can travel/accommodate WMids

24 Nov 2010

Ok we know that we are not everyones "cup of tea" in fact we realise that we aren't really what many couples are looking for, but surely someone must fancy some laughs, a few drinks and a great social time possibly leading to some sexy fun, we have been on the site for a long long time and so far no meets here :sad:
We go to Chameleons in Darlaston about once a month and have had many great meets from other sites, but barren here on SH.
We make it easy for you, we work from home, don't have kids and can travel, we can accommodate including overnight and are happy to meet on a "no strings" basis to ensure everyone is happy to take things further, if not we are confident that we will at least all have some laughs together and make some new friends.
We have a full profile with over 100 pictures of both of us, we don't really know what more we can do.
All we seem to get is people who want to be on our "friends list" without ever speaking to us even though our profile states that we only accept people onto our list that we have met in person.
Not moaning, as said we understand that people have thier personal meet criteria and we probably don't match it but hope that someone will decide to give it a go (was going to say suck it and see but that comes later wink

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24 Nov 2010

No comment on what you put here but your profile had me spraying coffee over my table when I read the local saying rotflmao

Dave_Notts

25 Nov 2010

Sadly a pre-requisite of being a swinger is being honest :sad:

25 Nov 2010

Quote by Dave__Notts
No comment on what you put here but your profile had me spraying coffee over my table when I read the local saying
Dave_Notts

Same here :lol2:
Have to say I'm surprised you have not had any luck through the site....

25 Nov 2010

We are not surprised that we don't suit everyone, nobody does, but for us it is the age difference, if we were both in our 50s we wouldn't have a problem, if we were both in our 20s - easy but we are not and there are not a lot of couples who feel comfortable with our ages, for a few Sasha is too young, for most I am too old, we understand and accept that. When I was a single male I had no problem getting meets, it is always easier to find a couple seeking a single male, oh a 6 pack helps and rugged good looks are not often dismissed but personality gets you laid.
Many men feel more comfortable with an older guy joining them and as I am straight I only have to have a social compatability with the male half of a couple and for the woman to find me sexually appealing and attentative to her wishes, for both of them I have to be respectfull which I always am.
For couples, finding 2 other people who are all attracted to each other socially or sexually is more difficult, it's pure mathematics.
Despite what single guys think it is actually harder for couples than for singles, babysitters, 2 work schedules to consider before you find a couple who can also get babysitters and compatible work schedules to name but a few of the problems, and then there is the competition, believe it or not there is more competition for couples than there is for single guys, sure there are more single guys on the site than couples but let's be honest, most of them have no chance whatsoever and the amount of genuine, eligible single males is quite small.
Most single guys have no chance because they don't realise they have to make any kind of effort, one line profiles, cock pics only, one line e-mails, no respect etc, this means the minority who do make the effort with mails, profiles and pictures are hugely successfull and quite rightly so.

25 Nov 2010

Hi guys , just have to say yours is one of the most honest and amusing profiles we have ever had the pleasure to read on here. All the luck for the future . xx

25 Nov 2010

Thanks for your kind comments, we do believe that a profile should be 100% honesty and if possible reflect our personality in some way, good and successfull swinging is all about honesty and it starts here wink

26 Nov 2010

I have to add also that yous is one of the best profiles I have read on either this or any site - truly excellent.
g x x

26 Nov 2010

good luck guys. you deffo come over as very genuine honest people. xxx