bi-curious seriuosly.Help!

9 Sep 2003

Listen i am 30 yts old 5.6 with a good body ,i live with my partner but i can't stop thinkin what it would be like to have sex with another man , thing is i have thought about it since i was a teenager but now i have had enough the thoughts wont go away. So i am lookin for help, not just a beast to take the piss, but a bit of guidence, i want to be safe clean and discrete. I can travel to most in lancashire mainly daytime. no hairymonsters please, i will play with a couple because i do like a bit of pussy! PLEASE Help! i am in lancashire. cant accom but can travel.
Yours nervously. confused

10 Sep 2003

Can't help because I've got the wrong set of tackle...
But I just wanted to say good luck, mate. Be careful and take your time. If it were me, I wouldn't jump into a situation where you feel compelled to act out your fantasy.
Wouldn't it be better to seek out a Gay/Bi venue and just go and chat with the guys before arranging a meet for the intent of sexual contact?
Don't forget, you aren't just taking your first steps into the swinging arena, you're taking your first steps into a whole new sexuality.
Best
Hxx

10 Sep 2003

Try
There are plenty of guys like yourself on there, each with a profile. You can contact through an online messaging service or via an email system.
Get chatting to guys first and take it slow, social meets are better than going to just have sex. It is far better to get to know a prospective partner first no matter how short-term your liaison is going to be.

10 Sep 2003

having gone through something similar a few years ago, I can only say that the advice above is excellent - doesn't stop you feeling horny though does it??? If you want to email about it, please do so at
good luck smile

10 Sep 2003

Hiya easyhorn,
Glad to see you took the plunge, good for you.
I don't have any experience to lend you, just the advice of others.
Don't rush in. Get to know people. Think about visiting a club or party. That is the way I am choosing as a second step. (first being coming in here and saying "hello").

doesn't stop you feeling horny though does it???

Be prepared, being in here is likely to make you MORE horny! smile

lhk
Kat

10 Sep 2003

Easyhorn - where are you located? If in the North I can suggest just the place for you! Liaisons, Rochdale run a bi night alternative Tuesday evenings. It's very relaxed and you can just watch if that's as far as you want to go for a first time. Sounds like a reasonable place to start to me!