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Brighton social oct 27th. Updated 25th... GOOD NEWS

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By the way, looking forward to my "punishment"!.........I never wear knickers!
Natalie XXX
Gosh - how sinister. Of course, I am now trying to work out who it is that is messaging you a la Sherlock Holmes....
Maybe that's how I'll dress on Saturday.. inspired! wink
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This is supposed to be a no pressure meeting as per your first posting if I understand correctly.
There is one person on here who has contacted me by PM twice having got my profile from this thread. The person has indeed posted on the thread but does NOT appear on the confirmed or unconfirmed guest list.
Now being contacted in this way does not really bother me, but the guy won't take no for an answer! As I assume that it will not be just me he's messaging (I mean I'm a stunner, but not THAT stunning lol ) then he's going to start putting someone off as the messages I got read ever so slightly pervy....even for a swingers site.
I have PM'd you with his "handle".
Natalie XXX

Hi there. He did ask to come this person but isnt coming now so your be ok. As for the presure its a swing site and you will get guys say "hi sexy" and so forth but anything that makes you feel uncomfortable is not acceptable. If hes still presuring you then contact the mods and Im sure they will have a firm word.
But your ok hes not coming to mine.
Will say this tho to any of the guys coming please no presure on the night otherwise you will be asked to leave.
I dont want anyone feeling under presure NOT that I have ever come across this since ive done socals and munchies. They seem to run well.
Marie xxx
Quote by dippergt750
By the way, looking forward to my "punishment"!.........I never wear knickers!
Natalie XXX

I always wear underwear very sexy ones. But if you do a sharon stone on me dont blame me for looking wink biggrin
Marie xxx
I'm not in the least bothered, as I said earlier. Have been on this sceene for a long time now and I do know how it works.....one of my pet peeves is the number of idiots on this particular site in fact.
I was simply concerned that you wanted the "newbies" to be comfortable and this guy comes across as pushy...not what you intended as I understand.
Wildbrightoncouple will have to wait till Saturday to see if they got it right!
Natalie XXX
Hi guys,
jason from hove here, can I come along to your social too? Sounds like fun.
jay x
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I'm not in the least bothered, as I said earlier. Have been on this sceene for a long time now and I do know how it works.....one of my pet peeves is the number of idiots on this particular site in fact.
I was simply concerned that you wanted the "newbies" to be comfortable and this guy comes across as pushy...not what you intended as I understand.
Wildbrightoncouple will have to wait till Saturday to see if they got it right!
Natalie XXX

Again sent you a email and Im sure everyone will feel comfortable. as you see above Ive stated to anyone who makes anyone feel uncomfortable would be asked to leave.
M xxx
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Hi guys,
jason from hove here, can I come along to your social too? Sounds like fun.
jay x

Hi there Jason. I will add you to the list thank you for your email, See you saturday and yes it will be FUN!!! wink :P
Thats what Im hoping and always get from a social biggrin
Marie xxxx
my confirmation - see you saturday guys x
Ah, we're new to this site, but have been in various clubs and so on so we are well aware of how pushy some people (not always just men lol) can be.. and we're pretty good at saying no very nicely indeed biggrin
I do hope that my suspicions are proved correct on Sat!!
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Ah, we're new to this site, but have been in various clubs and so on so we are well aware of how pushy some people (not always just men lol) can be.. and we're pretty good at saying no very nicely indeed biggrin
I do hope that my suspicions are proved correct on Sat!!

Well Im sure most might even be shy like me redface :shock: lol :lol: Nah serously will be all good. Your right there also not just guys who can be pushy but you wont get any of this im sure.
gosh not long now eh 4 days Yayy smile
M xxx
Hi
Is it too late to put my name down, Heather unfortunately cant change her work shift so I`ll be on my own if thats ok ?
Alan
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Hi
Is it too late to put my name down, Heather unfortunately cant change her work shift so I`ll be on my own if thats ok ?
Alan

Not to late and got your message so Ive now added you.
See you there,
Marie xxx
Goodness again - so many people coming now! Should be oh so interesting...
In terms of the final list, what we looking at now, about 30 people or so?
Quote by Wildbrightoncup
Goodness again - so many people coming now! Should be oh so interesting...
In terms of the final list, what we looking at now, about 30 people or so?

