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Can ANYONE tell me why...??
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Sex God
Quote by T,D+H
Hey all, I havnt been a member on the furum's for that long, and only been swonging for a couple of months, but WHY is it so hard for 'newbies' to find ppl willing to meet up on this site?? or is it just me? :taz:
Well, think about it. Lots of people on here like the social side of swinging as well as the sex. They might like to chat with you for a while first and get to know you. That takes time. So if you're a newbie and that's what you want, be prepared to wait a while.
There are also people who would meet complete strangers for sex; if that's what you seek, I'm sure you won't have to wait for long.
Sex God
Quote by T,D+H
well thats pretty hard over the net, isnt it?
Then why did you join an internet website?
Sex God
Quote by T,D+H
Hey all, I havnt been a member on the furum's for that long, and only been swonging for a couple of months, but WHY is it so hard for 'newbies' to find ppl willing to meet up on this site?? or is it just me? :taz:
And you are?
See, we know nothing about you... so why would anyone want to meet you?
Give it some more thought, eh.
WHY is it so hard for 'newbies' to find ppl willing to meet up on this site ?? or is it just me ?
From my point of view it is something you need to pay your... (NOT in money) :cry: it is like that in our life, before we get what we want, we need to work hard.
My first lady I meet from this site, happen after 2 years... what I can say to you ? Try to use other group!
More group you are in, better chance you have!!!
Ciao Nico
all very good points, i must say, Dont get me wrong though, im not only looking for sex, if thats all i wanted, then i'd pay for it, my point is the way the newbies have to earn respect to be able to join in most of the meets. like the one nxt year, it seems like ppl have to earn the right to go to meets. why is that? should't we all have the same chances to enjoy ourselves? My name is Marc, from Birmingham, Im 20yrs old, straight, n just come out of a relationship. anything else just ask.
Sex God
Quote by T,D+H
all very good points, i must say, Dont get me wrong though, im not only looking for sex, if thats all i wanted, then i'd pay for it, my point is the way the newbies have to earn respect to be able to join in most of the meets. like the one nxt year, it seems like ppl have to earn the right to go to meets. why is that? should't we all have the same chances to enjoy ourselves? My name is Marc, from Birmingham, Im 20yrs old, straight, n just come out of a relationship. anything else just ask.
Not so much a case of newbies having to earn respect, as getting known to others in the forum. With so much attention from the press, security at munches is a real biggie. You won't get invited unless you've joined before a cut-off date (usually specified by the munch organiser), so that the chances of you being press or just a nuisance are limited.
Sexlightened
iam with you t,d&h
you hit the nail on the head
you hit the nail on the head
Sex God
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iam with you t,d&h
you hit the nail on the head
No, he didn't. Read the rest of the thread.
Quote by T,D+H
. . . my point is the way the newbies have to earn respect to be able to join in most of the meets. like the one nxt year, it seems like ppl have to earn the right to go to meets. why is that?
Did you actually read that before you said it outloud ?
Or am I being an old fuddy duddy ?
Although I personally have a view/opinion of respect that differs to most, that really did read (to me) as "why the fuck should we"
Sex God
Quote by T,D+H
my point is the way the newbies have to earn respect to be able to join in most of the meets. like the one nxt year, it seems like ppl have to earn the right to go to meets. why is that?
Why do you think it is?
Come off it, in all walks of life people have to earn respect. Who on earth would want to meet someone for sex that they ddin't respect? As for earning the right...... well, yes, actually people do have to earn the right to go to munches..... it is about being polite, genuine, patient, and respectful. Points you seem to assume are not important on here.
I say again, why?
I'll tell you, shall I? It's cos you expect instant gratification - nothing more, nothing less.
I think you had better get your hand in your wallet and pay for sex cos it's going to be a no go on here with an attitude like that.
You are becoming less and less welcome on here. Perhaps you should have a re-think?
