Hi, we are couple who are from around nottingham. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24. We have been interested in the idea of swinging for a long time, but we are not sure how to get into it and find parties to go to. It would be our first time and woukld not want to feel pushed to join in straight away. Does anybody know any parties we could go to or any info about how to find parties. Please guys we are not interested in meeting single men at all we are only looking for genuine couples or singkle girls. Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance lauren and neil.
ps. Here are some pictures of e and my boyfriend , sorry about the quality we took them using our webcam!!
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This will seem a little odd coming from a single guy but I guess all advice is helpful and you can always diregard it as nonesense! It can be a very nerve racking experience taking the first steps into the unkown, I remember my first trip to Chameleons swingers club in birmingham, I am amazed I wasnt arrested for loitering around the car park, im going in.... no im not.... yes I am........ no im not! and I am normaly a very confidant type.
my problem was solved by a very attractive couple speakingto me inthe carpark and saying "this must be your first visit? dont worry we all felt like you do, come in have a drink and relax, the rest is history, there was no pressure to get involved, everyone was very friendly and very curtious, my only issue was the number of single guys that followed couple around, that made me feel uncomfortable and I now appreciate why as a single guy most couples dont welcome attention. that was my one and only visit to a club so it is very limited experience to base any advice on.
You are an honest, genuine and attractive couple so you wont have any difficulty finding great people to share your experiences and you wilshortly be wondering why you ever had doubts, my honest advise would be to avoid clubs and parties when you start out, use sites like this, forums, adultfriendfinder etc to meet up with a couple for a chat and drinks, if they know you are new to it they will appreciate exactly how you are feeling, it will then progress at your pace maybe just same room fun with your own partner and moving on to soft swing etc etc, whatever the case always remember you are in the driving seat so everything is at your pace. you will have a great luck. I will continue my quest for a partner so I can remove the Single tag!! I have a profile 106224 in which I am trying to get a small select group together as I have the location, if it happens and your ready it would be great to have you as friends, and thats not a poor chat up attempt, its genuine.
my problem was solved by a very attractive couple speakingto me inthe carpark and saying "this must be your first visit? dont worry we all felt like you do, come in have a drink and relax, the rest is history, there was no pressure to get involved, everyone was very friendly and very curtious, my only issue was the number of single guys that followed couple around, that made me feel uncomfortable and I now appreciate why as a single guy most couples dont welcome attention. that was my one and only visit to a club so it is very limited experience to base any advice on.
You are an honest, genuine and attractive couple so you wont have any difficulty finding great people to share your experiences and you wilshortly be wondering why you ever had doubts, my honest advise would be to avoid clubs and parties when you start out, use sites like this, forums, adultfriendfinder etc to meet up with a couple for a chat and drinks, if they know you are new to it they will appreciate exactly how you are feeling, it will then progress at your pace maybe just same room fun with your own partner and moving on to soft swing etc etc, whatever the case always remember you are in the driving seat so everything is at your pace. you will have a great luck. I will continue my quest for a partner so I can remove the Single tag!! I have a profile 106224 in which I am trying to get a small select group together as I have the location, if it happens and your ready it would be great to have you as friends, and thats not a poor chat up attempt, its genuine.
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Errr ad 106224 does not exist
Maybe because of the content, if he's trying to organise a select group?
Loz & Neil, why not put together an ad., to include some of your pictures?
I have just found out how easy it is to make a total arse of myself in public, proof if proof were needed to loz & Neil that my advice should be ignored, go with the experienced view, it sounds good to me.
I have no idea where the number 106224 came from, maybe its a membership number, my real add numbers were 407477 & 407469 although with my credibility in tatters im not expecting a mad rush to respond but they were honest and genuine.
point taken on mentionng other sites, I thought with it being an open forum it would not be an issue but a good point.
I will now slope off to the back of the class and work out how to redeem myself!
I have no idea where the number 106224 came from, maybe its a membership number, my real add numbers were 407477 & 407469 although with my credibility in tatters im not expecting a mad rush to respond but they were honest and genuine.
point taken on mentionng other sites, I thought with it being an open forum it would not be an issue but a good point.
I will now slope off to the back of the class and work out how to redeem myself!
hi everyone and thanks for all your replys i have now made a photo ad and put my pics in there i hope it works
i think we will keep posting and going in to the chat alot and start getting to know people and get in to swinging that way just see what comes up i guess
thanks again everyone see you all around
i think we will keep posting and going in to the chat alot and start getting to know people and get in to swinging that way just see what comes up i guessthanks again everyone see you all around
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hi everyone and thanks for all your replys i have now made a photo ad and put my pics in there i hope it works
thanks again everyone see you all around
Hiya you two and welcome to the site.
I'm more than willing to meet the pair of you and sit and have a coffee and a chat.
I'm not saying that I know the answers to all your questions, but I can certainly set your minds at rest about there being LOADS of non-pushy people on SH.
I'm a munch veteran. (Attended most of them around the country this year)
And don't worry about me being a single guy. I've met loads of people off the site and they will (hopefully) tell you that I am one of the least pushy people on here.
I'm from Chesterfield, so not too far away and always willing to travel for a coffee and a chat.
Have a look at my ad. 51288 and PM me or mail me from the ad and we can meet for a chat and I can maybe set your minds at ease and hopefully persuade you to get your names down for one of the upcoming munches.
Once again Welcome to the site.
Take care
Marcuso
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Lauren and Niel come on over into the Cafe and say Hello , get to know a few people, and you'll find its a hell of alot easier to find out where the parties are, and to get your names down for them!
You might feel a bit more at ease once you meet a few folk from here socially (at a munch - purely social, so no pressure whatsoever)
and, as Sarah suggests, with pics like those, get your 'delete' button at the ready!!
above all, :welcome: to SH!
hi thanks for ur nice comments , we had ago at going in the chat room today but very fast moving in there to fast to keep uo with :P:P i havnt used chatrooms for years but we will try again tommorow :) and thanks so much for all the info its been a really big help
take care all cya ariound
, we had ago at going in the chat room today but very fast moving in there to fast to keep uo with :P:P i havnt used chatrooms for years but we will try again tommorow :) and thanks so much for all the info its been a really big helptake care all cya ariound
