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That's it folks, the list is now closed
ALL confirmations must be done by the 29th - no confirmation = no final details pm.
Cheers drinkies

Well, I'm the big 3 0 this year, and I’m absolutely dreading it !! :scared:
....So, I’m throwing a little Birthday Munch to turn it into something to look forward to!! :bounce: :happy: :bounce: :happy: :drinkies:
Darkfire’s 30th Birthday Munch will be in the North Derbyshire area on Saturday 2nd September 2006.
until am. There will be a disco and buffet, and no doubt plenty of entertainment and laughs from you lot! lol

The venue is booked and will comfortably hold 110 people; the guest list for the Munch is on a first-come first served basis, with a reserve list if necessary.
There’s no ‘entrance fee’, but I will be passing a hat round for voluntary contributions to help toward the cost of the room, DJ expenses and food, but this is entirely up to you :thumbup:
Badges
We will be having Munch badges, very kindly being provided by Kazswallows. If this is your first Munch and you have not had a badge made before, or your username has altered etc, please pm Kaz here and let her know the names to go on your badges ie : 'Darkfire' or 'Mr Darkfire' & 'Mrs Darkfire' if you're a couple :thumbup:
The Theme - 'Decadence & Debauchery'
The 'theme' is 'Decadence & Debauchery' (There’s more info about this on page 6)
‘Dressing up’ is entirely optional of course – but I’m thinking this could be a great excuse to dig out (or treat yourself to) sensual fabrics – velvet, silks, lace, satin, cashmere, leather…. maybe even cocktail dresses & dapper dinner jackets :twisted: … cleavages and corsets :twisted: .... Jewel like colours – golds, reds, purples, greens…....
for those who dont want to go the whole hog, be decadent & wear scarlett lipstick....or a corsage.... heady perfumes…..swathes of heels…...pashminas.....silk scarves....velvet chokers....sparkles.....glitter....sequins........ you get the idea! :lol2:
Even something as simple as treating yourself to a lovely long relaxing soak with your favourite bubble bath (or Lush stuff :lol: ) before the ‘doo’ instead of a quick shower !! there’s something for everyone in this theme !! Indulgence is the key!!
if anyone's really stuck for ideas, pm me - but I'm sure no one needs an excuse to be totally self-indulgent for just one evening! wink
Remember though - This is the theme as far as 'dressing up' goes - the event itself is purely social & is within a vanilla establishment so it's 'appropriately Indulgent' rather than OTT ! :wink:
Details
If anyone requires hotel details please pm me and I’ll send them out to you. As usual, actual venue details, directions, taxi numbers etc will be sent out a couple of days before the event, by pm only. Do not pass this information on to anyone else under any circumstances, tell them to pm me.
Photo's
Please do not bring cameras to the Munch.
There will be an official photographer or 2, who will take pics throughout the evening with permission only. Pics will not be posted on the site, and copies available by email only to those in the picture.
If you really really want to bring a camera, and have reason to, pm me to discuss - similarly if under no circumstances do you want your picture taken at the Munch, let me know please :thumbup:
Any probs or questions, please drop me a pm biggrin
So, who's up for it???!! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
The List- those in bold have confirmed :happy:
Couples
Darkfire & Mr Dark :D
Sarah & Mal
Suze43 & Bartdutch
Stuart_Tanina
Freckledbird & Mr FB
Geordiecpl
Mrs CCR & Mr CCR
NaughtyNymphos1 & Sleazy
The Muttleys
Dave&Debbie69
MickandHer
Dambuster & HornyLittleBlonde
Pleasures40070
MDR2000
Dawnie & Ian
Nomad_Soul & Caroline
Rams_cpl
Stoke_cpl
PoshKate & Sheddy
Kazswallows & Sleeper
Huxley & Suzie
Calista & Morbius
Lavabubble
Dizzytart & Budsy69
Hot_tart & Mr Discreet
Shaz & Tony
bonnet-buffers
Marcuso & Poshbitch
Dave_Notts & Alex_Female
Blueyes6969
Dee_Vic
BiPaula & Andy
King_Dong
Firelizard & Stormwalker
Molly & Chris
Celestria & Feklar
Ladies
Alleyson
Earthchild
Sexkittenhfx
Chaotic Spirit
RedgirlManc
Shelly
Shell
Mistress_Sassy
Wayward_1
Anais
Abilene
H_x
Vicky_Uk
Gents
Essexm34
Harry Jones
Pierced_Jon
Littlemee
Dlep
Claicerrig
NottsM4fun
Manolishi
AlexDeejay
Sercher01
Leprechaun
Meggo3
Sharif
oneguyfromkent
Steff35
Robbiem
Goose35
Quote by Darkfire
Well, little old me is 30 this year , yep the big 3 0, and I’m absolutely dreading it !! :crazy:

