At our last look 96 people viewed our thread newly weds seeks female but not one single reply not a no thanx not a maybe not a diddly. So I have one thing to say and thats ex squeeze me baking powder
Are all members male ,are thier no women on here or are we supposed to pass some sort of initiation befor we get any responve to our post.
does any one else out there suffer from this same lack of responce if so lets start our own thread the longest of them all, soon people will come.
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i am having the same problem - i'm not to impressed with this site, too many men, and women who don't reply... People look at your post then don't reply and if you reply to a post then you still get nowhere.
Do you know of any other sites which you can at least get some kind of contact???
Do you know of any other sites which you can at least get some kind of contact???
I know how you feel.
I am sure we have all heard about the "lets be patient" approach, but it doesnt seem to help much at the time.
I have been using this site for around four months and have just had my first reply that led to a meet with a lovely lady.
It will happen if you just keep on trying.
I hope you find what you are looking for - dont give up!
Burnleylad
I am sure we have all heard about the "lets be patient" approach, but it doesnt seem to help much at the time.
I have been using this site for around four months and have just had my first reply that led to a meet with a lovely lady.
It will happen if you just keep on trying.
I hope you find what you are looking for - dont give up!
Burnleylad
Glad to hear others are having a similar time with site also glad some of you are getting to grips with some of the members (and not just your own ha ha) even if we are a lil envious have fun peeps stay horny
Any bi girls browsing this section of the thread get in touch pics and details to addy below cheers LnR XX
Any bi girls browsing this section of the thread get in touch pics and details to addy below cheers LnR XX
I only joined yesterday..but, had some fun pm's, was invited to a doggin' -also last week whilst not a member reponded to the ads..which has resulted in a meeting for me too..so this site does work...Maybe some people do need to put some effort into the post and emailing ..not just put "want to fuck" or "send some pix"..most guys and girl's like to be spoken to as a person..made to laugh etc..then you might get somewhere! 
Sex God
If you're having that much trouble with the advertsing, why don't you try a club instead? I'm not saying you will get better sex, I'm just saying it might be more fun trying that way than sitting at home waiting 
it's not all bad news I've made new friends,the main problem is people not understanding the basic language of wife is really only interested in one man and thats Mark Owen but I manage to keep her occupied long enough to stop that silly her other fantasy is to be with another womanand to instruct a women into seducing and satisfying me whist I'm tied to a bed,yet we've had 101 men all saying get in touch I'll fuck your wife.She doesn't want another man I'm not ruling the option out but ,
well, what can I say, pamper my weak male ego.
still thanx for the replies and all your help especially J she know who she is (a very charming intellegent sexy young women)
well, what can I say, pamper my weak male ego.
still thanx for the replies and all your help especially J she know who she is (a very charming intellegent sexy young women)
reasuring in some ways, because I've had the same experiences. I've been on this and a couple of other sites for about 10 days. I must have emailed about 40 contacts, but had only 3 replies (not a bad average compared to some of the posts here)
I'll keep trying, but you do start to wonder "is there some sort of 'funny' e-handshake you have to know about"
btw. Ladies, please mail me, I am genuine ;-)
I'll keep trying, but you do start to wonder "is there some sort of 'funny' e-handshake you have to know about"
btw. Ladies, please mail me, I am genuine ;-)
Sex God
Lildevilsangel - right, I take your point - when I used to advertise as a single I used to put specific requirements on, for example "under 30s only" or something like that, and would have a whole host of folks replying, saying "I'm a bit over 30" etc etc (turns out they're just over 40 - get my drift 
, so I know what you mean about guys not understanding English 
Beckers - to be honest, 3 replies ain't that bad, you got to understand that if a single female puts an ad on she might get 200 or so replies in a few days (I used to) and there's no way of replying to them all, so just keep trying, I guess! There's no e-hand-shake - well, if there is can someone please tell me, it would be fun to know who does this in real life :twisted:
, so I know what you mean about guys not understanding English Beckers - to be honest, 3 replies ain't that bad, you got to understand that if a single female puts an ad on she might get 200 or so replies in a few days (I used to) and there's no way of replying to them all, so just keep trying, I guess! There's no e-hand-shake - well, if there is can someone please tell me, it would be fun to know who does this in real life :twisted:
Ok, Linda and i started to fancy the idea of another guy joining us about two years ago, we took the plunge and started with a good mate of ours.
We then tried another mate and then went on to wanting to meet up with a stranger, five strangers later we still go through the same ritual.
We make contact via e-mail, insist on a face pic and hard cock pic and then we chat on the phone.
We are, to this date still very very nervous when setting it up and before we actually meet the guy.
Now what we are getting at is, we think that most people on a new site are just as new as we are and still very very cautious, hence the reason for the lack of success for you guys.
The real hardened swingers that have been doing it for donkeys years only look every now and then due to the fact that they find a good couple, or single guy/gal and stick with them until they fancy a change.
Please be patient guys/gals and trust me, its a bit like waiting for that bus, before you know it, you are the one not having time to reply to ads or you may let someone down because you have o many on the go.
Linda has a very busy life style and if it was not for me answering her e-mails and arranging the meets, we too would not meet so many guys.
