeah it likes it doggy style (aargh i know) it likes to chew on a bone as well.......... god im going. redface

11 Sep 2003

Biker, you can chew my furry blue tail doggy style over your bike, while the rest of the forum watches, and I won't even report you to the RSPCA wink

11 Sep 2003

make sure the bikes not moving that could end up being a bit ruff ruff ru ff redface

11 Sep 2003

I have logged in and have no idea what you lot are on about - but it sounds like great fun !!
Jags
lol

12 Sep 2003

Well Jags, I'm a little blue dog and Biker, the big bully is trying hard to take advantage of me - HELP!!!!!

12 Sep 2003

Don't think you REALLY need help - but am on stand by just in case!! lol