Why on earth would you be dreading it ??
It's a wonderful age to be.
I wouldn't want to be it again - but it was marvellous while I was there wink
Quote by dambuster
Well, little old me is 30 this year , yep the big 3 0, and I’m absolutely dreading it !! :crazy:

Why on earth would you be dreading it ??
It's a wonderful age to be.
I wouldn't want to be it again - but it was marvellous while I was there wink
Honest answer??? because i've been twenty-something for aaaages and still not got to where I want to be!
I set myself a few goals when I turned 20, and although I achieved them I'm doing nothing with them (education for example). Time is moving on, I'm getting older - and to me, thats not a nice prospect............. other than I supose I'll soon be considered a 'real woman' flipa :wink:
and 30 is like ........ the start of a very big slippery slope, its practically middle-aged !!!!!!! (Dark runs for the hills at this point :eeek: - please note, before anyone jumps on me - I am well aware i'm one of the 'youngsters' around here - but I'm talking about how Ifeel about hitting 30, not your lots age!! )
aww bugger the explanation, am gonna get a kickin for this one anyway! lol
Don't suppose you'd allow a shy quiet newbie to come would you? innocent
Quote by Marcuso
Don't suppose you'd allow a shy quiet newbie to come would you? innocent

not a chance mate lol :lol:
Quote by Darkfire
Don't suppose you'd allow a shy quiet newbie to come would you? innocent

not a chance mate lol :lol:
How about an ugly, noisy git then?....lol
(Got the PM and will answer when I get back from Lincoln later babes)
Quote by Marcuso
Don't suppose you'd allow a shy quiet newbie to come would you? innocent

Why? Do you know one? :shock:
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Can we please be invited biggrin
mr and mrs ccr xxx
Quote by ccr
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Can we please be invited biggrin
mr and mrs ccr xxx

of course hun, you're added :D
I can feel another Coven meet in the toilets coming on! lol )
Quote by mike48
Well, little old me is 30 this year , yep the big 3 0, and I’m absolutely dreading it !! :crazy:
hello darkfire i dont know you but on the strenth of ur postings lol i would like to be at least considered for an invite to your special avent
smile

Hiya Mike
I havent met you hun, so unless Marcuso says otherwise, I'm gonna put you on the reserve list (for now)....... I am aware that you're doing the Llandudno Munch though, so I'm sure there are several people going to that who i do know, who may vouch for you before September! its ages away yet too! biggrin
Dark x
ohhh cam we come? oh please please go on you know you wonna lol gwan i'll stand the door for u and keep that bloody marcuso out lol
Stick me down provisionaly Darkfire, dependant on cash and time off ;)
Minx x x
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Stick me down provisionaly Darkfire, dependant on cash and time off ;)
Minx x x

Darkfire you best request some "eggy things" for the buffet biggrin
Quote by naughtynymphos1
ohhh cam we come? oh please please go on you know you wonna lol gwan i'll stand the door for u and keep that bloody marcuso out lol

I couldnt not have you two there! biggrin you are very added :lol:
Minxy wrote:
Stick me down provisionaly Darkfire, dependant on cash and time off
Minx x x

Done wink hope you can make it hun :D
HLB wrote:
Darkfire you best request some "eggy things" for the buffet

'egg thingy' requirement has been noted and duly emailed to caterers :lol: :wink:
How about an ugly, noisy git then?....lol
Will you be celerating by burning any items of Marcuso's clothing? Can we come along just in case you are It would be much more exciting than lighting yourcandles don't you think?
Hi dark..
at 32 I remember the dreaded 30 all too ruddy well, so I can empathise!
You suddenly feel not "young" anymore, right?
Could be worse, apparantly women reach their sexual peak at 36.....I've got 3.5 years to go.......watch out boys ( & girls!)
Seriously hun, just another bloody number really, as my best mate says "you grow old when you stop playing". No worries hun!
Quote by winchwench
Hi dark..
Could be worse, apparantly women reach their sexual peak at 36.....I've got 3.5 years to go.......watch out boys ( & girls!)

