crossed we are going to try a night at chameleons this a saturday night.
we are really nervous!!!lol
we have been to club xtasia before but never played.
we are nervous cus we r still about just wearing towels was clubwear so pretty normal really.
any advice for us?was everybody nervous?bet we will be fine when we get in there wont we lol
is chams ok for newbies?havent got to be hardened swingers have we?
thanx guys
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Chams will be fine for you, I'm sure. And no pressure to play unless you want to. It's a great club.
If you've not been before I suggest you give them a ring beforehand & ask what info you need to bring with you (in terms of ID, etc) and what's the best time for them so they can show you round.
The place is a bit of a rabbit warren though, so you'll still get lost!!
I rarely go on a Saturday, but I'm sure it will be a great fun night - for watching or for joining in. Just remember that if anyone tries it on, or you get a wandering hand, you just need a simple "not just now - maybe later" and they will back off straight away, but you won't even get that unless you're in the thick of the audience for something, i would guess.
Let us know how you get on...?
If you've not been before I suggest you give them a ring beforehand & ask what info you need to bring with you (in terms of ID, etc) and what's the best time for them so they can show you round.
The place is a bit of a rabbit warren though, so you'll still get lost!!
I rarely go on a Saturday, but I'm sure it will be a great fun night - for watching or for joining in. Just remember that if anyone tries it on, or you get a wandering hand, you just need a simple "not just now - maybe later" and they will back off straight away, but you won't even get that unless you're in the thick of the audience for something, i would guess.
Let us know how you get on...?
Quote by manchester_man
Chams will be fine for you, I'm sure. And no pressure to play unless you want to. It's a great club.
If you've not been before I suggest you give them a ring beforehand & ask what info you need to bring with you (in terms of ID, etc) and what's the best time for them so they can show you round.
The place is a bit of a rabbit warren though, so you'll still get lost!!
I rarely go on a Saturday, but I'm sure it will be a great fun night - for watching or for joining in. Just remember that if anyone tries it on, or you get a wandering hand, you just need a simple "not just now - maybe later" and they will back off straight away, but you won't even get that unless you're in the thick of the audience for something, i would guess.
Let us know how you get on...?
WHAT you need to bring etc
On arrival at reception you will be stripped naked and served up in the round room for anyone's pleasure.
Ok not quite but you will be given membership, that is automatic for couples and single females but there can be a waiting list for single male membership. UNLESS you are deemed to have had too much to drink before you get there. (worth mentioning because it does happen with the "nerves and dutch courage" thing.
Membership done you will be shown to the couples changing rooms upstairs and a brief tour of the club facilities (because half the fun is the exploring on your own)
The dress code is: for women, either the towel (supplied) or lingerie, sexy theme outfits (nurse, schoolgirl etc) even sexy low cut mini dresses are acceptable but for outdoor clothing it does have to be very sexy. for men, the towel (supplied) or boxers.
The towels are supplied in your locker where you can leave your "arrival clothing" and valuables, if anyone requires a larger towel they can be requested in reception on arrival, towels will be changed free of charge as many times as you require throughout your stay on request at the bar (especially after drying off from the jacuzzi's, sauna or steam room or simply because you want as towels are very handy for squirters using rooms(has to be said).
ID required for both members of a couple and should have 1 form of photo ID (passport, dvg lic etc) and one utility type letter with your address on, if you do not live together you will need one for each of you. NO contact is ever made to your home address by the club and your information is NEVER given to any other person or organisation but UK law requires that as a member of a Private Members Club they have to have this information.
Chameleons is a BYOB club ie bring your own alcohol, this is held behind the bar for you and you simply request your drink by giving your locker number to the staff. Soft drinks, meals and snacks are available at the bar.
The club has it's own on site hotel rooms which are called "The Skylight Hotel" which is the name that would appear on any credit card bill or reciept for hotel rooms, you can pay for your soft drinks, admission, membership by credit card at the end of the evening and this shows up on your credit card statement as "Nicks"
The club has a heated outdoor partially sheltered smoking area and dressing gowns are provided.
If you have any other questions about the club feel free to e-mail me, The club is rated No1 in the UK by the latest Swingers Club Guide (Sex in the Cities published late 2011)
and is open 7 days and 7 nights a week closing on only Xmas Eve and Xmas Day.
