first post so hi to all.
my wife has been bi curious for quite a while and has now decided she wants to explore this more. our problem is we dont know any other bi fems or how to go about meetng some. we have and add in the women seeking women section 138982 but as yet have had no replies, so any help or advice would be great.
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bi curious fem needs help and advice
we always find ...asking for couples to be more successful, as a large percentage of couples have a bi-fem... maybe thats the way to go?
where in wales???? as I am the bi-fem half of a couple in the north west. If you aren't into any form of swapping, some couples (i know we do) will just let the fems play together while the guys watch, then get it on with your own partners afterwards.
where in wales???? as I am the bi-fem half of a couple in the north west. If you aren't into any form of swapping, some couples (i know we do) will just let the fems play together while the guys watch, then get it on with your own partners afterwards.
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first post so hi to all.
my wife has been bi curious for quite a while and has now decided she wants to explore this more. our problem is we dont know any other bi fems or how to go about meetng some. we have and add in the women seeking women section 138982 but as yet have had no replies, so any help or advice would be great.
Now you say its your wife looking and yes your ad does say that but 2 things I will say if you don't mind ? The first is to me, (being a BiFem myself) is why are you (the male half ) doing this for her? Can she not talk for herself? And secondly , after reading your/her ad it is signed at the bottom with BOTH your names and not just hers ? You will find if like me you go through the ads that you get a lot of so called bifems advertising but (and here's the but ) would like hubby to be present, watch, or maybe join in
Sorry but to me this is just a rouse (spelling) for couples to find bifems for them BOTH to play with and not a bifem at all looking to play on her own. If then she is serious about this i.e looking for herself for a 1 to 1 with another fem then get her to firstly do her own ad and secondly write her own posts. 
maybe his missus isn't too computer literate !?!?! the problem is here that there are so many men pretending to be couples, bi-fems etc... that a lot of members are really pissed off and so treat any suspect postings with contempt, In some cases I think maybe there is a reasonable explanation, like me personally asked my hubby to post for me, until I was confident enough to do it myself. I have noticed of recent some really harsh replies on this forum. Some justified, some definately not..
In reply to that Jo hun He did say on the post he was looking for advise and that was all I was trying to do :PTo give this a fair response, what we do is advertise for single bi-fems to join us - see our ad below - and that gets good response.
We also answer ads for "women looking for couples" in the ads section.
But we also swing, so that means answering ads for couples we like the look of, and going to clubs and parties.
I also use the forum to network, meet people in chat here before meeting them in person.
We have had a few emails from people who I've never seen post here who "answered" some of my posts - saunas and naturism in the West Country for example, and been invited to meet some other couples.
Richard doesn't come here as this is my initiative so up to me to make contact with the other woman in the couple before deciding if it's what we both want, before arranging a meet.
It's not quite as extensive as Blue or Ginger Jo with their level of involvement in the scene, but it's provided us with some good times this summer, since we've moved to a new area.
And that's an honest answer!
Rachel
We also answer ads for "women looking for couples" in the ads section.
But we also swing, so that means answering ads for couples we like the look of, and going to clubs and parties.
I also use the forum to network, meet people in chat here before meeting them in person.
We have had a few emails from people who I've never seen post here who "answered" some of my posts - saunas and naturism in the West Country for example, and been invited to meet some other couples.
Richard doesn't come here as this is my initiative so up to me to make contact with the other woman in the couple before deciding if it's what we both want, before arranging a meet.
It's not quite as extensive as Blue or Ginger Jo with their level of involvement in the scene, but it's provided us with some good times this summer, since we've moved to a new area.
And that's an honest answer!
Rachel
