Hiya everyone!
Quick ad really - we're looking for a bi male to meet up with, but would only be involved with the male in this relationship, with female looking on, possibly videotaping.
PM us if interested!
T & L xxx
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Bi Male Needed NW!
Quick note - what part of "only involved with male" don't some people understand!
So frustrating - please don't contact if you can't read!
T&L xxx
So frustrating - please don't contact if you can't read!
T&L xxx
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Quote by Jags
Quick note - what part of "only involved with male" don't some people understand!
So frustrating - please don't contact if you can't read!
T&L xxx
Do you really mean a gay man, cos if you're not involved in this activity what part is 'bi'??
I would assume that a Gay man wouldn't get off on being watched by a woman whilst playing with her partner or watching the couple play with each other?
Not sure but I assume it is the same basis as couples looking for a bi-fem to only play with the other female.
Roger the Dragon
P.S. - sorry T&L but I am miles away so although the thought is tempting I am not a lot of use to you.
Nooo not gay - tbh its basically to ensure that the guy is interested in both parts of the couple not just the girl - but STILL they're just after fem.
Fem would probably join in but only if the guy was into the couple equally and the best way to ensure that is a bi guy who takes the male in the relationship first.
It's not the primary thing we're looking for - its couples and bi fems - but its a fantasy of fem in this relationship to see male with another guy and join in at her leisure.
But to still get messages saying "whats ur girl into?" is annoying on two counts. A) It's addressed to the male and disrespects the female by not asking "the girl" instead of "your girl" and B) it shows alternative motives towards approaching the couple if the ad they are responding to is completely ignored!
It wasn't aimed at the whole community the comment we've just made, just 1-2 people who have replied thus far - so apologies for any upset caused
T & L xxx
P.S. Yeah the reason we're not looking for a gay guy is because understandably they wouldn't be comfortable being voyeuristically observed by a girl :shock:
Fem would probably join in but only if the guy was into the couple equally and the best way to ensure that is a bi guy who takes the male in the relationship first.
It's not the primary thing we're looking for - its couples and bi fems - but its a fantasy of fem in this relationship to see male with another guy and join in at her leisure.
But to still get messages saying "whats ur girl into?" is annoying on two counts. A) It's addressed to the male and disrespects the female by not asking "the girl" instead of "your girl" and B) it shows alternative motives towards approaching the couple if the ad they are responding to is completely ignored!
It wasn't aimed at the whole community the comment we've just made, just 1-2 people who have replied thus far - so apologies for any upset caused
T & L xxx
P.S. Yeah the reason we're not looking for a gay guy is because understandably they wouldn't be comfortable being voyeuristically observed by a girl :shock:
Quote by 3someinpreston
Quick ad really - we're looking for a bi male to meet up with, but would only be involved with the male in this relationship, with female looking on, possibly videotaping.
BUT.. you say here that the female WON'T be involved, only looking on and only possibly videotaping. No wonder people are confused if you're changing the goalposts now.
Fem would probably join in but only if the guy was into the couple equally and the best way to ensure that is a bi guy who takes the male in the relationship first.
It's not the primary thing we're looking for - its couples and bi fems - but its a fantasy of fem in this relationship to see male with another guy and join in at her leisure.
I know plenty of gay guys who don't give a flying fuck who's watching...
:? :shock: :shock: Different to the gay guys we know then!!!
We'll try to explain better lol - i guess we've royally fookered up on this one!
Basically, we're looking for a bi-male who would be interested in being involved in MonM with F watching as a voyeur. Then once we're sure that the bi-male was interested in M primarily, then we'd suggest that F "could" get involved at her own discretion if she felt comfortable, and the M felt comfortable, otherwise F would stay out.
Although the way we worded it first would cause confusion, but we still feel that it's clear enough that our main aim is to find a bi male who is interested in MonM first and foremost - i think that is clear enough. To still get guys who are obviously interested in only the fem is inexcusable.
Does that clear it up or...?
We'll try to explain better lol - i guess we've royally fookered up on this one!
Basically, we're looking for a bi-male who would be interested in being involved in MonM with F watching as a voyeur. Then once we're sure that the bi-male was interested in M primarily, then we'd suggest that F "could" get involved at her own discretion if she felt comfortable, and the M felt comfortable, otherwise F would stay out.
Although the way we worded it first would cause confusion, but we still feel that it's clear enough that our main aim is to find a bi male who is interested in MonM first and foremost - i think that is clear enough. To still get guys who are obviously interested in only the fem is inexcusable.
Does that clear it up or...?
i am very interested and have just sent you a pm..xxx
Warming the Bed
pm'd you
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Quote by 3someinpreston
Nooo not gay - tbh its basically to ensure that the guy is interested in both parts of the couple not just the girl - but STILL they're just after fem.
Fem would probably join in but only if the guy was into the couple equally and the best way to ensure that is a bi guy who takes the male in the relationship first.
It's not the primary thing we're looking for - its couples and bi fems - but its a fantasy of fem in this relationship to see male with another guy and join in at her leisure.
But to still get messages saying "whats ur girl into?" is annoying on two counts. A) It's addressed to the male and disrespects the female by not asking "the girl" instead of "your girl" and B) it shows alternative motives towards approaching the couple if the ad they are responding to is completely ignored!
It wasn't aimed at the whole community the comment we've just made, just 1-2 people who have replied thus far - so apologies for any upset caused
T & L xxx
P.S. Yeah the reason we're not looking for a gay guy is because understandably they wouldn't be comfortable being voyeuristically observed by a girl :shock:
I understand exactly where you're coming from.... used to advertise for the same sort of set up myself sometimes.... however, I found it terribly frustrating that a lot of guys don't seem to be able to read, I do sympathise with you!
:? have sent a pm
Quote by JudyTV
what utter tosh.. I know plenty of gay guys, and whilst they wouldn't want to be involved sexually with a woman they don't give a toss who's watching or videotapong them, just as long as they are getting what they wanted and don't have to be involved with the woman.
Life, isn't it different?
Yes dear of course your quite right ...whatever you say ...your right we ALL agree with you .its easier that way
Glad to see you're learning... bout time!