NO means NO and the club has an excellent reputation for the behaviour of it's members, there is always an idiot in all walks of life, if you should have a problem with anyone have a quiet word with the staff who will deal with the matter firmly but discreetly at all times.
Warming the Bed
I think nerves still apply for everyone,
but I actually prefer chameleons to xtasia, because I've never had the 'wandering hand' experience there, I find people a little more respectable, probably because they value their memberships.
As for dress I always go in a basque and stockings, I can not bear the thought of towels, so for the ladies what ever lingerie you feel comfortable in.
It is a lovely friendly club, and the staff will do anything to help and make you feel comfortable.
Hope you have fun
xxx
but I actually prefer chameleons to xtasia, because I've never had the 'wandering hand' experience there, I find people a little more respectable, probably because they value their memberships.
As for dress I always go in a basque and stockings, I can not bear the thought of towels, so for the ladies what ever lingerie you feel comfortable in.
It is a lovely friendly club, and the staff will do anything to help and make you feel comfortable.
Hope you have fun
xxx
Quote by MidsCouple24
Chams will be fine for you, I'm sure. And no pressure to play unless you want to. It's a great club.
If you've not been before I suggest you give them a ring beforehand & ask what info you need to bring with you (in terms of ID, etc) and what's the best time for them so they can show you round.
The place is a bit of a rabbit warren though, so you'll still get lost!!
I rarely go on a Saturday, but I'm sure it will be a great fun night - for watching or for joining in. Just remember that if anyone tries it on, or you get a wandering hand, you just need a simple "not just now - maybe later" and they will back off straight away, but you won't even get that unless you're in the thick of the audience for something, i would guess.
Let us know how you get on...?
WHAT you need to bring etc
On arrival at reception you will be stripped naked and served up in the round room for anyone's pleasure.
Ok not quite but you will be given membership, that is automatic for couples and single females but there can be a waiting list for single male membership. UNLESS you are deemed to have had too much to drink before you get there. (worth mentioning because it does happen with the "nerves and dutch courage" thing.
Membership done you will be shown to the couples changing rooms upstairs and a brief tour of the club facilities (because half the fun is the exploring on your own)
The dress code is: for women, either the towel (supplied) or lingerie, sexy theme outfits (nurse, schoolgirl etc) even sexy low cut mini dresses are acceptable but for outdoor clothing it does have to be very sexy. for men, the towel (supplied) or boxers.
The towels are supplied in your locker where you can leave your "arrival clothing" and valuables, if anyone requires a larger towel they can be requested in reception on arrival, towels will be changed free of charge as many times as you require throughout your stay on request at the bar (especially after drying off from the jacuzzi's, sauna or steam room or simply because you want as towels are very handy for squirters using rooms(has to be said).
ID required for both members of a couple and should have 1 form of photo ID (passport, dvg lic etc) and one utility type letter with your address on, if you do not live together you will need one for each of you. NO contact is ever made to your home address by the club and your information is NEVER given to any other person or organisation but UK law requires that as a member of a Private Members Club they have to have this information.
Chameleons is a BYOB club ie bring your own alcohol, this is held behind the bar for you and you simply request your drink by giving your locker number to the staff. Soft drinks, meals and snacks are available at the bar.
The club has it's own on site hotel rooms which are called "The Skylight Hotel" which is the name that would appear on any credit card bill or reciept for hotel rooms, you can pay for your soft drinks, admission, membership by credit card at the end of the evening and this shows up on your credit card statement as "Nicks"
The club has a heated outdoor partially sheltered smoking area and dressing gowns are provided.
If you have any other questions about the club feel free to e-mail me, The club is rated No1 in the UK by the latest Swingers Club Guide (Sex in the Cities published late 2011)
and is open 7 days and 7 nights a week closing on only Xmas Eve and Xmas Day.
NO means NO and the club has an excellent reputation for the behaviour of it's members, there is always an idiot in all walks of life, if you should have a problem with anyone have a quiet word with the staff who will deal with the matter firmly but discreetly at all times.
Wow - theres some great info there pubman - wish we'd had that sort of repy when we posted about it as that covers pretty much all bases. We honestly prefer xstasias but know many who prefer chams. Its all personal choice at the end of the day and you've got to suck it and see, you'll never know till you try.
Deep breathes, Good luck and most of all - Enjoy yourselves and remember that one bit NO MEANS NO - do what you want and dont do what you dont want to and you'll be fine. xx