36??????? good god, I cant wait that long!!! I thought i must have hit it already and am now on the slippery slope downwards into boredom & celibacy :shock: :shock:
thanks for your lovely post though hun biggrin
Quote by Darkfire
36??????? good god, I cant wait that long!!! I thought i must have hit it already and am now on the slippery slope downwards into boredom & celibacy :shock: :shock:

How wrong you are wink
Quote by dambuster

36??????? good god, I cant wait that long!!! I thought i must have hit it already and am now on the slippery slope downwards into boredom & celibacy :shock: :shock:

How wrong you are wink
Well, if 'that' wasntmy sexual peak, I hate to think what's gonna happen in 6 years time!! :twisted: lol
Rehouse - you are on the list hun
Am assuming by 'we' you mean Emerald? wink
Quote by Darkfire
Well, if 'that' wasnt my sexual peak, I hate to think what's gonna happen in 6 years time!! :twisted: lol

Uncle Dammy says . . . . . . .
Look forward to it, you're gonna love it :thumbup:
*Disclaimer
db believes a woman's "peak" is from early 30's onwards

What I said about the "30 yo rule" and the reasons for it were true - but . . . . . the above disclaimer also comes to bear wink
Ohhhhhh I get it.... you mean when I'm a 'real woman', everything moves up a gear?? lol
gracious! I'd best write a couple of ads then and start pencilling people in from September :twisted: :lol:
oohh erm we would like to come it is mr f's birtday on the 2nd as well we not know a lot of ppl at mo going to cpl of munches in june so hopefully meet more of u all there , pretty plz or we be stuck in again just perving on cam lol
Dark, when I got to the age of 30 I felt really old!! But as time went on I kicked myself up the backside & thought ' you are as old as you feel, is 30 gonna put me off living? NO'
I'm now 37 & make the most of what I've got. In fact as the years go by I feel I'm getting younger! In my 20's was I swinging? No. In my 20's did I get to meet some fantastic people like you lot? No.
LIFE IS FOR LIVING HUN!! NO MATTER WHAT AGE WE ARE lol
Can us old farts have a provisional invite( not sure if we're on holiday then) promise to leave my zimma frame at home :lol:
Quote by fantasycpl
oohh erm we would like to come it is mr f's birtday on the 2nd as well we not know a lot of ppl at mo going to cpl of munches in june so hopefully meet more of u all there , pretty plz or we be stuck in again just perving on cam lol

Hiya you two
As I havent met you yet, I'll put you on the reserve list for now and move you up to the 'A' list ( rolleyes :lol: ) after we've met in person at the forthcoming munches. There's plenty of time bewteen now and September for us to cross paths at some point, but at the moment, the definates list is only for people I / Marcuso have met in order to ensure the safety of all those coming wink
I know you're pretty local too, so, if you fancy a coffee & a chat sometime, pm me biggrin
Dark x
In edit a short while later..... : You're now on the definates list! :wink: :lol:
come find me and say hi in June too :D
Quote by hisandhers
LIFE IS FOR LIVING HUN!! NO MATTER WHAT AGE WE ARE lol
Can us old farts have a provisional invite( not sure if we're on holiday then) promise to leave my zimma frame at home :lol:

Yep ya pair of nutters, you're on the list as provisionals, but please let me know as soon as you do as it wont be long before I have to start jiggling the invite lists a little wink
"....am now on the slippery slope downwards into boredom & celibacy"
Hiya,
Aw, hun don't worry about being 30. I don't know about boredom & celibacy - I can give you 21 years (less 1 day) and Ive yet to find either. Id say it was more likely you're heading for debauchery - we are! You ask Emerald!
Thanks for pointing out the omission. The 'we' is myself and Emerald. Thanks for including us on the list.
Quote by Darkfire
The SH list lol
Definates
Mrs CCR & Mr CCR
NaughtyNymphos1 & Sleazy
Redhouse & Emerald
His & Hers (provisional)
BiWelshMinx (provisional)
Fantasycpl
Reserve List
Mike48

ERM!!!....isn't there someone you're forgetting babes??
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Don't suppose you'd allow a shy quiet newbie to come would you? innocent

Why? Do you know one? :shock:
OI!!!! ya bugger! smackbottom
Quote by naughtynymphos1
ohhh cam we come? oh please please go on you know you wonna lol gwan i'll stand the door for u and keep that bloody marcuso out :lol:

No you won't, cos I'll just smack yer arse......and I know how much you LIKE that :twisted:
Quote by redhouse
"....am now on the slippery slope downwards into boredom & celibacy"
Hiya,
Aw, hun don't worry about being 30. I don't know about boredom & celibacy - I can give you 21 years (less 1 day) and Ive yet to find either. Id say it was more likely you're heading for debauchery - we are! You ask Emerald!
Thanks for pointing out the omission. The 'we' is myself and Emerald. Thanks for including us on the list.

WOO HOO!!!!! ....she still owes me a snog.
i know you already got me on another list hun just wanted to say, there is no way i am missing this one
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