More then that as there are more cpls so about 42 now I think :shock:
Marie xxx
Bloody hell! Lol...
please forward the details so if we are brave enough to face you all redface surprisedops: :oops: we can come along
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please forward the details so if we are brave enough to face you all redface surprisedops: :oops: we can come along

You have to confirm babes if our coming so I know to stick you on the list. You will be fine its only a meet in a pub babes for few drinks and giggles. No presure just cpls meeting cpls and some singles names to faces etc.
Let me know.
Andy thanks for letting me know babes xxxx
Marie xxx
Has Andy realised it's not on Friday??????
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Has Andy realised it's not on Friday??????

Im sure he does but I did send him a pm anyway. Dnt worry babes I have it all under control wink
Someone else put another day also and they come back to me saying yeah meant sat :shock: lol :lol:
Marie xxx
Hi there, we are 39m and 42f. Have met one other couple before but never gone to something like this and would love to try it.
Not sure if we are 100% able to make Sat night yet but would like to be invited if possible and have directions etc.
Thanks
P&S
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Hi there, we are 39m and 42f. Have met one other couple before but never gone to something like this and would love to try it.
Not sure if we are 100% able to make Sat night yet but would like to be invited if possible and have directions etc.
Thanks
P&S

Hi there Ive sent you mail. Hope to see you soon maybe biggrin
Marie xxx
After a brief read through this thread I can see that some folk are a little aprehensive because of 'pushy' people. I'm glad that it has been ponted out that it is not always single men that are guilty of this. Also we will all have to behave in a public bar anyway. Just don't leave the pub with people who you feal uneasy with. IMO, I'm sure the ladies know not to go off alone with any strange men...
Hi Marie xx and all
just to say looking forward to meeting you and everybody Saturday evening and just to say for myself as a person and also as a single male that i detest pushy people in any context and I am a respectful person whom will respect all attendees , ladies and there partners alike with the total respect they deserve. Will assume or presume nothing of anyone and be pleased with the opportunity to meet some new, like minded fun people and have a great evening whatever its course xxx take care all and see you soon and thank you Marie for organising the meet xx rocker959
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Hi Marie xx and all
just to say looking forward to meeting you and everybody Saturday evening and just to say for myself as a person and also as a single male that i detest pushy people in any context and I am a respectful person whom will respect all attendees , ladies and there partners alike with the total respect they deserve. Will assume or presume nothing of anyone and be pleased with the opportunity to meet some new, like minded fun people and have a great evening whatever its course xxx take care all and see you soon and thank you Marie for organising the meet xx rocker959

Thank you rocker kiss
Well after tomorrow will be the night :happy: Im sure it will be a fab night. Chat, Drink,Flirt, wink
Oh mines a bailys with ice :wink: or cider :wink: lol :lol: :lol: It will be great to see you all there having fun as thats what I want and its always nice to put faces to names etc.
Will say if anyone does get any hassle from cpls or sgls come to me and I will sort them out smackbottom
But Im very sure this wont happen as never done yet from any ive done in the past. Right all I have left for me to do is find something to wear and get merry with you guys on saturday.
See you all saturday night :wink:
Marie xxx
Great update NEWS.........
Guys as you all know where this meet is. Well there is another pub acoross the road and we can have upstairs. So this is my plan....
Ive rang the guy across the road and he has his upstairs so far aviable. So this means when we have met up at the first pub and had a quick drink there I would like to take everyone over to the other pub as this way we will be in a room all to ourselves biggrin Ive not booked it so if he gets a booking he can book it out. Reason for this is I would be out of pocket if anyone didnt turn up and I had put a deposit down.
So hes said all being well we can have this room. And all we have to do is pop down stairs to get our drinks. There is a DISCO on down stairs aswell and he will put some cds on for upstairs for us.
So if you going to be any later then 9pm you will have my number so call me if your running we will be in the meet pub for one hour anyway.
If you think you might be later then 9pm and know this already then please pm me and I will tel you the name of the second pub. Again its just across the road..
So peeps see you all at 8pm at the pub Ive sent out to you all. And about 9pm we shall move over to the other pub. Its open till 1am so thats brill news Yayyyy.
Any questions feel free to pm me wink
Marie xxx
All sounds good Marie - thanks again for organising this social!
Due to this development will you be putting a limit on the number of people who can attend or will you be taking newcomers up until the end of play Saturday? (am so nosey lol)
smile
Marie thanks for thr mail we would love to attend saturday
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All sounds good Marie - thanks again for organising this social!
Due to this development will you be putting a limit on the number of people who can attend or will you be taking newcomers up until the end of play Saturday? (am so nosey lol)
smile

Well thing is I wish I had thought of the second pub were going to for starters as we could of gone straight there so yeah supose I wil have to have a limit now so will keep an eye on it all.
Yayyy for sat xxxxxxxxx