We hope this will help, Mark and Linda
We then tried another mate and then went on to wanting to meet up with a stranger, five strangers later we still go through the same ritual.
We make contact via e-mail, insist on a face pic and hard cock pic and then we chat on the phone.
We are, to this date still very very nervous when setting it up and before we actually meet the guy.
Now what we are getting at is, we think that most people on a new site are just as new as we are and still very very cautious, hence the reason for the lack of success for you guys.
The real hardened swingers that have been doing it for donkeys years only look every now and then due to the fact that they find a good couple, or single guy/gal and stick with them until they fancy a change.
Please be patient guys/gals and trust me, its a bit like waiting for that bus, before you know it, you are the one not having time to reply to ads or you may let someone down because you have o many on the go.
Linda has a very busy life style and if it was not for me answering her e-mails and arranging the meets, we too would not meet so many guys.
We hope this will help, Mark and Linda
Hi there....
If it weren't for the fact that Halifax is a bloody long way for me to go for a shag, I'd selflessly come and do the necessary. It's a tough job, but what can I say... I'm like that!
I think we spoke offlist, didn't we? If you are new to swinging (and this goes to all those single blokes out there too...) you haven't yet realised that for every one single female there are about a hundred blokes chasing her.
It matters very much what you put in your ad, and it matters very much how you reply to ads in order to maximise your chances of success. I've recently done a little piece for Mark to place on the site giving my experiences of placing ads and the replies I get. Mark (Ahem!) is going to let it go live soon he assures me. In the meantime, guys, trust me.... you have no idea what it's like being a single swinging female
As for you (Rik I think it was?), all I can say is keep plugging at it. You will find the right girl in the end.
Cheers
Juliexx
If it weren't for the fact that Halifax is a bloody long way for me to go for a shag, I'd selflessly come and do the necessary. It's a tough job, but what can I say... I'm like that!
I think we spoke offlist, didn't we? If you are new to swinging (and this goes to all those single blokes out there too...) you haven't yet realised that for every one single female there are about a hundred blokes chasing her.
It matters very much what you put in your ad, and it matters very much how you reply to ads in order to maximise your chances of success. I've recently done a little piece for Mark to place on the site giving my experiences of placing ads and the replies I get. Mark (Ahem!) is going to let it go live soon he assures me. In the meantime, guys, trust me.... you have no idea what it's like being a single swinging female
As for you (Rik I think it was?), all I can say is keep plugging at it. You will find the right girl in the end.
Cheers
Juliexx
Sex God
Julie - you're evil, but I like it :twisted:
Sex God
Hee hee, there's always next time - Johnny Vegas is a very popular man in certain circles, cash in on it and bill yourself as a look-a-like
Beckers, Sweetie...
Either your father worked in Sellafield or you need to see a Doctor - or both!
Which one do you use when you go to the loo, anyway?
I'm afraid I cannot entertain at home owing to a rather large, rather lazy teenager I have growing underneath a duvet upstairs - only leaves the house to sign on.
Of course, what you really need, Beckers, is a camper van.... :idea:
Jxx
Either your father worked in Sellafield or you need to see a Doctor - or both!
Which one do you use when you go to the loo, anyway?
I'm afraid I cannot entertain at home owing to a rather large, rather lazy teenager I have growing underneath a duvet upstairs - only leaves the house to sign on.
Of course, what you really need, Beckers, is a camper van.... :idea:
Jxx
Sex God
Ah, a tent - how can anyone possibly turn you down now 8)
you lot make me laugh so much I don't feel so down through lack of responses my wife on the other hand has sent her picture to women seeking couples in the photo ads and not one reply there either.
She is absolutly beautiful but evreyone else must see a minger.
so how about it minging newly weds cant get it on or up seeks hot lusciuos female to add beauty to our love making . Other mingers need not aply we're ugly enough.
AHA-HA-HA-HA.
She is absolutly beautiful but evreyone else must see a minger.
so how about it minging newly weds cant get it on or up seeks hot lusciuos female to add beauty to our love making . Other mingers need not aply we're ugly enough.
AHA-HA-HA-HA.
Sex God
Oh, that would be bound to work, reverse psychology - isn't that what they call it. Someone out there wants you, they're just too shy to admit it 
- maybe they think they are not worthy???
- maybe they think they are not worthy??? Sex God
Well, Harry Enfield isn't my type particularly, but in a good light...who knows
Sex God
Well, I can't speak for everyone, but I'm fine :P
I think you need one of those self-motivation tapes, maybe someone on this forum will know where you can get a few of them cheap????
I think you need one of those self-motivation tapes, maybe someone on this forum will know where you can get a few of them cheap????
tell you whats pissing me off, the fact that ive had thousands view my ad, it states that im after black guys only and I STILL gettin my email full of white/asian guys thinkin im gonna change my mind for them, VERY annoying, this is why im careful putting exactly what i want in an ad and i still get wrong men applying!! Sometimes feel like its a wasted effort, had a handful of genuine blokes but STILL have to hassle for a decent photo first? Surely that should be sent without even thinking. COME ON GUYS, we knnow what we want but please read ads properly and if you reply send a face/body shot as requested!!
